How do I be happy?

[Anonymous]

I really don't know what to do in my life as I've felt this way a long time. I dont have an amazing job, I'm not great looking and I dont have a great body.
I'm completely average in every way so I'm not that noticeable.
I have no ambitions or aspirations in life so I don't really know what to do with it.
I'm 25 and I live in my own house and I have some friends , never had a girlfriend and many girls just seem to play with my head.
I just seem to just work eat and sleep so I have nothing else. Is there any way to be happy.
I'm 25 and everyone else has went so much further than I have , I still feel like a child not a man

[Anonymous]

First thing to do is stop comparing you life to everyone else’s, because you are not on anyone else’s journey but your own and that’s where your focus should be. If fact that’s what you should do in general — get focused. If you don’t feel fulfilled or happy at your job then actively search for one that gives you purpose or meaning. Aren’t happy with your body? Get a gym membership and work out. As for looks, you don’t have to be the most handsome man on earth, confidence goes a long way. I’ll take a not-so-handsome guy with a great personality and who treats me right any day, because what’s inside is what matters most. Looks fade.

[Opinion Owner]

All of your “issues” are fixable, you just have to decide you want to change things then dedicate yourself to doing the work.

[Asker]

Feels like it's easier said than done , I don't have that motivation anymore to work at it

[Opinion Owner]

It’s because you’re looking at the finish line before you even start the race. Getting the lives we want is not easy but it is worth it. Under 30, you’re really just starting, and not on anyone else’s time but your own. If you need motivation, think of imagining yourself 10 years from now. Do you really want to be the guy who gave up and decided to dedicate his life to his job? No wife, kids, or real means of happiness? I don’t think anyone wants that. Everything in this life is easier said than done of course, Bc we can talk about what we want for ourselves all day. But you see real changes once you actually start, and it’s very rewarding once you see progress.