What’s it called when you obsess over things?

I’m trying to explain to my partner what it’s called when u obsessively think things. Like for example sometimes he will say something to me and I will repeatedly all day think about it and obsess over it if I’m concerned and I get anxiety. Or sometimes il have to say things 5 times otherwise I think something bad will happen and I can’t recall what it’s called is this a mental health condition? I know I can use google but in terms of dating this happens, or if I feel like my partner isn’t being perfect I stress out so much and need certain routine

What’s it called when you obsess over things?
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