How do I know how tight/ lose my vagina is?

[Anonymous]

Genuine question, I am not a troll. Just something I’m intrigued about. It clearly doesn’t matter either way, but seen as it’s my vagina I’d like some insight. Is there anyway I can test etc?

[RavVid]

I think it is a reasonable topic to ponder on. But the less turned on a woman is, generally the tighter she is and the more turned on the looser she is. As one girl cracked to me that it is not a perfect world. The more aroused the girl is the less good it is for the guy and vice versa.

As a guy, it does vary as to how tight your girl is for you depends roughly on her excitement levels. Mostly it is at a warm wet glove level but if you are doing a good job you can get her to a doesn't touch the sides level of arousement. Or as another girl graphically put it to me, "I couldn't keep a tampon in".

Ideally, girls could buy a set of standard dildos of increasing girth to test how tight they are but to mean anything you would have to be at a standard level of arousement. I guess you could get yourself to the point you can orgasm and slip in the standard dildos till you feel some resistance and that nominally is the width/tightness of your vagina. It would mean something but not everything. You would need to repeat the measurement quite a number of times so you can get a good average.

If you are interested in measuring your depth (and why wouldn't you be?) that would seem much easier. But again I think you should get yourself close to orgasm first. I have seen girls on pornhub measuring their depth but they seem to cheat and give themselves an extra inch or so :).

[RavVid]

In the absence of standard dildo sets I guess you just have to buy an assortment and remember the diameter is approx circumference divided by 3.14 approx.

I wanted to point out a little more in case it helps. As an unaroused woman, your vagina is a collapsed folded tube. An early girlfriend and I had a game around this we would sometimes do.

I would line up and apply light penile pressure at her entrance. That would cause at little moisture and the tip of my tip would go in a bit. With continued penile pressure her vaginal entrance would open more and my tip would definitely be in. With more constant penile pressure, a little while later her entrance would open more and let my head in. That was a special point because the ring of the entrance muscle would close behind my head. Felt great.

From there her vagina progressively opened up. After the head was in, the first inch would let go and I would sink that amount but then meet vaginal resistance. With continued penile pressure the next inch would let go and I was in another inch deeper. And that would repeat - inch by inch. Eventually her whole vagina would let go and I could slip slide away the entire depth of a perfect warm wet vaginal glove.

[RavVid]

Loved that slow burn penetration as I got to experience her vagina lubricating, unfolding and lengthening. That girlfriend enjoyed it too as a sexual tease. You could view this as an adolescent just the tip game but it is really exciting to feel that extra tightness and the girl's vagina letting go of it's resistance. If you have a guy you can trust not to ram it in, up to the hilt in one thrust and hurt you then consider trying it.

The other point of these observations is that your tightness is not going to at operational level until you are at the point you can take a man thrusting.

Incidentally too, past your cervix is the posterior fornix - google if unsure. And that my girl is beautifully snug tight and girls seem to enjoy the snug tight feeling too. If I go in flat I seem to be able to in there with most girls.

Enjoy your tightness!

[Dargil]

Just like Global Temperature, there is no standard for Vaginal tightness. But you can measure it objectively with a set of these dilators; sometimes used for treating Vaginismus. This set varies from 1/2" to 1-3/8". Penis heads do get wider than this but it is a start.

[_Maya_]

If you can walk around with a AAA battery in there and not have it fall out then you got a winner. I'm joking. Don't go sticking a battery in your coochie. I was just being stupid. tightness is going to be somewhat relative to his size don't ya think? I mean if he is thicker than average I would say the average vagina is going to feel tight. That sounds like solid logic. I don't think there is any standard test though (don't do the battery test) that will tell you yay or nay. Whoever it is should be happy they get to stick it in there right?

[RoseySarah]

I'll add in exercise those muscles cause it is a huge muscle and while it won't feel loose from not exercising l.
It will lead to better sex and pleasure for you both!

[zeitgeist057]

@RoseySarah kegels are a game changer. I still remember one of the best orgasms of my life was with a woman who masturbated frequently by doing kegels. What she could do with her vagina was legendary.

[Anonymous]

Seems like a troll question to me.

[ProbablyClueless]

Best advice is to simply not worry about it. Your vagina is capable of getting loose enough to pass a baby and then she squeezes back down to the point she can make a man pump another baby insider her so she'll have to get wide enough to do it again.

However tight or loose your vagina is; it is enough.

[RealMarek]

The only way to do this would be to have sex with a statistically representative sample of sexually experienced men and account for the fact that many of them will not want to be honest if you are “loose.” I don’t recommend it. If you’re worried about this, the best thing to do is to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles.

[genericname85]

i mean you can litterally test this by weight lifting xD sounds stupid but that shit exists. it's some sort of yoni egg you put inside and you can attach weight to it to see how much you can lift just with the clench of your vagina.

[exitseven]

These should do the trick

Inside calipers

[Fireguy17]

It doesn't matter.
According to the experts it will handle the task at hand, and still be able to have a kid come out of it.
If a guy can cum inside of you then it is just right.

[jahaims]

They are all about the same. The looser and wetter you are the more aroused you are. You can do kegels to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles. If you are worried about it you can flex while he is in you and squeeze.

[bananathunder]

all pussies are tight in my opinion. At least they all feel about the same. I never felt a "loose" pussy. Pretty sure that is a myth

[bananathunder]

I would try to insert one finger then two then three etc until it feels too tight. It's usually hard to fit more than 3 in my opinion

[Jdodkfndosn]

Frankly the only difference I've ever really noticed is with the women who have given birth. Even then, some are able to get back pretty close where they were

[OddBeMe]

I guess stick your (clean) hand in and give your vagina a handshake. If you feel pretty good grip on your (clean) hand, I think you’re good.

But kegels are a good exercise Even for men. Good on our anus muscles. I’m doing some now.

[FunkyMonkee]

Try it on a few different things: carrots, cucumbers, eggplants, pool cues, drumsticks, turkey basters, etc..

[AviatorTom]

Get a standard size dildo, lube it up and insert it. Does it feel loose? Tight? Just right?

[Anonymous]

Just do the finger test. If you can fit an entire hand in there, then it’s probably not tight. Seriously, it’s probably still tight as long as you haven’t been purposely stretching it out (it’s apparently a thing, oddly enough)

[Nifrayu]

First you want to make sure you are fully aroused. Testing your unnaroused tightness is like a guy measuring his flaccid girth.

[Longshanks1968]

I'd never felt a loose pussy, if a guy is always complaining about loose pussy the you can be assure he is hung like a gerbil. Lol

[tfan1]

Masturbate with a dildo and see how difficult it is to insert it into your vagina 🙂

[YAsQuen]

well buy an average sized dildo. Lupe it up and if u get it in with no arousement whatsover ur loose.

[Anonymous]

Ask your doctor. Believe it or not they have a tool that measures that.

[electromagnetic]

Put your three finger inside and squeeze.

[Anonymous]

Count the teeth.

[shades777]

when the socket falls out the outlet

[dolemite58]

just do kegels regularly