Girls, do you prefer skinny and cut or beefy but without much definition?

[regular-guy]

From a pure physical preferences point of view, do you think skinnier guys with great muscle definition or beefier guys without much visible muscle definition are more attractive?

[bobair]

It don't matter. It's like asking men if they like big t*ts or round ass's.

The TRUTH, and pay attention here, is that women don't "CHOOSE" who they're attracted to. Women don't date men because of thier preferences.

If they did then women would only date Millionairs with six-packs. But they don't. They date fat slobs like me, who are broke every other weekend.

Why?

Because attraction isn't a choice.

Learn how to be attractive (emotionally) and you'll NEVER have trouble with women - no matter how you look.

Google "attraction" and do some learnin.

~ Robby

www.FULLofHATEandREADYtoDATE.com ( link )

[InquisitiveMale]

Listen to all these women saying they don't care so long as he has a good personality. I'm sorry but I don't agree with that. What's the first thing you check when checking compatibility? It’s whether or not you are attracted to him.

If you don't find him attractive chances are you're not going to give him a chance to charm you with his personality.

[gravygirl]

Skinny and cut. I used to watch boxing with my dad and I always liked the middleweights. That beefy & flabby look is kind of gross to me. It makes me think of sweaty, smelly guys at work who always need the room like 5 degrees cooler than everyone else. Plus I always think that's just going to equal fat when they get older. It pretty much always goes in that direction. Those dudes don't age well.

[regular-guy]

This answer made me laugh. =D Glad to see you are thinking about the future shape of your guy. Kind of like when guys are given the advice, "Before you get too serious with a girl, make sure to get a good look at her mother."

[gravygirl]

I don't know if I'd take it that far. My mom and don't look alike at all. But yeah, it's something I've thought about. Especially since every time I run into one of those guys from high school or college they look like Before pictures from a weight loss ad.

[JustBeCurious]

I like both. I'm just scared of dating those guys to get supppperrr huge muscles and go to contests...It scares me. You'd never know that you had that many muscles though..you can see everryyy onnnneeee! D: I wouldn't want to stand next to guy ... it's scary to me cause I'm small I'm only 5 1 I don't want a guy who'd squish me flat as a pancake!

[Anonymous]

I would prefer a beefier guy without much visible muscle because I want to feel protected and that he is bigger and stronger than I am. I know as someone said they might not be a great fighter but it is more the feeling. I am also almost 6 feet tall and medium build so I could not be with a skinny guy who is smaller than me.

[temptationfalls]

well, I'm skinny with muscle definition and my friend is fat with barely any muscle definition, we both flirt the same way but I get the girls easier than he does so from my experience the skinnier guys with muscle definition wins. could maybe just be a difference in attractiveness in our faces too.

[ivarei]

beefy, but I depends on how beefy. I don't like guys built like linebackers. in my opinion, skinny guys aren't really cut, the reason they seem to have definition is that they have no fat on their bodies so there is nothing to cover up their core muscles. but in reality, they don't have much muscle either.

[regular-guy]

I can see your point on that.

[sexylexy]

i like the skinnier with a little muscle...big dudes with huge muscles freak me out. haha, I can understand if someone just grew into a big guy, but making yourself into a huge muscley wresler type dude just isn't attractive to me.

[ashlea1102]

To me, looks don't matter. No matter what shape, size, height. Its really the personality which means the most.

[darkscorpio]

Can someone explain why this answer got marked down? Because I don't get it.

[regular-guy]

I don't know, darkscorpio. I didn't mark it down, but maybe others did because it didn't really answer the question. =?

[GoodManDave]

Scorpio, It could just be that some guys would never believe a young woman would "not care" about a guys looks. It could be accidental, like they were going for a positive, or that she didn't officially answer the question the way they thought the poster wanted. It could be many different things, but those might be the most likely.

[ArtistBboy]

I haven't marked it - the comment is neutral and so whether or not I agree is neutral.

In general - I would not believe that comment because of how many times I heard it =( sorry ashlea, but thanks for voicing your opinion - gals like you (if your being sincere) will triumph over all

[ashlea1102]

Its a shame guys can't believe that when a girl says it, I think its a lot to do with the amount of superficial women in the world who just go for people on looks. I won't deny that I if I see someone I think is hot Ill think "Ohh Id have a bit of him" But I don't prefer anything, just someone whos nice and can treat a girl right. In a sense it does answer the question. Its like on a survey, you always get a "dont know" or "dont care" option. I think that looks don't say a thing......

[ashlea1102]

.... Its like, you can find the hottest guy in your town, but he could also be arrogant or violent. Its such a shame people don't accept that women value personality over looks. The personality is key, the looks are just a bonus.

[regular-guy]

I can buy that many women (and men too by the way) value personality over looks. That is why I tried to make it specific in my question that I wasn't talking about the whole person, just his physical appearance. We all know it is way more in depth than just skinny or beefy. But there are other questions for those responses.

[ashlea1102]

Well I understand your point, but I did answer your question by saying looks don't matter, in other words I'm not bothered if they are 6 foot 5 and have muscles bigger than my head or whether they are 5 foot 7 and skinny but ripped. It doesn't bother me really. The fact that I prefer to look at personality is just an additional comment.

[NirvanaChick]

anything...as long as they are cute...i go ANY way!

[Itsokimonlyonfire]

I like guys with some meat on their bones to be honest I don't know what it is I just find it more attractive I also feel more like a girl when I'm with a guy who doesn't look like I can brake him just my opinion :) but really depends on who you are I like anyone with an amazing personality hope this helped ^_^

[aliceinwonderland]

This may sound weird but I prefer a skinny and cut look on a visual level. But as far as feeling and sensation it's often more enjoyable and more sexy when a guy is bigger, even though I don't necessarily find them attractive. Hope that makes sense.

[bebebunny143]

beefy...i like thick guys I hate skinny guys I would hate to date a little skinny guy...i like to feel protected ...

[ArtistBboy]

Hah - Tae Kwan Do ; Ju Jitz Zu ; Cambodian Kick Boxing ; Tai Chi + any of these movements = MASSIVE damage... Keep in mind this "skin head" of a guy would only be throwing his weight around. Fighting is an art form which requires precision strikes - a big guy is also easier to take down based on the location of Artery Veins from the solar plexus being well exposed.

All the same, you are entitled to your opinion - but I believe that comment was made without thinking.

[valentin87]

Lol, you seem to be a stupid girl. I'm 6 foot and athletic but I admit I prefer to fight taller and bigger guys than me. I've seen a few little dudes beat the sh*t out of big guys and it was embarrassing as f***. never underestimate smaller and skinnier guys! they are more flexible and if they have a good fighting technique they are able to beat any guy up. just look at guys like bruce lee. they would destroy your "big" boyfriend within seconds. you really should stop deluding yourself.

[bebebunny143]

I didn't say little dudes can't fight...i just said I don't like them...and it doesn't make me stupid because I prefer a certain type of guy ...deluding myself asshole I think not sorry your jealous you cold never get a bitch like me so quit hating..

[regular-guy]

This conversation got way off track. I understand the comfort of having a bigger guy for girls, and it isn't really about fighting skills.

[Niko-r]

Both are fine personalitybis more important but pureley physical I would say muscular but with some meat on their bones lanky boys are gross .. Girls like something to hold and cuddle up with!

[Anonymous]

both are fine with me, all that really matters to me is that he is mature and intelligent.

[DuggieFresh]

Im closer to the skinny end of the spectrum and toned and most women say they like it since I've got the "natural" look.

[princessevils]

Either...everyone has their thing. mine is bald or short short hair, nice smile and sense of humor. I couldn't care less about the physical.

[jessie63]

I like a skinnier guy with a little bit of muscle definition. : )

[Anonymous]

BEEFY! Not fat, but I don't give a sh*t about muscle as long has you have broad shoulders and thick arms.. Mmmm.. sexy...

[Cool-Relax]

I've been attracted to both, but I generally prefer skinny guys with muscle.

[ALWAYSclassy]

Beefy without definition. I prefer bigger guys over skinny ones.

[cheerangelcharity]

skinnier guys...with only a little muscle definition.

[jd123x]

it depends on the height of a guy, because that can make him look a lot skinnier, even though he may have good muscles. In the end I think as long as a guy is fit, it doesn't matter what shape he is! hope I helped :)

[Anonymous]

Skinny guys with muscle definition! Oh yesssss... and they usually have big shlongs too

[Anonymous]

I honestly don't care. Just being average is fine. You don't have to be big and muscled up.

[princess89]

i love 6pack:)

[Anonymous]

both are fine

[regular-guy]

Easy to please means more options =)