Isn't it better to accept that you're not a lovable person? That you're just a burden, a waste of space, a failure, etc?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

Wow is that really how you see yourself you need to take a couple steps back and think for a whole day without any noise at all reevaluate yourself and I would hope that you would change all those because if you really feel like that then you should go talk to somebody because that's not good there's no reason why you can't love yourself there's no reason why you can't be confident there's no reason why you can't be happy you're the only person on the inside of you so that means you're the only person in this world they can make you happy or sad nobody else and if people are judging you let them judge all they want it's none of their business and they don't know what you're going through so they don't actually honestly know you so get out of your head think about things find your confidence because without it you're going to be miserable all your life and that's not your destiny you think it's hard to come into this life to make it to the finish line guess what it's even rougher going out when you die and you walk into that light what's going to be in that bright light is everything you just said up there and you have to confront all those reasons all those things and if you get scared and run you're going to have to come back and do it all over again but if you're confident now and you take everything on you keep going forward to a better place I've been think about everything you said and if you can't do it for yourself then you need find somebody to help you get through it because you got a long life ahead of you and I'm telling you right now being happy is the only way to do it not one day miserable believe me you have to be happy and you can do that because like I said you're the only person on the inside they can

[slippery2000]

I feel like that every day I wake up

[Apple1996]

Nah you have to remember that everyone has good and bad qualities about themselves. You are lovable even if you feel like a failure or whatever like someone will come along and be able to put the bad things about you aside and love you

[jahaims]

Or you could stop throwing yourself a pity party and I don't know.. become a decent person that other humans actually want to be around.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, honesty is the best policy

[Adel50]

No, it's not.