Can I have a best woman instead of a best man at my wedding?

[Anonymous]

My best friend is a woman and I want her to be by my side when I get married, my girlfriend is cool with it as well.

Can I have a "best woman" at my wedding?

[DarkAngel1619]

Definitely! You can have whoever you want standing up there with you! Its the person that you value most as a friend that you have as your bestman best woman. No one can decide for you who is standing up there. I would so do that if I was a guy, have a girl be my best man but id have them wear a girls tux lol

[Gotcha_Writer10]

Sure, it's your wedding do what you want. And if your fiance is cool with it too, even more encouragement to have her be your best man. Not gonna lie, it would be hella adorable for her to wear the whole tuxedo and everything too lol but that's just what I'd do!!!

[Asker]

Lol she already has a blue dress for the occasion, she's a total girly girl.

[Gotcha_Writer10]

That's ok too lol So long as everyone enjoys themselves, that's all that matters,

[the_imperfectionist]

Omg I love that idea. As long as you and your partner is OK then go for it. Its your wedding after all.

[Gothd011]

I would not judge you and who cares what anyone else thinks.

Congrats!

[OvershareGamer]

You can but expect everyone there to think that you are tapping her and never tell you for years.

[AndrewMG]

My Brother did, I think it's probably more popular than you imagine.

[fulloflife]

Will she wear a suit? If yes, then no u can't
u can have 2 maid of honors tho!

[Gotcha_Writer10]

Why not? It's their wedding, they can doccwhast they want. Even the bride is fine with it.

[fulloflife]

@Gotcha_Writer10 women dont wear suits at a wedding

[Gotcha_Writer10]

Sure they can. And some do. There are many flattering pant suits for women.

[fulloflife]

@Gotcha_Writer10 its sad how society has left structure

[Gotcha_Writer10]

Time moves on, and so do mindsets. It's life.

[Asker]

No, she will wear a blue dress.

[fulloflife]

if she wears a blue dress then its fine. ig its not the title that matters but the bond

[Asker]

She wants to be my best man so to speak, so we have a female maid of honor and best woman.

[fulloflife]

thats fine. good look on ur big day.
a woman in a suit would be weird

[Under_Maps_OF_twigs]

Yes you can. Hopefully dressed like a woman too.

[Asker]

She has a blue dress for it.

[MlleCake]

Yep. Totally. I have many friends who did it.

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Yes. Anything goes these days

[princessfromjupiter]

Sure, she’ll still be your best man regardless

[JustJen]

Of course you can.

[EmmaMary]

Of course you can.

[Kelly6]

Sure