As a kid, i literally wanted to make a baby with someone of each ethnicity just to see how i looked mixed with each 😂 I didn't realize i’d have to become a hoe to succeed in that. So that dream died. Anyways, i realize black is beautiful and i’m more than happy with my baby being just that. I’ve technically dated each— black, white, hispanic (puerto rican, dominican, mexican), native American, south Asian (pakistani/indian), East Asian (japanese), southeast Asian (filipino)—enough to know what i want for myself. I wouldn't say that any of these men ruined it for other men of their same ethnicity, but at this rate i just prefer to stick with my own ethnicity. The ones I rock with just “get” me more in terms of understanding and similar experiences
It depends on who I'm dating at the time, if they are within my ethnicity and race then I'd go with that, if I'm dating interracial I'd choose out of it. Right now I'm dating someone out of race, so I want to marry out my own ethnicity and race aka the bae 😂
That's a tricky question for a biracial person who bounced across three different cultures growing up. I did find I ended up marrying a Japanese woman though, and maybe that is closest to the culture I have at heart. I dated a variety before that but there might be something to how the formative culture (Japan in my case) helped me to get along with Japanese people more than anyone else. Well, there's the language for a start. I can't communicate so well in English.
On the flip side, I don't think I ever consciously preferred Japanese or even Irish/American (my other ethnicity). But maybe I can get along with Japanese people better. I still have a lot of Japanese mannerisms in person. I prefer bow over handshake if I have a choice as a very blatant example. But at the same time, it is so interesting to me to travel the world and meet people of other cultures and I like to try to adapt and learn the culture. Still, I ended up marrying Japanese at the end -- kinda around the world and right back to where I started. Maybe I click more with Japanese.
For me it's indifferent honestly. I was with and intended to marry a person outside my race before things ended between us, so race it's not a particular factor for me. My current fiancée is of my own race - but another country and heritage - and it doesn' matter to me.
Would only date or marry within my own race. If everyone of my kind was to intermarry, my kind would be wiped out after a couple of generations. Therefore I personally would refuse to date or marry outside or my race, as I'm proud of it, an want it to continue, and would want my kids the opportunity to be a full blooded Greek, like I did.
I'm middle eastern / lived in the west for few years i would pick middle eastern girls. There is good and bad everywhere for sure but at least dating within your own race will remove the culture barriers
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I prefer white men, and I am a white girl. White men are more of my cup of tea.
Stick to your own people. Those non black families aren't gonna desire you as part in their family. Trust me on me that lest go around embarrassing yourself suffering shame when they see you or talking behind your back.
Honestly I understand what your saying, I do but I have dated my people and there are beautiful black women out there, but I rather not date them. But who knows I am only 18, my way of thinking may change
Listen, I understand you're very young still but I know what I'm telling you.
You being with a black woman assuming you find a good one will built yourself esteem and self love since she's a reflection of you and black history.
Your preferences that you mentioned don't perfer you as first choice, but those women desire men of their own race/ethnicities but are rejects from men of their own communities and are left has very low hanging fruit or fruit on the ground for black men to pick up.
It's embarrassing. Your pride as a man should be very important.
Straight up bro, being a part of a interracial family, we ant talking about you, thats in your head. We might ask if you are better in bed, but thats it. Those people you talking about not as nasty as you think.
