Lately I’ve heard that guys don’t always marry who they love but rather who sticks around when they are ready to get married. what do you think?

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t-8900 · Accepted Answer

You might have loved before but those loves fade. The one that sticks around becomes your everything in the end. Your love for them will be deeper than any others. The trick to falling in love Is LETTING yourself call in love. ginna ha e to our down ALL your walls and be willing for heartbreak until you find them. Then that love will grow stronger and last. My parents marriage failed and it's obvious it was for 2 reasons. My mom and wanted more adventures and my dad wasn't willing to open up all the way. The combination created a hell on earth for my sister and I. The kids... it's always the kids that pay the heaviest price smh.

BCA6010 · Accepted Answer

I know more than a few men who definitely didn't marry the right person, but in most cases it's because they rushed into it and neither of them were really ready for it. A lot of the time, their relationship is propelled almost exclusively by sex and little to nothing else.

Toldol2 · Accepted Answer

I think they Marry When they feel good about themselves financially. They usually go back to women they met before and marry the woman who is available to follow them with their personal goals …

JustAnj · Accepted Answer

Married my highschool sweetheart 🤷 I knew he was it for me, my guy knew too, he just wanted to give me more than he had to offer, I already had the best thing, him. 🥰

Shizunk · Answer

Sticking around is a damn good quality if you ask me. Not to be taken lightly. In fact, if all a woman could offer is willingness to stay and raise children well, that alone is a solid reason to love her. It might depend on your definition of love I guess...

FriendlyCanadianGuy · Answer

Well you sorta end up loving the one that sticks around ! I don't believe in love anymore so I think that's true

SEL195 · Answer

I think that is sad. I hope that is not the case with me.  I guess you are right though... Damn...

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

Wrong.  People marry for many reasons, but "You happen to be available at the moment for a contract that will involve the church, the government and our families" doesn't sound like one of them.

madgoat · Answer

There's a smidgeon of truth to that for both sexes but I don't imagine most people marry someone they don't think will last and who they don't love.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Partially true. It doesn't matter who a man loves he won't settle down until its time in his life. Then whoever is there is who he is most likely to settle down with.

Subarugirl · Answer

Doesn't anyone who gets married end up marring the person that sticks around

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I disagree. We love the women who prove that they are worth loving.

Shawn411 · Answer

Is it fair to say love comes later rather than in the beginning especially if it's true love...

Anonymous · Answer

I married a woman that I loved.

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

Dont think anyone marries who they want in the end

ChiPaPa · Answer

Same thing happens with women. Shit happens.

FictionalCharacter · Answer

Yeah.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Sometimes sure

TwoToTooTutu2 · Answer

Yeap...

Jay3344 · Answer

I believe it.

Notfabricated11 · Answer

Most men will settle

Myself_Firefly · Answer

It depends...

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