Do you think that you have to do everything right to be able to get married?

[Anonymous]

[dustybiker]

No, you have to be the right match. Without effort.

[KatherineJ]

Of course not! We are all flawed.

[Asker]

Are you married?

[KatherineJ]

Yep. 😌

[Asker]

How old were you when you got married?

[KatherineJ]

I was 29.

[Asker]

I'm 25 and still not married

[KatherineJ]

And that’s ok!

[Finchie40]

Not everything right but you are best to marry someone you have a lot in common with I mean a lot in common , not just a few things, cuz sadly in today’s world people have become very selfish and only really think about themselves , I blame a lot of failed relationships on social media for warping people’s minds of making them think grass is greener on the other side , mainly cheating and affairs has become a huge topic that everyone cheats and everyone has affairs which is the biggest load of shit , Smart phones have destroyed the way most people think these days cuz most people are glued to their phones and will take in useless information that is spread all over social media , so word of advice if you want your marriage to last put down your damn phones the both of you , and focus on each other and value each other and respect each other , remove selfishness for each other , things won’t always be perfect but when you wear your partners shoes like they should be wearing yours, love will continue growing between you 2 , if you can’t do that for each other then your marriage will not last bottom line , Marry someone that you want to be a team with not someone you are going to depend on to make you happy all the time but someone that has your back like you have theirs , Make decisions together and make each other your top priority , Just because you might think something is on your partner might think otherwise , so always talk to them before making decisions , it has nothing to do with trust it comes down to respect for each other , Marriages are not easy but when you find someone that loves you unconditionally and accepts your flaws like you accept theirs love will grow , Keep sex alive in your marriage as well even if you aren’t in the mood , when sex dies down in a marriage so does the marriage , don’t let anyone else tell you other wise. It doesn’t take a lot to keep a man happy as long as he feels respected and valued and loved he will move mountains for you , if you make him feel that he isn’t a man and you lose respect for him then be prepared for disaster , That’s the only true advice I can give if you want your marriage to last

[DaveJord]

No, trust me on this... lots of ladies/gents have told me stories about their ex-husband/wife and I just scratch my head as to why they ever got married. They never can give me a good answer, most the time they say, "He wasn't like that at the beginning." But as the story unfolds there were clear indicators that he was not the right guy for here. Most the time it is chalked up to youth, being naïve, and desperate desire to be married, because sociality puts undo stress on people that makes them believe they have to be married by 30 or something is wrong with them.

In fairness there were all types of warnings signs when I was dating my ex-wife but I was 20 and didn't really know what I know now. But my story was nothing like the horror stories I have heard over the years.

[VikingWarLord]

Go sit in a DIVORCE COURT ROOM for a week.
you'll learn a lot

[Asker]

How is that answering my question?

[VikingWarLord]

Sitting there listening to Divorce Cases will answer your question

[MacLove999]

You should do eveeything wrong to learn to deal with issues at young age. Avoiding issues and problems is actually bad for marriage. Bigger the issues the better you learn to grow and mature faster.

[Anonymous]

could you elaborate more?

[cloud9vortex1234]

No, thats not possible.

[James899]

Not at all.

[Asker]

How so?

[Anonymous]

I do