Would most married women mind if their husband told another woman she is beautiful?

[Anonymous]

Specifically, if it was said one-on-one.

[ShineBeauTAEfully]

I might be odd, but I would actually appreciate that he told me he finds her beautiful. Why? because it shows that 1. he is honest with me and 2. he is comfortable enough in our relationship that he says what is on his mind without the fear of being judged or yelled at. I would also probably add my input on what her most beautiful features are, and we could have a conversation about it. If the woman and I were friends, then I would most likely tell her about the conversation my husband and I had. I don't have a husband though, so my answer might change when I get one.

I don't think most women would like it if their husband's said another woman is beautiful.

[Xoxocutekitty]

I would not like it.

If he gave a specific compliment, she has a beautiful smile or great fashion taste in a situation where she was feeling nervous for a date or in general down about herself, I would be OK.

I think routinely telling a woman she's beautiful, has about the same effect as a woman bringing up sex jokes, referencing to his package or abilities.

Sure its harmless the first time, but it also has a tendency to gray the area of what is OK and what isn't okay, which can cause "he said she meant" disagreements which are more likely to upset your partner as things escalate.

[AviatorTom]

I certainly hope she wouldn't mind. My then-wife, my current SO, and other women I've dated, have often told me "That guy is hot." If women can do it, why can't we guys?

[FilmGuy93]

I have never once met a single woman who would be 100% chill with that. The closest I've encountered is that ocassionally some women would only be mildly irritated.

[watercolor_lions]

If I was there in the room, I wouldn't mind.

If she was crying and he said it to comfort her and then told me, I wouldn't mind.

If they were alone and he just said it, I would mind.

[Mrs2112]

I personally absolutely mind he doesn't need to acknowledge any other woman's Beauty but my own unless he has a death wish and if he has the nerve to tell another woman She's beautiful why did we even get married call me crazy but I find it disrespectful

[Tammymooory9]

That would totally be out of line. I would be pissed off. I would hit the mother fucker in the head with a frying pan

[RedStiletto88]

I would mind a little, as I prefer he calls me that but I wouldn’t be upset. I mean we live and sleep together , however if he was starting to obsess over her then that’s a completely different reaction from mr.

[HaveNoName]

It just doesn't sound appropriate; even the idea of doing so. Specially in person.

[KatherineJ]

@HaveNoName it’s the “one on one” part that doesn’t sit right. I mean why would my husband be one on one with some random chick?

[Luckycharms12]

Thinks another woman is beautiful isn't that okay doesn't mean he wants her or anything

[mobiusforniner]

My wife did lol

[ProVox]

You should have made this a poll. 😆

[Anonymous]

yes. yes i fucking would mind.

[Opinion Owner]

it's disrespectful and inappropriate. also, some things just shouldn't be said out loud.

[Jamesshinobi]

mature women wouldn't.

[KatherineJ]

Yes I would mind!

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't care.