Does or did anyone else feel like this?

[Anonymous]

I'm planning my wedding which will be in 2024 and I just feel like anything I do my mom thinks it's incorrect the venue that I want is beautiful and cheap and not at a hotel which I love... but she keeps telling me to look at other ones and that I need to keep looking then when I came to my flowers I already bought 170 flours for $70 on sale but then it was my flowers aren't good enough and that I should of bought from another site inside ad od my solo flowers site which is a good brand and I git a really good deal on them... but I just feel like everything I do is wrong and that I don't deserve to have my wedding taht the venue I want and that I'm just not good enough but then when I talk about eloping that was s horrible idea I got told I just don't know what to do

[Summeroflove]

Well she might be trying to be helpful. But it’s you and your fiancés wedding. Not here.

[Anonymous]

Honestly it sounds like right now isn’t a good time to be planning a wedding and instead get some professional help like a therapist to work on yourself. Initially I was going to say that it’s your wedding day, not your moms and it’s about doing what makes you and your fiancé happy. But as I kept reading it just sounds like a much deeper level of internal conflict and mental health issues that you need to address.

[Anonymous]

Don’t pay attention to your mom duck her
You are the one getting married. Not your mom
Wtf