My boyfriend wants to marry me?

[Anonymous]

He was in love for a long time since 1 year and still now. He always wants me but I keep rejected him but in 30-12 i start to date him Because he always chase me. He always buy me flowers when he saw me or he ask his friend if i was there. I start to date him i am with him about 3 days. He told me i wanna marry you lets get married but I shocked because how can i marry someone i know only 3 days. Marry is hard i need time ;( . Is it weird to get marry to someone you know only for 3 days? I always tell my self i have to know him more and more I don't know his personalty yet.

[MementoMori777]

Asking to marry after 3 days of dating definitely sounds like a red flag, unless y'all were friends before and know each otehrs for years before dating then that's different, this didn't seem like that

[Asker]

I am not his friend. I jUst date him its better to choose who chase you ;( but I doesn't know his personlity yet

[MementoMori777]

It's not always the case to always date the people that chase you cause sometimes the best people are the ones worth the chase, he chased you so perhaps you are worth it but he just jumped into your arms and said "fuck it, let's get married", I wouldn't imagine the best person for you to get married in 3 days, unless that's the type of people you prefer then perhaps they are meant for you lol

[Asker]

True , sometimes i told myself its crazy. I am not going to do because he is from turkey and I am from Kuwait. I always think about my future kids. I am not weird but he is so poor he works at restaurant its okay for me but sometimes i said how about my kids i doesn't wanted them to be same as their father less job i need them better like a teacher doctor etc higher job If i leave my country and come into his country i will be poor girl there and my life will be less he can't leave his friend or family to works in my city its so worth if he came work. And my future kids will be same better live then turkey. I know sound crazy but sometimes i think about if i get married and having kids how about them ex french , Germany or USA born my baby there its worth then turkey because turkey education is bad ;( Do you think i am crazy?

[MementoMori777]

Somewhat, nah I'm just playin lol, I don't know why you are so certain this man's job or career isn't going to change within years from now, clearly y'all would need enough to maintain the children so unless he doesn't have the capacity of simple intelligence then I'm sure he will know he has to get a better job to support the fam, you are thinking about this like "he works at a restaurant, he will always work at a restaurant" lol

[ChillaxingLove]

Never let anyone pressure you to make a life changing decision quickly, that always ends badly. Especially marriage, you don’t want to end up getting divorced because you met someone yesterday. People take awhile to show their true color after the dating phase, because everyone always puts their best foot forward, until they get comfortable and show their real selves.

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Marriage is a very serious thing. You know something's off and you're not ready, right? Listen to your instinct sis. Don't be afraid to say you're not ready for that.

[Anonymous]

For 3 days I don’t even trust my fart let alone a men to marry

[Summeroflove]

3 days is legitimately fast. If I were you I might move on that or wait a while

[BJP21]

Becarful with that. Where people have an issue is when infatuation and love lust wears off. You are in the right by giving it time. He needs to slow his roll and decide for yourself. The longer you date the better.

[_Just_A_girl_]

Ask the important questions

He been to jail? He aggressive?

If you see the potential go crazy

Pray

[xColinx]

I wouldn't split a pizza with someone I've only known for 3 days, but if you wanna marry the dude then maybe it'll work!

[DarkWinterNights]

I don’t know what is customary in Turkey or Kuwait, but I feel like 3 days is universally too fast.

[Rockstarrrrr]

He's obsessed.. You're too lonely and pity dating him... Obviously not a good idea at all

[Furious_Revelation19]

Sounds like a red flag if he barely knows you

[TheSpaceGnome]

date for 3 years, then decide.

[OfDeath]

Do it. You only live once.

[Asker]

Nooo

[OfDeath]

Live a little. Take the plunge. You can always just get divorced when he starts getting violent.

[DARKCLOUD1945X]

Run! Run far somethings not quite right

[LiamJHayden]

Take your time.