Would you be happy if your child ended up marrying someone with your actions and qualities?

[Spongebobssocks]

Yes!

Somewhat

No not at all..

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yes, and also if my child had my actions and qualities, but thats unrealistic to expect even though I only date women with my actions and qualities.

This is because you can have 2 parents who are mentally the same, and still end up with a kid who is completely mentally different than both parents. Luckily, I have no kids, nor do I want any, so it's just gonna be me and a future wife, so I'm still getting the "only likeminded people in the house" benefit.

[Spongebobssocks]

Great observation! I hope you find her soon!:)

[TheSpaceGnome]

Unlikely.

Unfortunately it's very difficult to find my type in the US.

[Spongebobssocks]

How come?

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm not sure to be honest, but for whatever reason, pretty much every trait I like in women is rare.

High Intelligence
Artistic talent
Good at video games
Atheism
Likes science, sci-fi, fantasy, anime, technology, astronomy, natural history.
Not afraid of bugs, snakes, etc.
Kind hearted, silly and bubbly.
Dedicated, passionate, and driven, the entrepeneur type.
A virgin, but not a prude (likes porn)
Looks younger than most people her age.
Hyper af.
Doesn't drink any alcohol, doesn't smoke, and doesn't do any other drugs.
Doesn't like parties or clubs.

Basically a female version of me (I'm all those things)

[TheSpaceGnome]

I see lots of women my age like this in japan, taiwan, phillipines, south korea, and china, but not the US. Rarely I find them here, but they are always either taken or much younger.

[Spongebobssocks]

That's one long list. I hope you find your match soon!🤗

Maybe travel?

[TheSpaceGnome]

I hate traveling, I'm the homebody type. International dating has too many problems as well.
And I've seen longer lol.

[Spongebobssocks]

Alright well maybe start talking to someone online abroad and offer them to visit you

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats part of "international dating has too many problems"

She has to have been born in the US.

I don't want to risk her being deported, and I do not want to be a sponsor to an immigrant because I'm against men being the providers, and think couples should split all bills 50/50. So I'm unfortunately stuck with a very small dating pool of less than 1% of the of the women in the US.

[Spongebobssocks]

Alright I see. Well it's a long list not gonna lie. I'm not sure all that is possible to get in one woman from the start but I wish you the best!

[Rangers]

Dude, just go to your local police department and hit up one of the female officers, they'll have those traits and a whole lot more.

But a word of caution, competition will be very fierce

[TheSpaceGnome]

@Rangers Not ariund here they don't, I don't think I've ever seen one with most of those traits. Especially the "silly bubbly" part, or the "artist" part, or the "gamer" part.

[TheSpaceGnome]

around*

[AdithyaR]

I'd wonder why my child has such poor taste in a partner.

[Spongebobssocks]

Well that's ironic😅😭. I appreciate the honesty!

What is it about your qualities and background that you wouldn't wanna see in your childs partner?

[AdithyaR]

I have way too many self esteem and self worth issues that would make me a bad partner. For example, my love language is acts of service but my self worth issues make it so that while I will constantly do things to pamper my partner, I won't let them do anything in return.

[Spongebobssocks]

Alright well at least you are aware of it. That's good.

[AdithyaR]

Yep it's why I won't let myself date. So with that thought the idea of my child existing itself is impossible 🤣

[Spongebobssocks]

Yeah I guess😅. But if you are aware of it you could communicate it.. humans will always be trach we just gotta try😊

[AdithyaR]

It's not like I'll never date. I'm just gonna wait until i go to therapy for my issues and heal first.

[Spongebobssocks]

Thats nice! So rare to see someone care.. kinda makes me think you aren't human... hmmm👀nice😁

[AdithyaR]

That is very flattering, thank you, really made my day.

[Spongebobssocks]

🙂😊

[AviatorTom]

I'd be okay with it, but I'd really hope that they would do better than me. We parents always want what's best for our kids.

[Spongebobssocks]

I'm glad you do! Not all parents tho sadly.. Do you have any kids?:)

[AviatorTom]

3 grown ones, 2 boys and 1 girl

[Spongebobssocks]

That's sweet. Do they have any kids?

[AviatorTom]

Oldest son is married with a daughter and son

[Spongebobssocks]

Awww nice! I really wanna be a grandma one day and a mom too ofcorse

[midnightmoon05]

My little sister who is 11 years younger than me…

I let all her other boyfriends…she ended up marrying someone whom I met the first time…I was like…wait…we have a lot in common like I was talking to myself…scary! Me proud of her lol…now they have a baby and he is just so amazing like his aunt!! Ahahaha…

my kids…if they can find someone like me!! It will be a miracle! I’m too crazy!

[Spongebobssocks]

Wait i dont get it. Did your sister take you boyfriend away from you or where you the one dissrupting their relationship?

[midnightmoon05]

Omg…typo!
My little sister ended up marring someone just like me!

[midnightmoon05]

My kids are still too young…but if they do marrying someone like me…I would be very proud!
We need a good team to continue our legacy.

[Spongebobssocks]

Thats nice to hear! Wish you and your family the best!🤗

[midnightmoon05]

Thank you! Same to you and yours.
We are so very fortunate and pretty awesome people 😝.
We are all really having a great time enjoying their new baby… brings so much joy to the family.

[Spongebobssocks]

Thats Great to hear! Thank you🤗🤗 Congrats on their new baby!

[Rangers]

Absolutely not, I'd want them to be nothing like me. Only my fundamental belief in the balance between freedom and safety with strong support for law & order.

Other than that and love for firearms and protecting their spouse, they should be nothing like me at all

[Spongebobssocks]

Intressting. Is that something you'd like to change?

[Rangers]

I would if I could, I can't reprogram my brain

[Rangers]

It doesn't matter though, I'm infertile

Definitely for the best cause kids who's fathers commit suicide don't have a good record for mental health afterwards

[Spongebobssocks]

Why are you infertilitet?:(

[Spongebobssocks]

*infertile

[Rangers]

I was born with a genetic respiratory condition, it's one where a sterilization at birth is performed to prevent the carrying on of the disease.

They didn't remove my area or anything, they just did something to where I can't have kids, they won't tell me what they did though.

[Spongebobssocks]

Omg thats fucked up! Your parents did that? Is that evan legal?

[Rangers]

Probably not, but it doesn't matter

[Spongebobssocks]

You dont want kids?

[Rangers]

It doesn't matter if I do, I can't have them. Plus if I did, they'd have the same disease that I do, and I'm not capable of being a good dad

[AaronKrieger]

Somewhat, I imagine if I have a daughter she might, but if it were my son, then it'd be weird. I feel like sons often take a lot after their father's, so I think he should date someone different than himself.

[Spongebobssocks]

Alright haha yeah thats true

[WanderingLoveWizard]

She'd be so lucky!

(Just kidding. No I would not)

[Spongebobssocks]

Damn.. lol how come?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I'm not a good person. Only on the surface. At least I know she'd be safe at least, but my love is toxic

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Didn't mean to say "at least" twice lol

[Spongebobssocks]

well is that something you want to change?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I can't 😭

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Lol..

[Spongebobssocks]

why? what about you is toxic?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I'm jealous and controlling. And you better not be talking to other guys on this question 😠

[Spongebobssocks]

daaaamn well some controlling is sexy but too much is crazy

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Lol, oh yeah? Tell me what you think is sexy

[Spongebobssocks]

well for example if a man stops a woman from going out cause she is showing cleavege thats hot. But a man stopping a woman from ordering food because the worker happened to be male is crazy. and crazy men are scary

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Oh ok. I guess I'm sexy then

[Spongebobssocks]

well then thats good. you should get out there. Just dont go to the clubs where the angry feminists are. Go to the library. and ask a woman out there. i have no idea how to approach cause never had too but the women in the library problaby agree on your view more than the ones at a party/club

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Ok baby. I'll go to the library 😘

[Spongebobssocks]

glad you will!:D

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Me too

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Yes. She must be a reaaally cool chick. 😎🤟

[Spongebobssocks]

Glad to hear! XD

[elizamichale1]

Yes definitely

[Anonymous]

Sure

[Spongebobssocks]

Nice!:)

[Anonymous]

Depends if they are a boy or girl.

[Spongebobssocks]

How come?

[Andres77]

from BEFORE i was broken? yes

[Spade_01]

Sure

[Anonymous]

Maybe?

[Spongebobssocks]

Okay. How come "maybe"?

[Opinion Owner]

Because I have some good qualities.

[Spongebobssocks]

Thats cool. What are the good ones and what are the bad ones if you dont mind?:)