Is it pathetic for a 28 going to 29 years old to marry an 18 years old?

[Anonymous]

[Apple1996]

I wouldn't say pathetic but maybe a bit weird since 18 and 29 are at completely different points in life. The 18 year old barely just becoming a adult and the 29 year old already being a adult for the past 11 years

[OfMiceandMen]

Not pathetic, but I can see problems down the road in the marriage. She's pretty young to be getting married. Most people that age, want to get out and see things, do things, whereas most 29 year old guys are pretty much set in their ways.

[Berethor]

18 years old's look better and having less baggage, men almost always prefer young girls.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypergamy#Research

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo yo that's sketchy biz right there bro. Kinda weird for a grown ass man to be with an actual teenager, that's like cradle robbing type vibes.

18 is still real young and dumb, ain't fully matured yet. Same age you was at 18 and look at you now, whole different person right? People change and learn so much through their late teens and 20s.

Plus people gonna assume hella sus intentions on dude's part feel me? Like he tryna control or manipulate em cause they young and don't know no better yet.

Bad look in general for a near 30 year dude to marry an actual highschooler just outta junior year no cap. I'd say wait til little homie least 21-22 myself, give em a chance to spread they wings first ya feel?

Marriage should be between equals, not someone way more experienced pulling the strings. Just my two cents, do you but that situation sound off to me fr fr.

[Anonymous]

No. He may not be as mature as you but he’s an adult just like you. Live your life. You’re going to miss out on a lot of good opportunities if you’re too worried about what everyone else thinks.

[NamerOfStars]

Not at all- they're both adults. It's probably not all that wise to be getting married at 18, but it's not INHERENTLY a bad idea.

[exitseven]

No, it really is not that big of an age difference

[Fireguy17]

10 years isn't bad, and as they get older while it will still be 10 years it won't matter at all.

[Guido]

Not that bad but it won't last. The divorce will cost him. more then the wedding.

[skt19d]

Spot on!
I was 20 she was 28.
Now, 24 years later, two kids, and she's leaving me. She's been cheating with a fat, older, bald guy.

[msc545]

they are both adults - why does the age matter, and why do you care about this stuff?

[ZamerZ]

Legally they are. Mentally, a 18 y/o is in a totally different place and general point in life. That's the difficult thing they have to consider in that relationship. Being an adult means more than a number on paper.

[msc545]

How do you know that there are mentally in a different place?

[msc545]

And even if you were correct. So what everyone has to grow up at some time and this might be just part of growing up. Who are you to interfere or object to this?

[Sunnybeach123]

No. I mean it happens all the time.

[Jmmmfi4]

I DON'T SEE AN ISSUE HERE

[Anonymous]

Nope