Would you marry a guy who had too many relationships and slept with a lot of girls before meeting you?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

First off I don’t do marriage.
Second of all. Consider a long term relationship with someone like him?

ONLY IF; he has no access to other women. Like if we lived in a secluded town or on a Boat. Or on an island alone. Yes I would consider a relationship with him. Because him having a high count obviously means he’s attractive or seductive to females. And obviously I’m gonna be tempted and seduced too.
DUHH.
As long as he doesn’t have access to other women. I’m keeping him. Good Genes? High Testosterone? Masculine?

YeH Im keeping that. 👍

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Otherwise NO! I’m gonna have trust issues and at higher risk of disease. Naturally he’ll be 10x more likely to cheat. If we live in the city, he constantly sees women. Or he has a job were many chicks are? ABSOLUTELY NOT ‼️‼️‼️ 🙅🏻‍♀️🙅🏻‍♀️🙅🏻‍♀️ I REFUSE ‼️‼️‼️ !!!

YesterdaysChild · Accepted Answer

How many would buy a used car with 700,000 miles on it? How many would want a girl who banged the whole football, basketball, and track team? The comparison might sound extreme but is it really? If a girl can have too many, why can't a guy? Guys aren't called skanks or sluts, but "players". Why is one looked down on but not the other? They say Charlie Sheen had over 5,000 women, and Michael Jordan a whole lot more. Who would want a guy whose noodle has been dipped in the pot so many times that it has Become nothing more than a robotic dildo? Look at it another way, when a guy has enjoyed playing the field, why would he settle down with one and be faithful to one?

Unit1 · Accepted Answer

There is a reason a guy, who was with that many women has gotten with that many women.

Women usually don't really know, that the guy they are seeing is a womanizer until it's too late. If he told them women " oh by the way, i am a womanizer and i slept with 100 women" then he'd get as many women as i (someone, that doesn't bullshit women) do.

Filthy_Immigrant · Accepted Answer

notice how so many women are saying no yet out in the real world its always the unfaithful players that get pussy from left to right.

this is yet another example of why you should never trust what women say. always pay attention to their actions instead

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I would rather not. Why do as he unable to form a long lasting relationship?

Avicenna · Answer

I've Never heard of guys like that having any trouble getting a girlfriend or wife. Women will overlook it if they like him.

nastyb · Answer

I dated a " man whore " for a few times... I'm gonna tell you this:

they tend to cheat A LOT more. They also tend to not be as good at intimacy as guys with low body count. It also does not necessarily mean they are better in bed either. A lotta guys are desperate for sex. They would even take bad sex. They're so desperate they would fuck anything that is living and breathing.

Sex is a source of relief for desperate men, it is not a sensual art that they think of worth perfecting. This explains why vast majority of the time, all these man whores can't give anything other than bad sex. Few men are good in bed nowadays. The more they sleep around, the worse they tend to be in bed. Rather the men who are best in bed are the ones who have been in long term relationships.

thegreenyogi · Answer

Honestly I am not a person that fixates on the past or history of a person. Because we all have a past whether it be a crowded one or a less crowded one. And I prefer to concentrate on the present moment so if I like a person or care for a person it wouldn't change or I wouldn't be negatively influenced if I found out that a guy had a long past of many relationships. What's more us that we all can meet a person at some point in our lives that will change completely our ways. So the answer to your question is yes I would marry a guy if I loved him even if he has had many relationships.

SakuraBlossoms87 · Answer

This question can be divided into 2 types of women

Women with little to no self respect, who likely have slept around, etc. won't care.

Women with self respect, who haven't slept around with multiples, etc. won't even consider the guy. Such behavior indicates that he is unreliable in a long term relationship, that he is more adept at breaking up than dealing with issues, etc. and more... all in all strongly indicates highly undesirable personality flaws for marriage

Anonymous · Answer

Hmm. It depends.

I love guys who know how to screw well. Some guys get it from long term relationships but others get it from sleeping around. Some are just talented.

However, highly promiscuous men that I have known have always had trauma in their past. They also tended not to cheat but monkey branch.

They were restless.

If the normal relationships stressors come into play, there is always some girl from back in the day they can hit up.

It can go both ways. Either they have ran through everyone and really want a woman to connect with. They are ready to be vulnerable.

Or they are hypocrites and feel they deserve the purest woman because they are real manly men that could sleep with everyone so they are entitled to the best.

It depends on whether that mindset was in the past or still present.

desidoll · Answer

My concern is not about how many women he has been with, but more on his issue to commit. If he had countless failed relationships with other quick flings that didn’t turn out well, I see it as a red flag. There is something not right about him.

SillybunnyThumper · Answer

It’s a personal preference. Depends on type of woman you want to attract. I personally wouldn’t get involved unless I have already fallen in love but usually I could tell if someone is a player or been around and I avoid it so I won’t get feelings. I already know what I want and looking for someone who can commit to a person. I know relationships fail but if you have too many it means you probably don’t know how to work through things or just into the physical part until you’re bored and on to the next. I prefer someone with very low count and can control their sexual urges given as I have only had one person who is now ex husband. I want to have a faithful husband and be able to trust him. That’s my view.

Toriixlovely · Answer

I actually dated a guy that lied about his body count. At first it was 16 then he told me the truth & the number it jumped to was insane (100+). I didn’t find that okay due to the fact he had so many options; in my opinion he can cheat & be with just any woman.

KBird · Answer

If we were dating for awhile and he wanted to only be with me and marry me, of course I would. I dont judge someone about there past, we all have one :P (except for serial killer shit... I dont vibe with that lol)

WhitneySnow · Answer

Maybe. I believe the past is the past but that’s a huge red flag and I would have a serious talk with him about fidelity and staying together before I even considered going out with him again, let alone marrying him.

FreyaRed · Answer

I have assets to fuck half of good looking guys in my city, but I don't do that. Why I should bother with someone who has obviously different opinion in this topic than I do?

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

Maybe those who lack self-respect or have a similar body count.

Anemone978 · Answer

I tend to like responsible men.. and if you can't control yourself sexually and have no dignity it paints a picture about you..

HelpfulWoman · Answer

by saying "too many", you're telling me it's over a limit i have in my mind. so easy no.

thatshydork · Answer

I mean, if he doesn’t judge my past, I won’t judge his.

Apple1996 · Answer

Nope I want to be my man's one and only woman

StarWarGirl · Answer

I would have hard time to trust him. I couldn't trust him.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I wouldn't know, and I would never ask either. It is none of my business.

Anonymous · Answer

No thanks lol, there's probably a reason why he's been with that many women. Why would a guy like that suddenly want to settle down and get married? 😂

Anonymous · Answer

If he checked all my other boxes, yes I would. I care more about who he is as a person, and what value he can bring to a relationship with ME.

belo_oz · Answer

I definitely won't get married. Because the possibility of such a person cheating on me is very high and I don't think he has the potential to be a father.

Masterodd · Answer

Ah, the reversed body count issue again with a marriage twist. :)

Quigly · Answer

I see many women with guys divorced three times and kids with every one of them. Doesn't ever seem to bother women as long as he has money.

Manuelwe · Answer

But a woman maybe Virgins are good but it is better for some to correct her mistakes and then take over

Chthou95 · Answer

From studies done, women are attracted to men who a lot of other women want or have been with regardless of what womem say

Yjiutfvbh · Answer

I don’t care just don’t have stds out the ass and be a provider

whistlingwh0res · Answer

he only take care of his dick.. will he care about me?

Lisia · Answer

Nahh, that's a red flag in my opinion.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think this has ever hindered any guy in finding a long term mate.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

I’m not gay, so I wouldn’t marry a guy period.

Lovesoad1 · Answer

As long as they don't have an std

strateguy632 · Answer

,,2nd

Lara_Croft · Answer

Has he repented?

Jazzy54 · Answer

Probably not.

Micksss · Answer

Never

Anonymous · Answer

I don't care

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