What are some lies that came out after you got married?

[RoseySarah]

Money issues

Behavior issues

Sexual issues

Manipulating lies

Spiritual lies

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

It's say a little bit of money issues, but nothing we couldn't handle. We both had a little bit of credit card debt, which we had paid off with a year. Everything else was very much out in the open.

[RoseySarah]

Glad it was handled cause debt is hard especially out of college

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Her postgraduate debt was somewhat sizable, but we handled that payment without issue. The credit card debt was very high interest, so we focused on paying that off.
Both of our undergraduate degrees we're taking care of through scholarships

[Orangekiss]

I want/don't want kids that turns out not to be true. If one says I don't want kids and the other doesn't either so they figure they are on the same page. Then the girl or guy changes their mind and wants to have 3 children. Well, the other goes WTF? and a big fight ensues. Of course sometimes people really don't and then something happens and they change their mind and hope the other will be alright with it. But, of course they would be wrong.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

My husband & I have known each other for decades before we finally got married.

We've "laid our cards on the table" before we got married.

There were no lies before.

There are no lies after.

[Orangekiss]

@DeeDeeDeVour That was one long engagement. 😮

[HawkPerception]

This is why it's so important to filter well before getting married. Also prenup should definitely be utilized.

To my knowledge, I have never been lied to with my partners and I can usually see someone's intentions relatively well. However, I've also never been married, nor had a relationship last more than 3 years so I'm definitely not perfect.

[Avicenna]

I'd wager that money issues are the biggest secret that comes out

[Puppystarfish23]

I'm not married till next year but I've told my partner everything stuff I haven't even told my family and I believe he has with me too. I don't believe in keeping secrets in a relationship. If he doesn't love me for everything that I am then it's not worth it.

I want him to know what he signed up for before we get married

[Orangekiss]

Well said Puppy. 👌🏼

[IslaTheWitch]

No lies in my case :D

They came a bit later though

[RoseySarah]

What lies came out latter then that?

[IslaTheWitch]

Cheating during marriage

[Gent207-2]

I wish I had known there was a difference between low sex drive and high sex drive. I

[RoseySarah]

Most don't sadly.

[Gent207-2]

@roseysarah
Yeah

[Nikki1989]

I haven't heard any lies from my husband.

[RoseySarah]

Good keep it that way! 😉

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

A little bit of sexual issues

[RoseySarah]

Thanks for sharing

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@roseysarah You're welcome :)

[exitseven]

None of the above. We both had pretty boring lives I guess

[RoseySarah]

Happy is better then exciting

[exitseven]

yes,

[ChicoFromThe305]

Let me know which one gets the best vote

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[Anonymous]

That the pregnancy was mine. She told me the truth...16 years. Later.

[RoseySarah]

Wait so you thought her fat baby belly was her exes not yours?

[Opinion Owner]

She slept with another guy before me. He got her pregnant. She wasn't showing at all when she slept with me. Then she told me it was mine. I guess she figured I was a better risk (for all i know, she told him and he bolted. Because how can i really believe anythingg that comes out of her mouth now). But she says she's sorry now and it shouldn't matter because I guess in her mind the statute of limitations has run out.

[RoseySarah]

Sounds so true the past is gone so why does she care but it still hurts for you!

[Opinion Owner]

Because she doesn't get betrayal doesn't have a statute of limitations. Especially one that deep. For all intents and purposes I'm the father. I've raised him for 16 years. But biologically speaking I've raised another man's child. You can't sweep that fact under the rug.

[sawno]

We didn't get married but since it was an LDR ill tell you the lies that came out once I met her in person / when we got super close...

None.

[RoseySarah]

No cat fishy

[sawno]

Would have been very difficult to do on a year of video calls.

[Minahh]

If lies came up AFTER you got married means you're fucked

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

People are on their best behavior and hide their bad ways but once you marry and live with them eventually you get to see the full effect of their trash conduct and personality they been hiding.

[Anonymous]

Everyone goes down the aisle with half the story hidden.

[RoseySarah]

Like what kinda half?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

😂😂😂

[nonyabeez-wax]

Multiple...

Spiritual
Manipulative
Behavior
Spending/money issues

[Carly2005]

My uncles wife had a money issues.

[RoseySarah]

Sadly slot hide that

[Carly2005]

Yep their more then that.

[Sparkie460]

We were honest with each other right from the start. Neither of us believe in lying.

[Kelly6]

Money issue

his true love

[RoseySarah]

Who was his true love? Money?

[Kelly6]

Hubby had money issue.
But I loved someone else also.
So we both lied lol

[Anonymous]

She said we'll have lots of sex after marriage. She has low sex drive and she plays hard to have sex. She doesn't want to get pregnant. She is a big liar.

[Anonymous]

I think I know a married couple and the man was attracted to illegal things and the wife found out a year before he dies.

[LazerBean]

None.

[Grond21]

You guys look really cute together

[LazerBean]

Thanks!

[Grond21]

Are you two married?

[LazerBean]

Yeah

[Grond21]

Congratulations!

[LazerBean]

Thank you!