First two years were exciting (good) Next 3 years were effort but worth it Next 5 years were hard grind but ok
Then my wife got sick
Next ten years have been a daily fight for our survival on a personal, relationship, health level. We've both had to spend time in ICU and I now have only memory of my right foot...
Maybe my life isn't typical, but I didn't expect to have the issues we've faced.
Love isn't enough if you're not both putting in 100% to the relationship.
Relationships take effort. Marriage is not a balm that cures all problems, nor is getting pregnant. If you don't put the effort in any relationship can end.
