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Why do older men marry younger women?

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  • Bklynbadboy12
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    Guru Age: 38
    11 mo

    The marry who they like that also likes them back. Would you marry an older man?

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    • Bklynbadboy12
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      11 mo

      You didn't answer the question

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    • Bklynbadboy12
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      11 mo

      Thanks for the MHO

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  • bowenw
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    Someone to take care of them when they are older.

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    • bowenw
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      11 mo

      Thank you for the MHO. 😊

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  • ohsheeT
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    11 mo

    Well I don't know about marriage I guess it depends on how much younger

    When I was 16 and a half I was babysitting for a lady when she got home the lady that she was with gave me a ride home we ended up stopping at her house talking more and more and one thing started leading to another to another and
    I really loved it

    She was way older than me LOL then she told me that she was going to get back with her husband I didn't even know that she was married

    there was one time. That I went to her house and she had a black eye and she wouldn't tell me what happened or I think she did but I knew it was a lie but anyway she got back with her husband but she introduced me to another older lady they were really good friends and I kind of hung out with her for almost a year

    And it was a very good learning experience but I also learned that older women some older women
    Get to a point where they don't want to do certain things and move their bodies and breathe oxygen and build muscle and just have fun

    And then I down this girl that was two years younger than me I fell in love with her and there was no more older women
    But anyway then I got married then I got divorced and blah blah blah blah blah blah blah so on and so on

    Then I'm working with these four guys and a couple of them are married one guy and a girlfriend the other guys single and on the weekends we were going out and their wives were trying to hook me up with one of their girls friends and these girls are like between 22 and 26
    And I always asked why were you doing this... why would you want me to go out with your friend..
    And they would say because we want you to go out with us because we want you to teach our husbands how to respect us because they don't

    And I knew this because every Monday morning we'd go to work and they would start blabbing their mouths on everything that they did after we left each other and I would have said dude that's your wife you're talking about I know her you don't need to tell us this stuff

    You would ask me about the girl that I went with you wanted to know everything that we did and I would say it's none of your business but anyway I'm way older and these girls are motivated one was 23 and she was opening up her own business they like to go out on hikes they like to go kayaking they like to bike ride they like to stay in shape and breath air lol
    And they don't slow down and I absolutely love that

    Because that's who I am I will go until the wheels fall off and then still go
    I used to register bikes in the desert and there is no getting tired it's just getting faster and faster and that's what the younger girls did for me I mean I absolutely loved it if I fell in love with one I mean I would have to fall deeply in love but I might marry her but at the same time

    This is going to sound stupid but there would have to be rules because I don't want to get to a certain point in my life to where she feels like she would have to take care of me I wouldn't want that at all I would tell her she has to go and I know that sounds mean and cruel and one girl and I we talked about that she said she would never do that and I said I would want you to because I would be holding you back from life and that's one thing I would not want to do so that's probably why I wouldn't marry a really younger girl but I mean if we are compatible at the right you know not too far apart in age sure I don't know why other men marry younger girls I don't have a clue and it's none of my business if they're both happy that's all accounts

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  • Avicenna
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    11 mo
    556 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

    Greater fertility and less likely to be a single mom

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  • sexy_julia
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    Xper 7 Age: 36 , mho 63%
    11 mo

    My husband and I have been married for almost sixteen years. He is my partner and my best friend, and I love him more than anything. We married when I was 19 and he was 54, eleven years older than my father. We only knew each other for two months before marrying. It was love at first sight for both of us. Within just a few weeks, I was already pregnant with our first child. Now I’m 35 and he’s 70. We have seven kids, our oldest is 15 and our youngest is 1. We plan to have another baby. He has three grownup kids from his previous marriage, the youngest is eight years older than me. To my husband, I am the most beautiful woman he has ever laid eyes on.

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  • HungTexan
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    Explorer Age: 72
    11 mo

    I think older men tend to marry younger women because it makes them feel younger, or because they want others to know they can still attract a young woman. Also, some older women lose interest in sex, so if you're going to get married you look for some you can love and have sex with.

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  • Tarifa
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    Yoda Age: 45 , mho 43%
    11 mo

    Girls mature earlier than boys. I'd say a 17 or 18 year old girl would typically date a 20 to 21 year old guy.

    Girls will look for someone who is confident and has his act together. So an 8 to 10 year difference at a later stage in life isn't that big.

    Much older than that, I'd say the man is looking for the thrill to flirt with a younger woman, and looking to boost his own ego enjoying the attention of a woman who might be the same age as his daughter.

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  • Anonymous
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    11 mo

    Mostly purity.

    My wife is 9 years my junior. I married her because I love her.

    There are three big reasons though that older men go after younger women

    1. Lower body count. And less chances of diseases.

    2. Most women our age who are single are single moms, or insufferable boss bitches. Neither of which are worthy of marriage.

    3. Fertility, younger women have a better chance of starting a family with.

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  • RageBabe
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    Yoda Age: 34 , mho 32%
    11 mo

    Because older men and younger women fall in love with each other. Why do older women choose to be with younger men? This question is rarely asked.

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  • trumpetplayerforlife
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    Guru Age: 25
    9 mo

    Me and my husband have a 7 year age gap and I mean for me I went for him becuase I was more mature didn't want to go party I wanted to settle down... and he went for me because we had a lot of the save value when we got married it was just a big parties to celebrate our love our lives didn't change besides my last name

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  • AnonAndrew
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    Xper 7 Age: 45 , mho 35%
    11 mo

    Most men are more attracted to younger women.

    Personally I really enjoy older women as well, but that's not the norm.

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  • Iron_Man s
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    Mentor Age: 46
    11 mo
    1.2K opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

    Chemistry biological chemistry and things in common? Our clocks are set. Differently were immature compared to women were younger compared to women our age so we have more in common with younger women plus they can have children

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  • Mark987
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    Guru Age: 44
    11 mo

    I don't get it either. I am guessing men like women that look young and that botox plastic look. I have dated younger women and the conversations are completely different.

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  • Anonymous
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    11 mo
    Why do older men marry younger women?

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^

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  • FunkyMonkee
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    Master Age: 58
    11 mo

    That's what younger women and older men are looking for.

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    • FunkyMonkee
      FunkyMonkee
      11 mo

      Also, older men have more sexual experience and a better idea of what she needs.

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  • Oldschool1981
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    Xper 6 Age: 44
    11 mo

    My wife is 10 years younger than me. Her side guy is 10 years younger than her. LOL

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  • ariadneR
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    Guru Age: 46
    11 mo

    They marry who they love.

    My mum was older than my dad

    My partner is older than me.

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  • KrakenAttackin
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    Master Age: 46
    11 mo
    414 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

    Men value youth, beauty, fertility, and lower body counts. Deal with it.

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  • chick1498
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    Xper 1 Age: 35
    11 mo

    Some just don't care about age to a point of course. I was 28 dating a 19year old we lasted a 10 years

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  • Anonymous
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    (36-45)
    11 mo

    Probably because they are rich, so younger women actually want to be with them.

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  • Cheerfull009
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    Yoda Age: 28
    11 mo

    This is due to love and choice, no special reason

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  • MrTaboo
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    Yoda Age: 41
    9 mo

    older women tend to have far to much baggage and are crazy. we don't want to deal with that.

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  • coolbreeze
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    Master Age: 42 , mho 57%
    11 mo

    For their looks and beauty

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  • MotherEarth2020
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    Xper 7 Age: 57 , mho 46%
    11 mo

    To make babies

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  • exitseven
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    Master Age: 54
    11 mo
    799 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

    I agree with @jennz6 better sex.

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  • Kelly6
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    Master Age: 41
    11 mo
    327 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

    @Melanie31 its their choice, I don’t judge

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  • zombiewoof
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    Explorer Age: 74
    11 mo

    Do you like older men

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  • Jennz6
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    Master Age: 36
    11 mo

    Better sex?

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    • MasterKS
      MasterKS
      11 mo

      @jennz6 point is raised.

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  • beefcakebradybatson
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    Guru Age: 72
    11 mo

    We older boys aren't into old broads.

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