Are you scared to get married?

[Anonymous]

Would like to know your experience on this. Are you scared of being married if so why? I have never lived with anyone other than my family and mom. I'm scared to live with someone because I like my peace and I like my home clean.

[Stevepro68]

Get married it will scare you more. My girlfriend is all my dreams come true. The only person that could possibly make me even think about marriage. Yet she knows how I feel and is ok with my position. Discussion of marriage is like feeling claustrophobic to me.

[Asker]

So you do not plan to get married to her at all?

[Stevepro68]

We do not see good cause at this time

[Rohaan2020]

If you want peace then don't get married... yes i am scared to get married because i've been in a serious relationship where we had planned to get married but couldn't due to some reasons... and now i hate the idea of getting married... its just not for me... plus relationships these days are not the same... either the guy is cheating or the girl...

[Asker]

I appreciate your input, I'll copy what I replied to the other person... Honestly the thought of being married scares me and I've only been with my boyfriend for 1 year. I know we both date for a purpose but I know what is truly scaring me is not having the patience for his boys. One is older and calm but the other is young and autistic. He is very messy and I like my home clean and it brings me peace and joy that if I'm being honest I'm not sure if I have the patience for his boys. The little one is always hyper and loud, I'm used to peace and quiet

[Rohaan2020]

then don't even think about getting married

[Anonymous]

I wasn't scared to marry my partner was when I moved in with him it was scary because I'd never done that and it was a what if this doesn't work and I had to find somewheres else to live but I mean it all worked out lol

[Asker]

Honestly the thought of being married scares me and I've only been with my boyfriend for 1 year. I know we both date for a purpose but I know what is truly scaring me is not having the patience for his boys. One is older and calm but the other is young and autistic. He is very messy and I like my home clean and it brings me peace and joy that if I'm being honest I'm not sure if I have the patience for his boys. The little one is always hyper and loud, I'm used to peace and quiet

[LiamJHayden]

My only concern with marriage is the third party, the state, which can change the rules any time it wants to do so and has current rules that are inequitable.

[Asker]

That is true

[MannMitAntworten]

Scared? No. I realize I am just stupid enough to be convinced to give it a go if she is brilliant enough to miraculously make my mind mushy - nice alliteration there.

[ProbablyClueless]

No, not in general. But there are definitely a lot of women who the idea of specifically getting married to them terrifies me.

[Cristi019]

I'm not scared. I'm just... terrified. Never had a relationship, for a marriage I'll never be good enough.

[Twalli]

I was and still am, but I couldn't see myself marrying anyone else but my fiancée. By anyone else, it wasn't a specific other person, it was any other person.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, I'm scared of staying single, not enough to settle though.

[beefcakebradybatson]

At 71, yes unless she's a buxom bird between 20 and 42 !!!

[serious]

Well in a way the answer is yes.

[itsannalee]

Nope i don’t, i just scared to get poor.

[andreasderjuengere]

Not scared.

Rather: not interested.

[chocolatetwopointo]

no i js think its pointless

[Anonymous]

Not really, but no girl wants me.