Do women really have one man as a lover and another as a provider?

[robocop666]

Do women really marry rich unattractive men and cheat on them with good looking men and the husband is aware of it.

[Hardon-Collider]

Yes. It's a common division of labour. One person might be the primary source of the life-body forces—the passionate, creative, body-based forces—and another might be the primary source of the head-based forces—the intellectual, structuring, provider forces. It's not a moral issue, it's a practical arrangement of different human needs being met by different people.

[Hellraiser1984]

I don't know. These days traditional relationships are seen as outdated and wrong. I was raised you only date one person at a time and if you marry them you only have a sexual relationship with them. Im told I'm wrong and outdated and need to get with the times. Im told I'm wrong because I don't believe in open marriage or threesomes. But it just comes down to what I feel comfortable with. Im not saying others are wrong it's just that I wouldn't be comfortable with it.

[Billlewis]

Oh, absolutely, often with the provider's knowledge and encouragement.

[Jordi2525]

What role do you take: lover or provider?

[robocop666]

I am the lover. many rich married women have tried to have affairs with me.

[Jordi2525]

So they have their bald provider husband and are looking for an opportunity with you?

[slatyb]

Of course some do. I don't think it's common.

[Anonymous]

Yesss

[robocop666]

you have this tell us more. is the provider aware you cheat on him?

[Opinion Owner]

Rarely yes. But what does he expect? Loyalty? If the provider was handsome and young she would have loved him. It’s stupid of him to think his money would buy love. A young women can’t love an old man. Money is the hygiene factor to prove your inner masculinity