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Personally I do. I love spoiling the people I love, especially my partner. Too me the key too a good relastiondship is spoiling each other either with gifts, compliments or even by making sex/love (u choose which word describes ur relastiondship at the moment.)
Personally I do. Society, I feel like men are "supposed" to take care of women. I don't believe that true. Men and women should spoil each other bc they both deserve it
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Lots of men keep their feelings to themselves, and I think most men will agree that women push them into sharing their feelings, even if they don't want to. So in regards to taking care of men emotionally I'd say that is because women want to. Guys on the other hand get into trouble when they don't comfort the girl and can't figure out what is wrong. Meaning guys care for women's emotions more. + pregnancy is definitely a time men do all the caring for the other.
For your question if it is because of sex that they think that: I'd say that in lots of long term relationships partners stop having as much sex, even if the man wants it. Not doing that at all kinda shows that the women aren't valuing what they guy wants.
Men keep relationship going more than women do. Have you not heard the saying "happy wife happy life?" I think that is just one of many examples if how society expects men to put all the work into a relationship.
First off, that was supposed to go under your opinion. I actually posted it as my own opinion. Sorry😂.
How is it twist?
You are talking about how women are more caring, while I gave examples of that being the case, and you only argue this one🤔. The women make a sacrifice because they want kids, and the guys because they care help her. She doesn't help them in the same way at any point, so the example stands, but I'm more curious about how you will argue the other points.
I like women. Women are nice to me. Please don't take this the wrong way..
Personally, the answer to this is definitely no. Generally speaking, I am way more considerate of the emotions of women than women are of mine. There are some friends with whom it's more equal, but in general, a lot of women seem to view caring about men's emotions as a chore.. not my type lol. not my girlfriends. not my friends. but it's a thing.
I have learned to not care about those who don't care about me as it sucks emotionally investing in someone who views reciprocating that as a chore.
I think that good men will think that we care more, and good women will think that they care more. Not all people are good 🤷♂️
(a good person is defined by how they treat others)
The reason for this is that we also care about bad people but they don't care about us, so it distorts our perceptions of the other sex
In general, no. I still think that I care more about women than they care about me. It appears that caring too much in fact repels women.
Even friends though, I tend to care more. So, I stop caring. I recently saw a meme that a friend posted:
"A woman treats you how she wants to be treated first. Then she treats you how you treat her."
I replied that I do that.
I don't think that's a gender thing, so much as a "good person" thing. Good people treat you well, which includes caring about your feelings, and bad people do not.
I think this is a great meme though, and it will explicitly inform my future decisions about how a treat a woman.
""I treat you how I want to be treated first. Then I treat you how you treat me."
(within reason of course. I'm not going to be aggressive and mean. but I will stop caring about a woman who doesn't care about me)
I have a question that is somewhat relevant
Why are women repelled by interest? ↗
Gods no! Women take care of everyone!! Women spend more time caring for everyone in their lives than men even imagine doing!!
Men do, sometimes, and maybe some guys much more than most, but mostly, women are the loving, caring, attentive 'care-givers'.
Thank you for that!
You can thank all the machos, who kept saying "i dont give a shit about this or that. i dont care about men's day. We don't need men's day. i dont give a F..., MGTOW bitches. If women need men like fish need bicycles, then men need women like bicycles need fish!" that caused women to withdraw from showing us some love.
Women showed us love.
Then the machos discouraged it.
Then the women turned silent, became confused or pretty much said "fine. have it your way".
Then the blues adopt destructive habits such as alcoholism.
Then the suicide rates of men kept going up.
Coincidence? I think not.
🤦♀️
You reap what you sow.
I don't refuse help and appreciation.
Buddy, you have that dynamic completely reversed.
Traditionally, men and women take care of each other differently. Men tend to be shaped into the role of financial care, protection, etc. while women tend to be shaped into nurturing, child rearing, etc.
Nowadays, women and men don’t want to be pushed into stereotypes anymore. Each relationship is different, and same sex relationships are also a thing. I think that the needs within a relationship are still the same, but men/women no longer take one job within the relationship.
My boyfriend and I take care of each other to the best of our abilities. In previous relationships, I worked much harder and gave 150% at all times and felt like I was getting back 20%. My currently boyfriend and I give each other 150% and it feels to good to have someone who truly wants to take care of you.
My boyfriend owns a business and I do what I can to support him in different ways he needs.
Not American women or women of Anglo-Saxon descent, for that matter. European, Latina, and Asian women are far more affectionate, generous, and proactive in the household. And I'm not just talking wives. Daughters, sisters, aunts, grannies, and even the little old lady down the street who does all their hair are far more vibrant and outspoken than most of the American women I've seen. American women demand so much attention and have some crazy brain virus that makes them equate their human value with how much the people around her, especially the men, are willing to sacrifice to rescue her from her own deliberate displays of helplessness. I've never seen so much insecurity in any other group of people. I relish in the moments of solidarity I get once in a while with black women when we're nodding our heads at each other in disbelief over the crazy bullshit we just saw some white girls trying to pull XD
From what I see on this site I start to believe that you are right. I am European and I don't identify with anything USA guys here say about girls.
@ThisIsMyOpinion yep I've been to Europe, primarily around the Iberian Peninsula, where as it so happens you seem to reside. The gender dynamics are so much more natural and authentic over there. Really, gender dynamics are the tip of the iceberg in contrast to American culture's fixation on social standing, where many have given into a weirdly voyeuristic habit of dismissing their own life prospects in favor of indulging in the parasocial relationships readily offered from the infinitesimal handful of Americans who, for one reason or another (usually shockingly stupid reasons, as it turns out), have acquired absurdly disproportionate social standing.
Very glad I am on this side of the Atlantic then. I would hate to live under a agenda pushing society. I would have a mental breakdown. I get why you are angry all the time.
In some relationships. not at all or very little. in others overdo, some of those are even twisted, comes with shit/drama in between.
You even have those there they gives in the wrong way and expects they should appreciate it like it was in the right way (ignorance and lack of understanding others but themselves) .
Not a chance. Women have been taught that they are Queens and the man has to earn her attention/affection/sex. The man is constantly reminded she can eject him at any time for another man.
Ever hear women talk about the "point" system? "Thanks for picking me up, you get points for this". Do men every talk this way?
Think about it.
No, most don't. They use to at one point in time, but not anymore (society tells them that they don't have to do anything, that if a man has an expectation of her its sexist and he is a bad person for it (but the reverse is never true for some reason).
There has been a few cases but it rearly happens as it should, I'm always caring or 50v50 - or at least I try to be, but I have over heard what a lot tog girls think so probably not as it should be
Absolutely not. Women think that because they have sex with us they sre somehow spoiling us...
In reality they will never pay for the meal, will never bother to listen and support us if we have a bad day, and really just want us for our money and sperm
Honestly I don't think I do as much as my boyfriend does
Knowing all that my wife does, you're probably just being too hard on yourself. Don't dwell on it, trust me, you do plenty. If it's your boyfriend putting these thoughts into your head then dump his ass. You don't need that kind of discouragement.
@whatisaname he dosent I just think I should be doing more
Awesome! I haven't seen many girls/women who didn't do everything possible + more for their guy. So, you're good. Try not to worry about it anymore ;)
@whatisaname thanks
Yes and for biological reasons women or more maternal and giving and agreeable than men. Men are basically like the spine and women are are the heart.
I like your analogy and I think this is way nature means for it to be. The problem is we have strayed so far from our basic nature.
I do! I love taking care of him because he's so sweet and caring. It's kinda sad though how my other friends call me easy to get when I surprise him even when they don't know that I just love my boyfriend!
Sorry to hear that.
you are an alpha female?
Yes, why?
so generally, alpha females like to be in control so how you are so caring or submissive to a guy?
Both of us are alphas. We care about each other.
Did you know that taking care of others is the true defination feminine? Once great ancient philosopher Chanakya said" Male creatures created with small parts feminine characteristics and female creatures created with small parts of male characteristics to balance the Universe".
Reminds me of one of my favorite quotes. "Whats wrong with taking care of a woman? She takes care of you"🖤
It really varies widely, but I think on average, it's significantly less than in previous generations.
I do take care of my man even more than the way he takes care of me. I love taking care of him like a baby. it makes us both happy.
@crazy8000 he tells me that so I believe it is in the right way.
Unfortunately, your quote is far from the usual social messaging in recent times which might help explain why a whole generation of kids are being raised in single parent environments.
Women take care of men emotionally non stop. It never ends. At least the men who claim they are not emotional. That just jeans they don’t understand themselves and rely on their gfs to fill in the Gaps and be silent invisible emotional support so just do not have to feel “ needy”
Women actively persecute men who are "emotional", WTF are you talking about?
All these answers are shocking to me. 🤓
Women take care of everyone. I Dont think it SHOULD be that way ~~ but it simply IS. It’s a heavy expectation. It tends to start from early on where it is expected you concern yourself with everyone else's feelings above your own.. guys are given way more leeway to be assholes. . Women just get get used to it.. its a tacit understanding~~ you just do it.
I don’t know where these people exist where the men are caring for women’s emotional needs and women are cold. I want to meet them 😃
🤔 🤷♀️ I don't know maybe you guys are talking about putting in certain acts to get sex.. which stops as soon as the novelty wares off. that isn’t really caring for someone. It’s a means to an end. That ends.😏
Obviously there are very caring men and dick head women.. but that isn’t the Norm. and I don’t meet these types IRL~ I hear about it only on line~ That I’m seeing reported here lol 😛
I’d love to meet these people it sounds very progressive and fascinating. 😉
Usually I see men who are emotionally in touch and supportive, called names and attached. I find myself forever arguing Against that ~ultimately very damaging ~ kind of prejudice, with very little if any support... 🥱
NOW Suddenly everyone is arguing that men are so emotionally evolved.🤔 Fascinating. I’m speechless lol 😃 I love it 😂
Women keep relationships together. I think it is learned. I think men are 💯 capable of it. I think it should be equally reciprocal. but it absolutely isn’t. 🙄
You are living in a very different reality.
Attacked not attached
honestly You guys are so full of sh*t. I mean that as an observation not an Insult.
Caring men and women who argue everyone should be aware of other people and helpful mindful respectful and caring ~ get attacked (for expecting men to go against nature and trying to create “soy boys” ) constantly in every other post but this one. ONLY bc you want to argue
“ men do it better”
Such a lame lack of swift awareness.. I’ve seen how the topic of emotional support is dealt with on here And it isn’t arguing men should excel. NONE if you you come rushing in to argue that
This isn’t about authentic interest in emotional support, its so clearly a pissing contest ~ It’s pathetic and tired honestly 🥱🙄
Hey I’ll be happy if you all prove me wrong🤷♀️
Show up hailing the superior much admired trait of emotionally aware in touch caring men, selflessly supporting the people around them~~ in posts that are not simply set up as a competition for “who does it better “
I’ll take back everything I says , gladly 😌
Men don't show lots of emotion and tend to be to the point and when women aren't we have a hard time figuring them out because for some reason women expect men to read their minds, when they can't even do the same. Lots of women over Analys a guys feeling, and often make this worse, so they really aren't emotionally aware when it comes to guys. Lots of men will go to the end of the earth for a girl they like. Men plan most dates, give more on special occasions, are often the breadwinners, and are expected to die for their wife and kids. Men do all that while what do women do?
It takes both men and women to make a relationship work, but from my perspective it is the guy putting in more work.
Who are you talking to?
@VIVANT You've been arguing with everyone who said they didn't get as much as they gave, and telling them they are wrong, and now you say this? I don't know but WHAT THE ACTUAL F*CK!
You have been the disrespectful one and not me, and moreover you are the one full of sh*t! When you want to be judgmental, you are gonna be judged too!
Honestly I wouldn't be surprised if you are single! Moreover wouldn't be surprised if you are one of the girls that says "All men are the same, and all of them are cheaters"
Thank you for the time you spent writing your opinion, but next time when you don't want to be in a controversial situation, don't comment in the first place.
My response it to
1 everyone who is on THIS post saying men are more caring than women, but everywhere else saying it’s not manly to be nurturing and women are more emotional.
2 everyone saying men are more caring but say absolutely nothing on posts where the question is not set up as a competition between the sexes.
My skepticism is founded.. as This post IS set up as a competition between the sexes
It is NOT set up as an encouraging space for men to reject sexist stereotypes that attack their emotionality and instead support men being nurturing.
And like I said im HAPPY to be wrong. Please do that would be awesome. I VERY MUCH want Men to be encouraged and to be respected in being nurturing human beings and to not have that very valuable human trait, endlessly mocked.
by all means drop the hypocrisy ~~ have at it.
I’m rooting for you 😌🌹🌹🌹
Why do some women "parent" their partner? ↗
I’d like to hear your opinions on this topic on this post 😊
I find it relevant to the subject we’ve been discussing bc “Parenting” is really just nurturing behavior “ caring”
Protecting etc..
that is here being claimed resides more in men than women.. bc women are less caring.
What I of course notice in general is there is a tendency to dismiss the care women do give it insult women when they are nurturing , or insult men nurtured by them. It’s fine if you disagree 😊. I’m not asking you to agree... I’m interested in your opinions over on the post 😊
Why do some women "parent" their partner? ↗
I responded to a post that was subsequently taken down.. in it I was quoted as insisting women care more for men. abd anyone who disagrees is wrong. ( I’m by the way, totally OK with that misapprehension, . I recognize I did a very bad job of illustrating my view)
First of all I’m 💯 comfortable with being disaagreed with. My original point was hypocrisy and I was welcoming people to prove me wrong. Literally I’d be happy to be wrong.
I was simply intending to point out that 1 is 1, “ expectation of women to be care givers which puts disproportional burden on them ”
2 I rarely see support for the concept of caring men caring for women elsewhere. Though i would love to.
3 women and men are perfectly valuable of caring for each other. nurturance is learned it’s not automatic and kids don’t get taught that efficiently nor consistently. In addition I think men often get attacked for demonstrating such ability by men and even women~~ which like I don’t get bc it works against them. 🤔🤷♀️~~ which leads not only to the absence of being taught but akso
~To strive to learn what is not known
~ As well as a reticence to put into PRACTICE what IS known.
I’m all in support of men that are caring and I’m sorry tyst I had our things in a way that seemed Like I was attacking such men. I really truly am.
I normally write things down if I’m frustrated and instead I just wrote and my frustration came through on here and I feel really bad about that.
I am sorry.
"Parenting" is NAGGING... no one wants to fuck one of their parents! "Parenting" a partner is a guaranteed relationship killer.
I always thought we were the ones providing emotional support non stop. I mean I can't tell how any times I was feeling horribly when I meet my girl and I see she is also having a bad day. I put my best smile right away, swallow all my problems and take care of her.
This went on with every single girl I had.
If anything guys don't show emotions. It's very rare when we do. You girls are more open about them. That alone makes us have to held you emotionally more often.
@VIVANT OK, stop. Men and women "take care" of each other differently. How to men take care of and show love to the women in their lives? How about changing the car oil, making sure the tires are good, brakes are checked, fixing things around house, going out in the blizzard to get the family groceries, doing anything that involves risk or is really shitty, confronting any real threat to the family.
Men take care of women in a THOUSAND ways, it's just that women don't appreciate it.
@KrakenAttackin
Nope. Sorry I respectfully disagree. I understand you have a view you are comfortable with snd I know it is very popular.. to me that just exemplifies how very little respect men’s ability to be caring, as a live emotionally intelligent human being, not as a machine, is actually given. And of course It again points to how little respect women are given as full functioning competent adults. in my opinion
Stereotypes are demeaning and stunt growth.
Human beings are all equipt with complex emotional intelligence and can care for and nurture each other as humans, not objects.
Women don’t need men to change oil and men don’t need women to cook. They can of course do these things if they chose but anyone is capable and at the end of the day no performance will never take the place of true emotional support... that is why even when bc people desire love.
They can pay for everything they need done. These are tasks. They are not emotional connection understanding support and nurture
And fathers are snow to raise children alone bc they are emotionally intelligent humans, not zombies movies and can provide a rich environmental of love and compassion for their children. Not just change oil.
Everyone needs nurturing. And everyone is capable. Many people resist snd it is often discouraged , but it is a human capability.. without which we would not have survived as a species.
Your problem is you refuse to accept that men communicate differently than women. You think anything a man does a woman can also do, but the reality is most nurses are women and most engineers are men. This is not a conspiracy, it is where men and women can maximize their strengths.
I think if both the male and female partner had each other's interests at heart, life would be a lot better and easier. Phil 2:4 explains it - it's God's way of doing things.
Generally I believe women spoil men more than men spoil women.
Yes of course, each in the way they can.
Like some women clean the house wash his stuff, cook him food, support him with his success and so on
Oh fuck no!
Think about it.
Women believe they give sex in exchange for being taken care of.
But out of the other side of their mouth they say they enjoy sex as much as men do.
So which is it?
Women have very successfully weaponized sex.
@KrakenAttackin Weaponized and monetized.
Yes sir.
Do you even need to ask? Of course they don't, I won't ramble with examples it's pretty self evident
I fully agree with the post and live in the hope that women and men take care of each other with equal loyalty, dedication, and devotion.
That'd be nice be unfortunately most people don't think that way anymore.
Yeah usually... but in different ways... any girl who never says no deserves to have her bills paid
pssh... its 2020 women take care of themselves. men just have to give them allowence.
"Women take care of themselves"... yeah, until something needs to be fixed, built, designed, protected, killed, or some shitty/dirty task needs to be done.
Women take care of men but men don't take cake of women sometimes
I would say, in both cases, it depends on the man and on the woman.
I can only speak for myself and I say yes. ♥️
Depends on the relationship.
In good relationship, yes
It should be 50/50.
Definitely not in this day and age.
Never in my own experience , quite the opposite.
No way in these times
I guess not, IT depends on the girl😐😐
Most do take care of each other equally
They do it even more lol
If we are talking about that post, then nope.
Yup we do
Not in my experience
in our dreams
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