Personally I do. I love spoiling the people I love, especially my partner. Too me the key too a good relastiondship is spoiling each other either with gifts, compliments or even by making sex/love (u choose which word describes ur relastiondship at the moment.)
Personally I do. Society, I feel like men are "supposed" to take care of women. I don't believe that true. Men and women should spoil each other bc they both deserve it
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Lots of men keep their feelings to themselves, and I think most men will agree that women push them into sharing their feelings, even if they don't want to. So in regards to taking care of men emotionally I'd say that is because women want to. Guys on the other hand get into trouble when they don't comfort the girl and can't figure out what is wrong. Meaning guys care for women's emotions more. + pregnancy is definitely a time men do all the caring for the other.
For your question if it is because of sex that they think that: I'd say that in lots of long term relationships partners stop having as much sex, even if the man wants it. Not doing that at all kinda shows that the women aren't valuing what they guy wants.
Men keep relationship going more than women do. Have you not heard the saying "happy wife happy life?" I think that is just one of many examples if how society expects men to put all the work into a relationship.
I like women. Women are nice to me. Please don't take this the wrong way..
Personally, the answer to this is definitely no. Generally speaking, I am way more considerate of the emotions of women than women are of mine. There are some friends with whom it's more equal, but in general, a lot of women seem to view caring about men's emotions as a chore.. not my type lol. not my girlfriends. not my friends. but it's a thing.
I have learned to not care about those who don't care about me as it sucks emotionally investing in someone who views reciprocating that as a chore.
Traditionally, men and women take care of each other differently. Men tend to be shaped into the role of financial care, protection, etc. while women tend to be shaped into nurturing, child rearing, etc.
Nowadays, women and men don’t want to be pushed into stereotypes anymore. Each relationship is different, and same sex relationships are also a thing. I think that the needs within a relationship are still the same, but men/women no longer take one job within the relationship.
Gods no! Women take care of everyone!! Women spend more time caring for everyone in their lives than men even imagine doing!!
Men do, sometimes, and maybe some guys much more than most, but mostly, women are the loving, caring, attentive 'care-givers'.
Thank you for that!
You can thank all the machos, who kept saying "i dont give a shit about this or that. i dont care about men's day. We don't need men's day. i dont give a F..., MGTOW bitches. If women need men like fish need bicycles, then men need women like bicycles need fish!" that caused women to withdraw from showing us some love.
Women showed us love.
Then the machos discouraged it.
Then the women turned silent, became confused or pretty much said "fine. have it your way".
Then the blues adopt destructive habits such as alcoholism.
Then the suicide rates of men kept going up.
Coincidence? I think not.
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You reap what you sow.
I don't refuse help and appreciation.
My boyfriend and I take care of each other to the best of our abilities. In previous relationships, I worked much harder and gave 150% at all times and felt like I was getting back 20%. My currently boyfriend and I give each other 150% and it feels to good to have someone who truly wants to take care of you.
My boyfriend owns a business and I do what I can to support him in different ways he needs.
Not American women or women of Anglo-Saxon descent, for that matter. European, Latina, and Asian women are far more affectionate, generous, and proactive in the household. And I'm not just talking wives. Daughters, sisters, aunts, grannies, and even the little old lady down the street who does all their hair are far more vibrant and outspoken than most of the American women I've seen. American women demand so much attention and have some crazy brain virus that makes them equate their human value with how much the people around her, especially the men, are willing to sacrifice to rescue her from her own deliberate displays of helplessness. I've never seen so much insecurity in any other group of people. I relish in the moments of solidarity I get once in a while with black women when we're nodding our heads at each other in disbelief over the crazy bullshit we just saw some white girls trying to pull XD
In some relationships. not at all or very little. in others overdo, some of those are even twisted, comes with shit/drama in between.
You even have those there they gives in the wrong way and expects they should appreciate it like it was in the right way (ignorance and lack of understanding others but themselves) .
Not a chance. Women have been taught that they are Queens and the man has to earn her attention/affection/sex. The man is constantly reminded she can eject him at any time for another man.
Ever hear women talk about the "point" system? "Thanks for picking me up, you get points for this". Do men every talk this way?
Think about it.
No, most don't. They use to at one point in time, but not anymore (society tells them that they don't have to do anything, that if a man has an expectation of her its sexist and he is a bad person for it (but the reverse is never true for some reason).
There has been a few cases but it rearly happens as it should, I'm always caring or 50v50 - or at least I try to be, but I have over heard what a lot tog girls think so probably not as it should be
Absolutely not. Women think that because they have sex with us they sre somehow spoiling us...
In reality they will never pay for the meal, will never bother to listen and support us if we have a bad day, and really just want us for our money and sperm
Honestly I don't think I do as much as my boyfriend does
Yes and for biological reasons women or more maternal and giving and agreeable than men. Men are basically like the spine and women are are the heart.
Unfortunately, your quote is far from the usual social messaging in recent times which might help explain why a whole generation of kids are being raised in single parent environments.
I do! I love taking care of him because he's so sweet and caring. It's kinda sad though how my other friends call me easy to get when I surprise him even when they don't know that I just love my boyfriend!
Did you know that taking care of others is the true defination feminine? Once great ancient philosopher Chanakya said" Male creatures created with small parts feminine characteristics and female creatures created with small parts of male characteristics to balance the Universe".
Reminds me of one of my favorite quotes. "Whats wrong with taking care of a woman? She takes care of you"🖤
It really varies widely, but I think on average, it's significantly less than in previous generations.
Generally I believe women spoil men more than men spoil women.
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