I’m asking as I’m almost 30 and never met a guy that I love that loves me back. I never had a serious relationship. I crush on guys and they show interest back but never serious like meeting family or living together , no baby.
I tried date random dating app guys I’m not into and nothing happens they only want one night stand and there’s no connection.
Only 1,2 guys on the dating app that do agree have serious relationship are the most ugliest ones in the planet , way out of my league and yes sorry looks matter as wen u have a boyfriend or husband u need sex daily. I can’t have sex with someone I’m not attracted to.
the only guy I ever met in my life was at 25, a guy from Ireland. But I don’t meet him as I did want live and fly to Ireland. But now I wonder what is point be here? Should have left over there to be with him. Even if my family cries for me.
So I’m thinking I want a baby before 30 I have only 1-2 years left and I’m ready for a serious relationship even short term 1 year , I’ll need commit to any guy I don’t like in order to finally first time in my life have a boyfriend? Guy love me and I don’t?
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No, a guy you don’t like is obviously not the love of your life.
But it don’t exist for a guy to love me back
No. You need to love each other.
But what if it don’t exist? I never met a guy that loves me back. Just I love guy and he don’t or guy loves me and I don’t.
You can settle for someone you don't truly love, but they won't be your soul mate. Not everyone will find somebody like that, and you have to risk loneliness to obtain it. I'm willing to risk it.
I don’t like any guy, the guys I like and want never become my boyfriend.
Everyone in my life is with someone they like. A boyfriend is supposed to be someone u like. 😓
Are you on the spectrum at all?
Wdym?
No I have no disability im normal
I’m just a bit quiet shy. But I do talk, I love going out,
I asked because you remind me of a friend who’s autistic and has special interests, things she fixates on. You do the same with your determination to be married and with a baby before 30 whether you find him attractive or not.
Don’t all girls do this? My brothers wife’s sister was panicking she’s almost 30 and not married and she did get lucky and got married at 28 and found a boyfriend at 27 . I’m 28 and never had a boyfriend. No one understands that I never had a boyfriend. Obviously u and all girls have many bfs and many serious relationships so that’s y u aren’t desperate or worried.
I don’t want have a boyfriend til age 40,50. I don’t want baby at 35 and when I’m 40 he’ll be 5 years old. I don’t want that
No, all girls don’t obsess like this over having marriage and kids by a certain age by any cost. I don't know what you have against having kids or a boyfriend in your 30s and up but you don’t know what’s in store for you. Also yes I get it bc I didn’t get my first boyfriend until 31. But I wasn’t crazy about it I trust gods plans for me.
U seriously never had a boyfriend til 31? So u were single whole life 18-30?
Yes ma’am
I thought I was only girl. It seems all girls have had many bfs
So u had hookups your whole life? What did u do?
Have you always grown up in a bubble? Not saying that rudely it’s just crazy to think you are the only woman on earth to be single in your mid-20s lol you must live in a bubble. No I haven’t had hookups and all that, I’ve just been busy with school and work. I went straight to school after high school and worked during college, my career was my main focus. I didn’t start trying to date in a serious way until like 28. I’ve been on dates but that’s really it.
Everyone ik all family all friends they r have had many bfs and have husband and babies im the only Person that is alone and never had a boyfriend. I don’t know any girl that never has had a boyfriend
This is your sign to travel!! All you know is what’s around you, you could move away some place you always wanted to go and have a whole different experience. My experience is I was single through my 20s. I only hung out with friends that were goal oriented and the talks weren’t all about boys and babies but planning trips and seeing new things. I didn’t have a couple friends who were like you all about the men but they were in unhappy marriage and 2 got divorce.
In my life no one is single and unhappy they all have perfect husbands. I go out to fun places all the time. Nothing I do makes me meet a guy that loves me back. It’s just I love the guy and he don’t or guy loves me and I don’t like him. I think it don’t exist where two people love each other.
I never in 30 years met a guy that loves me back, my fear that this is my destiny I don’t deserve. A partner so I’ll be alone forever. And it is coming true. I want many babies.
I already am in love with a guy I met a month ago. But I don't know what’ll happen for us now. It’s a long story I can’t explain on here
How do you know you’re in love? That’s pretty serious for about 30 days don’t you think?