How can I convince my classic-style husband to get both ears pierced with diamond studs?

[Caroline44]

Hi. My husband (48), dentist, has a classic and discret style (shirt, blazer, dress pants, tassel loafers). And I would like him to have both ears pierced with real diamonds (identical whose worn by women). I find it so refined and sexy for a mature classic man to dare that. I would like now everybody see him with both ears pierced with shinny and feminine real diamonds, every day, includind at the medical office. How can I convince him? THANKS so much for your advice.

[SueShe]

I don't know if that is a good idea. He is a person that needs to have a good presentation as a dentist and him wearing something typical feminine may give the wrong signal to his patients.

A man wearing earrings gives the impression that he may be gay and for a lot of people, that is not really a very well accepted fact.

I would strongly recommend he does not wear earrings at his job. Whether he wears them within his 4 walls is all up to him but certainly not in his medical office where he meets with people having more traditional views.

[DishLady]

I don't get it. Why do you want a man to look feminine? Was he ever a feminine guy? Seems like the answer to that is NO. And if you're married to him then you KNOW he's not into that. Why are you trying to change him?

[exitseven]

He sounds like a keeper to me. Why not just be happy with the fact he is a mature , masculine man with a good job.

[DishLady]

@exitseven (I'm suspecting "Caroline" here is a dude... why push for your guy to look 'feminine'?"

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[bowenw]

I think all you can do is suggest it and explain to him why you would like him to do it.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[beenherebefore]

Well, I guess my body my choice applies to men as well. If he doesn't want to pierce his ears respect him. Imagine him convincing you to have to get plastic surgery.

[Staximus]

How about just let him be himself instead of wanting him to wear diamond earrings like a woman

[slatyb]

You likely can't. Could he convince you to cut your hair very short or shave it? Let it go.

[Anonymous]

Well, that's new.

[leviopperman]

that sounds retarded. you are retarded