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Polls: Marriage & Weddings

What, in your opinion, makes a man ready for marriage and kids at 20 to 30 vs. those who wait till they're 40 or even older?

I ask specifically about men because it's usually rumored that it's the MEN who have commitment issues (but they are willing impregnate and leave a woman sometimes! How scummy is that!). Also, I wonder why they have the...
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I ask specifically about men because it's usually rumored that it's the MEN who have commitment issues (but they are willing impregnate and leave a woman sometimes! How scummy is Show More
Money reasons. Some young couples are lucky enough to fall into large sums of money (My boyfriend sadly doesn't want to start a family until our finances are at least decent)
Accidents. In the heat of the moment, they forgot their Birth Control. The baby/babies weren't planned!
Other. I'll explain below.
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When it comes to engagement/wedding rings, who should be the person choosing the rings: the man or woman?

I've heard it's typical for the man to choose a woman's rings since he is the one that proposes but I cannot imagine that to many men are educated about rings or know their woman's style/fashion to pick out good rings....
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I've heard it's typical for the man to choose a woman's rings since he is the one that proposes but I cannot imagine that to many men are educated about rings or know their woman's Show More
The woman should pick out her own rings
The man should pick the rings for her
Both should go together and choose rings
Something else
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The bride
The groom
Her parents
His parents
Friends or relatives
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When do you want to get married?

or when did you, if you’re married already?
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or when did you, if you’re married already? Show More
summer
winter
spring
fall
a specific day
i don’t know
i don’t want to get married
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Yes
No
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As long as the wife puts out when I want her to, I’ll be a husband
Marriage is stupid, I’m a bachelor for life
I would really love to have someone to spend my life with
I just want someone to take care of me
There aren’t enough high-value women worth marrying, they all had too much sex
I want to have a family and marriage is the best way to do that
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How long did you and your partner engaged before getting married?

Feel free to also share responses of how old you were when you met, how long you “dated”, and how long you have been/were married.
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Feel free to also share responses of how old you were when you met, how long you “dated”, and how long you have been/were married. Show More
Less than a month
1-3 months
4-6 months
6 months - 1 year
1-2 years
2+ years
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Married people have you cheated, if so why?

i have heard of lots of married people cheating just wondering why it seems so common
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i have heard of lots of married people cheating just wondering why it seems so common
yes
no
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Your advice Show More
The rich woman's
The non rich man's
The rich woman should buy a house
The non rich man should buy a house
They should both buy an ordinary house
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Why do married people seem the most unhappy or stressed?

especially people who married young, they seem worn down
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especially people who married young, they seem worn down
time takes a toll
kids
age
other
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Married couples lives separately Show More
I would
Wouldn’t
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“I do” 👰‍♀️💍🤵‍♂️
“I don’t” 💔🔫
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Yes I would support her desicion
No I would be worried
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I don't need a man / woman. I can handle everything on my own.
I need a man / woman. I can't handle everything on my own.
Other
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Sex before marrige is not a sin since it's not adultury if non is commited?

Fact check "Thou shall not commit adultery,” but adultery is defined as: voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not their spouse. If neither persons are married, it cannot be adultery."
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Fact check "Thou shall not commit adultery,” but adultery is defined as: voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not their spouse. If neither persons Show More
Yes it's not a sin (i checked the link)
It is a sin (I checked the link)
It is a sin ( I did not check the link)
Its not a sin (I did not check the link)
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Extremely. I think about it every week. Can't imagine a future without marriage.
A lot. I really want marriage in my life.
Some. From time to time, I think about wanting to be married, but I'm not 100%. If it happens it happens.
Barely. Once in a blue moon I might think about it, but I don't care if I get married or not.
I'm not at all. I have zero desire to say "I do."
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Thoughts please
Happy relationship
100k a year
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Are scavenger hunts for bachelor/ette parties were popular at one point?

I do see some template on Google and some bachelor/ette party website but don't know anyone who has done it. It is quite good if they fell out of fashion, the number of bachelorette scavenger hunt template with stuff like...
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I do see some template on Google and some bachelor/ette party website but don't know anyone who has done it. It is quite good if they fell out of fashion, the number of bachelorette Show More
Yes
No
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Yes
I Like Current Marriage more
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CUSHION
PEAR
EMERALD CUT
OVAL
ROUND
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