Is it a red flag if my guy says that we will get engaged then he will go for his one year mba and then we will marry after his mba gets over?

[Nimitttt]

Instead of engage and marry and then go for his 1 year mba?

I’m not ok with the 1 year gap between engagement and marriage. Is it normal? Or is it red flag?

Then he said we will do what parents say because he said that parents will talk about engage marry and then do mba so if they say to engage and marry both then we will do that and after that he will do mba of 1 year

bdw I’m based in Mumbai india

Yes

No

[Avicenna]

I don't see why that would be a red flag. It sounds totally realistic to me.

[bowenw]

The 1 year gap from engagement to wedding doesn't seem like a red flag to me, but the fact that his parents are the ones in control would bother me.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊
I hope you things work out for you.

[AlbantheGreat]

I agree, your boyfriend seems pretty submissive to his parents. It could pose an issue later.

[Marcuslrh]

A gap between the 2 is normal and I think. its a smart move.

[slatyb]

Why can't he get his MBA while being married? How long have you been together?

[Iron_Man]

You guys work it out start talking to him today

[Nimitttt]

As in?

Engage marry mba
Or
Engage mba marry?

[Iron_Man]

Come up with a compromise, the two of you about your engagement when you’re going to get married

[strateguy632]

not red flag because offered engagement