Questions: Marriage & Weddings

As we know, the majority of domestic violence in the west is committed by women. Women rule the roost these days, often with an iron fist.



But what do husbands do? Why do wives kick the shit out of their husbands?

I have been having an affair with my wife's sweet beautiful younger sister after she moved in with us after their parents divorced. It started after during my wife's second pregnancy when she was bad with morning sickness all the time and her sister took care of her as well as the household choirs while I was at work. It started up after she caught me "taking care" of myself" in the basement and she laughed and giggled encouraging me to finish up as she wanted to watch, then she deceided to" help "me herself. After she offered to take care of my needs while my wife was unable like she did with everything else and thats where the affair started and though I was madly in love with my wife I fell big time for her younger sister.
Eventually my wife found out and there was hell to pay for it and she took the kids away from a month but came back after her sister had a discussion with her. So they both met me in the living room where they told me that they both love me and the younger sister my mistress was pregnant with my child and that they both want to live together as both my wives. So my head still can't get around it and they share me equally in bed on different nights.
Life is pretty sweet right now but I wonder about the future and if this can last long term as I love them both. So can a marriage with three people work?

My wife cheated on me with my two best friends. I found out this morning when they admitted to sleeping with her, and showed me the pictures theye took of her naked. When I confronted my wife she suddenly became angry and shouted "because you're crappy in bed ok? so fucking deal with it!!!" I was repeatedly sexually abused when I was 8 years old, and I find sex too hard deal with. The whole thing is too emotional for me, and she knows this. I love her so should I forgive her?

Now this phrase hasn't originated by gag but by a lot of people some online, some in real life that women tend to marry for resources while men marry for love. To clarify, what they mean is women know how to exactly press a guys button, manipulate and make herself seem in love with him.
They know how to go after men who make money, and efficiently as possible got themselves in the door and now married (studies actual show husbands on average make 20% more than their wise for the bear minimum). All under the rouse of love. We see evidence of this when we hear many women say they just want to get married already so they can get fat. We also see other instances when a male wises up a little and questions female behavior only to get shammed and bash for even having the though.

Example - Suppose a girl went out with a completely different type of guys in her youth. College athletes, real estate agents with swagger etc. Yet, by he late 20's she goes for an IT nerd she wouldn't have given a chance in her early 20's.



Guys who aren't brainwash by social programming and take a step back to question "Hey i'm nothing like any of the men she pursued in the past (which gives a pattern of what she likes) why does she want me?"

Many women and some men will chime in that the man is being insecure for asking a very real question about a woman's intention in wanting to get with him.

We also see evidence of resource extraction when 70% of divorces are initiated by women in marriages where the laws are in favor of extracting money from the man.