Is chinese girl very hard to find an american boyfriend?

[kittyandstar]

i've stayed in US for more than half yr. I've dated with and ABC(american born chinese) but never have an real american boyfriend. is it because our culture so different? I think I've been very americanized since I came here. or I'm not so pretty? always feel lonely...

[Distant]

Chinese girls should have a very easy time finding an American boyfriend. It's just a little uncommon because within the Asian community, there's the overall idea that you should find a boy in your own race. You often only go to family parties with other close family friends and so forth. I'm not judging. I used to date a Chinese girl and I merely observed all of this. Many American boys would like to have a chance to date you, you just have to get out there and meet them!

~Distant

[kittyandstar]

oh thanks distant. yes I like family party and I'm not used to the Friday nigth bar. I feel it disgusting to sleep with a guy you met during dance. I think one the guys who interested in Asian culture would like to have a chinese girlfriend. it's not always easy to find one.

[Distant]

It's true. You don't want to meet a boy at a bar because he might be into a different type of thing. Especially for a girl, such as yourself, who is interested in a more respectful man. Try meeting American friends in school or in an activity outside of the Asian community. If you are hanging around with only your Asian friends, some Americans will be afraid to approach you because they think you might not be interested.

~Distant

[MarcusDavis]

Ummmm..can I have your number? :-P Do you smile at white guys? Sometimes we are so into what we are doing, and don't realize we have not smiled in days. Guys do it too often too. I know I do. If you want to be approached -- be approachable. Open. Fun. Active. You attract, rather than chase. Ya? :-)

[pippy]

I don't think it's hard but did you give a chance to get it? Try to see more people and get to know new people, it may help.

I have an american friend and he is married to Chinese lady so no matter what culture you are in, as long as two people love each other, love will find the way!

Good luck girl! :)

[Girlie8780]

Hahai have the opposite situation. The only guys who have ever asked me out at white, Hispanic, etc guys. I've never dated an Asian guy but I would like to. I don't know why they don't approach me...

[gummybear888]

not all American guys are that great to date. some bad apples in every race.

[Anonymous]

well, judging from your english, there's probably a language barrier between you and most white guys in america. your best bet is to find someone who's studied mandarin or whatever dialect it is you speak. to be in a relationship with someone, communication between you and your boyfriend is the most important thing.

[razoer]

hey

what you say:"good things come in small"

what mean?

I don't understand and explain.

[Backbone]

Not at all. Chinese girls are what they call good things come in small, tight, packages!

[razoer]

hey

what you say:"good things come in small"

what mean?

I don't understand and explain.

[zagor]

A lot of American guys like Chinese women, myself included. I spent a couple days in Taipei and wished I could have to talked to the girls there.

[Roraq8]

any race can date any race, everyone has a chance

[razoer]

you are very good girl

The racial equality, the world

[Roraq8]

I just stated the obvious :/

[majianghong]

Why you want an American?

[Anonymous]

maybe it's the where you live

[razoer]

Just dating, of course, no problem

[kittyer]

It depends,just see the fate,can't importune

[Anonymous]

It's not that hard