How to find an American boyfriend since I am a Chinese girl?

[polariszuo]

I am a traditional Chinese girl and works in Singapore as a nurse,I always want to find an American boyfriend in SG.However,it seems quite difficult for me. I prefer staying at home or going out with my Chinese staffs.in SG,I just feel like I am always alone most of my time.Working is my biggest theme but I do not want to be like that.most of my patients are also from US.I just like American guys who can also improve my English.i want a guy who also likes Chinese girls and interests in Chinese culture.Please be sincere.

[garylong]

to start you need to drop the traditional Chinese girl ACT as if you was a traditional Chinese girl you not be on this web page and you not be looking for any more then a Chinese guy.

and if you are looking for an American guys who can help you with your English then I hope no man meet you as you what will he get out of it after you date him for 6 months ?

i have seen girls like you before just looking for a free teacher as you never did well in class and just want to use some one for English and when you find him you will expect him to speak to you in Chinese. as most Chinese girls do.

if you want a boyfriend for love you need to look for love not what you can get from him eg English.

if he loves you and you love him English will come over time. if not you best pay him 1000 RMB per hour. sleep with him for his time.

[dawnfang]

I doubt many Americans are in Singapore and most would be on vacation. There is a military base in Singapore at Paya Lebar Air Base in Sembawang, you could try there or try a online dating site.

[polariszuo]

Yes,u are right.thanks

[dawnfang]

Why a American boyfriend?

[polariszuo]

Most of my patients are foreigners such as German,Arabic, Russian,Japanese,British,Korean,French and local Chinese who are very different from real Chinese,they are very few cause our hospital is much more exp than locals .the most welcome patient is Americans and Japanese ,Korean .they are easygoing and initiated,u can get their mean easily,they are straightforward .However,locals is very difficult to handle,they always complain a lot so that they can get refund from hospital.they treat you as

[dawnfang]

Okay then, but why not try a Japenese or Korean guy or is part of it that you would want a non-asain too?

[Primrose]

I think what you mean is a white boyfriend or do you mean anyone from America? White guys almost everywhere love Asian girls. I have found a few men who prefer other races but most men find Asians excitingly erotic.

I'm Chinese and I have an 'American boyfriend'. It's honestly easier in an English speaking country. but you do have you put yourself out there. If not try online dating. There are plenty of American based online dating sites with men willing to do long distances.

Okcupid, pof, eharmony, etc...

[polariszuo]

thanks a lot!i guess like lots of people saying:in SG it is difficult.i have no chance here.

[Primrose]

I don't think you don't have a chance. I'm saying its limited because.you are in sg. There is that one girl blogger from sg, xiexue or xiaxue. She has a white husband. I'm not sure where he is from originally but she has one! Don't give up hope.

[Koldhearted]

Well I was gonna say if you lived in the US that'd be insanely easy

in Singapore I have no clue. Are there even a lot of American guys over there?

[polariszuo]

Yes,there is a lot American guys here ,but in the place I seldom go,like bars.lots of philipine girls there and they love to ask AMO locals call white man as AMO to buy drink for them,after that they may date or go to hotel but for me ,u know,it is difficult .I don't even drink beer I feel discomfort in that place

[TsubasaCorrupted]

Don't fall for expats. They can be nice but they don't usually want a wife.

[regenderate]

Hook up with one of your patients, lol!

[polariszuo]

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[cupidkisses]

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