But if you ask me to surprise you, you won't get a thing cause I can't think of anything ๐ ๐ .
What about you guys?
I dont care to go to parties but yes im good at organizing/planning the events. As for gifts, i pay a lot of attention to my familyโs โwantsโ as well as a guys wants/needs if weโre dating, so I definitely know what to gift him. I gifted one ex a bunch of Naruto gear, some custom made. I even got him a gaming chair, a watch, and so on. I dont even care for anime and games but I cared for him so i made the most of it. He on the other hand did not know how to gift in return and clearly paid less attention to what I was into. The item he got me wasn't even worth $20 nor was it anything that could be kept as a souvenir. As for friends and acquaintances, I rather just gift money over a gift. UNLESS they can tell me right then and there what they want (because I dont even try to remember). One wanted this expensive vintage record player so she got it.
I care for a lot of people so no. If im dating someone OR if its my parent/grandparent/sibling, i know what to get them lmao
So if you dont know what to get a person, give them money or a gift card and let them go buy it for themselves
Yes, I'm good at both of these things and I really like planning parties and gift shopping. I even like wrapping the presents - and each package will have extra sharp creases and pretty matching ribbons/bows. 🙂
I'm generally not a party kind of guy, but I could plan one (and have) no problem. Food, drinks, music, even a venue if needed, etc.. However, I SUCK at coming up with ideas for gifts for people. 😂 Which is fine, because I don't do it anymore. I don't like the consumerism of holidays and buying gifts. Buying gifts for the sake of buying gifts isn't something I'm really into, simply because a date on the calendar tells me to. There's other ways to show you love someone other than buying them things. But I, and all the people I know, have all that we need, and we don't need anymore "stuff". I haven't received a gift in about 7-8 years (I've asked for no more gifts, not even cards that I have to eventually throw away) and I'm just as happy for it. I have all I need. I'm done with it. 😊
I think I'm very skilled at knowing what kinds of gifts women generally want. I've bought gifts and given gift cards and/or money to numerous women, many of whom had a boyfriend at the time.
Oh, I always make sure that her boyfriend enjoys the attention I'm giving his girlfriend, because I love spoiling a beautiful woman who has a boyfriend. One of my favorite ways to spoil a woman is to pay for a romantic evening for her and her boyfriend, or buy something for him.
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