Do white guys like black girls?

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I'm only attracted to white guys and always have been, I'm a black female and I find other races attractive but in my opinion personally white guys top the list for me, anyways lately I've been seeing on social media (mostly from black men ironically) a lot of derogatory, racist and just plain rude comments towards black girls. yes black girls are seen stereotypically as rude, or loud, or annoying but then again so are white, latina and Asian girls, to me it doesn't matter on race, if you're annoying then you're annoying no matter the skin colour. and not all black girls fit this stereotype, like myself, in fact ironically I'm actually quite the opposite. anyways I'm 15 and basically I just wanted to know in today's society (2014) do white guys like black girls? and would any of you white guys be open to dating a black girl? or would you not because of stares, racist family members etc?

jesseray · Accepted Answer

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joe_soapus · Accepted Answer

I certainly find black girls attractive and have had a number of black girlfriends. There is a lot of nonsense and rudeness talked about and between races. I'm not into that. If it's not uplifting then I'm not interested.

brainybeauty98 · Accepted Answer

As a black girl I can say that I am hit on by many different races, but have not dated many by choice. Actually, white guys seem to be more attracted to me than black guys, but they rarely make advances for their own reasons. At least that's how it is in the south. I also find that guys of other nationalities make their attraction to me known also try and broaden your horizons a little. Hope that helped.

RandomStudent · Answer

I find black girls to usually be more subtle and quiet in comparison to other girls tbh, the media puts in our heads that they're loud and obnoxious. Anyways, no, I find a lack of romantic feelings for black girls, and I don't know why. Sorry, it was just how I was born I guess, but I'm most definitely not racist.

Rail2k · Answer

I'm a white guy and I'd prefer a black/mixed girl over any other skin color, so there's guys like that out there. I've dated black/mixed girls as well so it's not like I really care about racist stares or anything (we never got any, or at least I didn't notice them).

I don't think most white guys are like this, but I'm proof that some are.

MechaDray · Answer

Some white guys like black girls... yes
But mostly... its everything that comes with dating a black girl that turns people away from what i hear... personally im not attracted to black girls... when i say that... i mean your stereotypical... which is many of them... every now and then there is a decent black girl, but then... i would be always more attracted to other races.. so not fair to her...

ArchDruidMordred · Answer

I dated a black girl once. at first she seemed to really love me and I loved her but then she started to become less and less into our relationship. I later learned that she had cheated on me with a friend of hers... so yea. I'll be a little more careful about dating a black next time.

tsd8124 · Answer

Me personally im not attracted to African American girls as much as Hispanics, whites, or Asian. (not to be racist) i know that not all African American women fit the stereotype but i have just had a lot of encounters of African American girls being very ignorant and loud.. just really killed my vibe toward African American Women.. but i think that you are not that way and i hope that you meet a guy of any race because you seem to not fit that stereotype.

TadCurious · Answer

I think black girls are great, and I would definitely date one (I'm white). And yes, I find black girls attractive.

HikerDude · Answer

Very few people of either race are actually willing to cross that invisible line. I don't think more than 1 out of 20 white guys would actually date a black girl in real life. I think the same math holds for black girls dating white guys.

Part of this has to do with race and family members, but I also think that there's less attraction between racial groups than there is within them. For instance, a black girl might be willing to date a black guy who is a 6 out of 10 (to use a crass metric), but she might only date white guys who were 8s or higher. The same would hold for white guys. I've seen black women who are proclaimed to be "drop dead gorgeous" by other black girls, and I didn't think they were attractive at all. And it's not that I'm trying to be more discriminating, it's just a matter of preference.

I think that people just prefer to be with people who look somewhat like them.

Argus14 · Answer

Eh while I'm not actually white I'm pretty white if you get white I'm saying so I'll throw my 2 cents in here. While I really don't have anything particular against black women physically they're not my favorite. Closer to the bottom of the list on average. There are exceptions though.

DarkEmblem · Answer

You asked this before.   and somewhere in the comments there, someone said you asked it before that one too.

MrNemo · Answer

Yes, always have (provided they're not 15!) :) Seriously I've met two black girls I would have dated (and who wanted to date me) in my life but circumstances didn't allow it.

Prof_Don · Answer

Some do, some don't.  Some that do may be intimidated by black American culture, or worried that ur family is very strict about only dating black guys.

why_not_anonymous · Answer

Plenty of white guys like black girls. A woman is a woman, and not a skin color. It's what you've got going on underneath that's of real interest. Being a nice person beats being a particular color.

Anonymous · Answer

There's nothing sexier than a well spoken, well dressed, well educated black woman that craves the White D.

croxy · Answer

I generally aren't as attracted to black or Asian girls as to others. This is a personal preferance of what I'm attracted to, and not a racist opinion to make this clear :P

I'm equally open to date any race aslong as I'm attracted to her, it's just less black and Asian girls I'm attracted too, but if I am, they have the same chances with me as any other girl I'm attracted too.

Anonymous · Answer

Please don't take offense to this but I personally find white women and some Latina women as the most attractive overall so they tend to be my first choice. That being said if a black girl was pretty enough and we where compatible I would date her no problem. I'm white with eastern European heritage and Eastern European women tend to work with me the best

OldDinosaur · Answer

My dad did and that was a long time ago and I think things have progressed a lot further. I personally know lots of white guys who like black women.

goretcki · Answer

Race doesn't play a factor in who I find attractive.

oldtom188 · Answer

After having just had a year long relationship with a black girl, I can give you some insight on this. It may be harsh, but if you are ghetto, strong willed, feminist, quick to get angry, and rude, then no white guys will not find you attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

Attraction just happens. Don't force it

Anonymous · Answer

for the most part i don't find black girls are attractive however i am attracted to other races. although sometimes i am attracted to some like say lisa bonnet when she was younger and on cosby

goretcki · Answer

Me personally, I have found a lot of black women attractive. I don't date based on skin color.

Draugr · Answer

I personally think black women are more attractive than any other type and would love to date one but I find the opposite and that they aren't into me

Anonymous · Answer

Okay so my cousin is over and this is his answer:  He said that he most definitely likes black women/girls what ever they like to be called. And he think they / some not all are rather beautiful

Anonymous · Answer

I'm a white guy but don't like white girls probable because I was raised around white people my whole life.

Anonymous · Answer

Black girls can't resist white guys.

Anonymous · Answer

whats is your preference is it euro guys or Canadian guys or both? How come your preference is white guys? have you been affected by media, movies?

Robb76 · Answer

Yes... especially if they have EYES!!!

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