Can a girl be too pretty to approach?

[Anonymous]

My best friends is absolutely gorgeous but she has trouble dating or even getting a guy to talk to her and she's never had a boyfriend. She is also really nice and down to earth, not bitchy at all so I don't know why she has trouble dating. Can guys be intimidated by pretty girls that they won't approach them or something?

[JSmuve]

100% yes. It's an occurrence that most guys will go through. They see a really hot girl that they want to approach but they get it in their minds that they only have one shot and only the most perfect conversation with her will do otherwise they blow their chance forever. A lot of guys crumble under that sort of pressure and never approach.

[Asker]

So would it help if she approached you first?

[JSmuve]

It definitely would, though I'd be like a deer in the headlights if she did. I'd be stumbling trying to find common ground with her but once I did then it'd be smoother sailing.

[expandedmemory]

for me personally im not. i love a challenge so to speak.. haha confidence and a smile r the keys to success...;)
other guys might have a problem with approaching a beautiful young lady like your friend. either because they aren't confident, or theyre just shy. everyones different ~

[WhaChaChaKing]

Yes, I'm the perfect example. Some guys can't even look at me and some are so stunned by my beauty they frown in despair because they know they can never have me. It's sad really.

[Cyhhgg]

Not really. Just a normal, human thing, really.

[guy123sharshen]

yeah they're afraid of rejection. Most of men are like this. They will only play at their league mostly (physical, intelligent, sense of humor and many more).

If you want to fix this things, approach the men you're interested with first. I found hard time for men to reject the woman they're considered as "attractive" in their eyes.

[Lyndsielee666]

My boyfriend was terrified of my for about 4 years. Didn't talk to me all through high school because I intimidated him. Guys are probably intimidated by her. Haha

[Anonymous]

The only time she would get bitchy, is on her period, I'm assuming, right? Otherwise, she's pretty calm, yes?

Most guys assume pretty women are already taken. Because we believe that all pretty women are the only women desirable. This of course isn't true, it's just what we're told (media)

[ZackRaines]

I know of well off people who tend to avoid visually loud women. They say it attracts trouble.

[toutatis]

Yes, we assume pretty girls have boyfriends, so I would never approach a pretty girl and many guys would agree with me.

[Anonymous]

if they are too ugly a guy won't approach either