Boys please rate me (1-10)?

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I have to ask why guys never approach me or flirt with me. I have never been asked to a dance at school (homecoming/prom/etc) not even one and we have had 8 school dances so far. I don't just want to sit alone by myself while everyone else has a date. I don't have many guy friends but some of the guys that asked my friends were like complete strangers so I'm guessing most guys would ask a girl they didn't know well. I am shy but my friends are even less social than me and they all have dates and get asked by at least one guy every time we have a dance. We are seniors and I have never been asked. :( Whats weird is that my school is 51% guys so there's more guys than girls. can you rate my looks 1-10? Not fishing for compliments here just be honest. What should I do to become more attractive or get asked to a dance?

Sinister · Accepted Answer

I think maybe because it's high school and the maturity level is pretty low and you might just carry yourself better than other girls. Perhaps it could be the friends you associate with that possible guys don't like or have beef with for whatever reason. Maybe the style you have isn't what the possible guys are looking for. In all honesty from me, it's high school many guys don't have much confidence in themselves to ask a girl to prom/homecoming if he doesn't feel like he's got a chance with you. Don't feel like it's your fault, because some guy doesn't know how to sort himself out and ask you to homecoming. You said you are a bit shy, but maybe you could ask a guy with whom is in your classes and see if he's willing to go if you feel like he's going to say yes. Who knows you might actually have a lot in common with him. It's what I had done when my date to prom baled out on me. I just asked a friend from class even if we were not dating we just became better friends.

Jonzor · Accepted Answer

Honestly? I am not sure why guys are not asking you to the dances based on those pictures. If I were being asked out to a dance by any of those girls in the picture (I would only reject the one with the hat, as I don't like the image lol). Otherwise I would no doubt be proud to take you to the dance, except I would ask that you have your nose stud removed as I really really really dislike it and think it detracts from your face. The bottom image is a summary of all the reasons why a guy should invite you... Stunning.

So if its not your looks, could it either be your style or personality? The image with the green chair suggest to me your not a girly girl, and like more boyish stuff, possibly gaming. I am probably just over analysing :)

spuitkaas · Accepted Answer

You are really pretty! I guess you may not seem to look approachable to guys. I don't know why actually, because you don't look arrogant or as not a nice person. Maybe you should open up a little, so try dance on your own or something and you'll look like a spontaneous and fun person. I don't know if that looks really stupid or something on American proms. At dutch proms, we don't really do dates, everybody comes with friends. You can also try to ask a guy out, but as I already said, I don't know anything about American proms sorry

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You're extremely beautiful. I don't like your hair in the second pic at all, but you look perfect in ask the others. I can't really say why you don't get asked out. Maybe you're too shy? I don't really believe in the intimidation thing because really attractive guys know they're attractive and will go after really attractive girls.

Maybe there's something about your personality. Who knows.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Don't take this the wrong way but you kinda look like a lesbo that would be why. You look like my ex gf especially in this   You're stunting, some guys are jackasses don't sweat it high school will be over soon.

zeke1987 · Answer

Wow its hard to respond to this because your not 18 yet so i would say you are pretty you look very elegant for your age and there's a lot of guys I'm sure would go out with you for sure like i said you have elegant look to which would make you girlfriend material for some lucky guy your own age.

Maybe its just the case of guys being intimidated by you i know by experience that its so hard sometimes around women i find really pretty you never feel good enough for her, maybe that's the case for some guys at your school.

Terminal_Access · Answer

10/10 no question about that.

as most others have said its going to be a confidance thing on the side of the guy's

your in the category of super georgous and most guys will be attracted to you but to afraid to come and ask you, an unfortunate stigma that comes with extreamly good looks.

It might be worth comming out of your comfert zone a little and letting the guys get to know you more but that means approaching them and showing them that your just as aproachable as the anyone else.

BeardedDude · Answer

12.5/10
Holy shit... god damn!! You are one fine honey (no disrespect... young lady).

The only reasons guys aren't coming up to you is probably because you're so attractive that they think you already have a boyfriend, in their head they're thinking "There is no way this girl is single, she's way too hot, so I'll just move on."

blondfrog · Answer

7.5 if you were older i would rate you higher its always the prettiest ones that never get asked out guys are just too shy trust me they probably don't think they are good looking enough for you. I know when I was in high school I didn't think I was good looking enough for any girl.

ArchivalMars2 · Answer

DAMN GIRL YOU ARE A DIME!!! Well I would say its because you're gorgeous!!! I would say your a 9(8 at least). Its because you're very pretty it's almost nerve wracking, their probably just so nervous maybe even scared to try and ask you out

Nuns_in_Heat · Answer

WOW!!! 10/10! You look like you should be on the cover of a magazine!

My theory, guys are intimidated by your looks. They're either afraid to talk to someone so pretty OR they think you have to have a boyfriend.

Eaglesoars · Answer

try asking a guy out that would work, a guy would be crazy not to say yes, you are gorgeous on my scale you'd be 9.5 on looks but I'd investigate more to find out your personality that could be what may be turning guys off, but by looks damn...

bryan_alex · Answer

Oh come on, seriously, you've gotta be fishing for attention, you're goddamn beautiful, I call BS that you don't get guys asking you out and flirting with you.

smartie95 · Answer

It won't let me open the pictures and now i'm soooo curious as to what you look like!! Please DM one? If not nevermind I just read the comments and it frustrated me a lot :)

Anonymous · Answer

you look like her

GenCoupeTT · Answer

I don't like the numbers game but you are very good looking :) my guess is they're intimidated by you because they most likely think they have no chance and you would reject them

parkway · Answer

Possible the problem is you look 18-19 and you may be intimidating the guys. You should never want to be rated because what another thinks of your looks has nothing to do with how you feel about you.

jointhepatriarchy · Answer

Lose the nose stud, your face is perfect without it. You also dress kind of preppy which is going to make the average guys think you're out of their league since preppy chicks tend to be really stuck up about who they date.

hemingway · Answer

Confidence is what attracts people. Not too much to the point of cockiness, but if you're confident with yourself, people will notice :)

Jettison · Answer

Just be you! You are very beautiful, have you tried talking to boys a while before a dance? Get out there!

steveisbored · Answer

Obvously extremely cute, I would say an 8. You should get a lot of attention if you don't, I would assume the guys are too afraid to approach you because you are very attractive

Tokana · Answer

I'd rate you an 8/10, if I was at a bar and you were 10 years older I'd take a jab, depending on the atmosphere. I'd be scared cause I'm black and you white.

cavmanier · Answer

Them not asking you is a coincidence. Most of them would be terrified to ask you. It's not because you aren't attractive.

Johnyoo · Answer

Hmmm... Well you're definitely up there, but why would a girl as pretty as you need to ask us to rate you? Is it really you in those pictures?

BinaryColor · Answer

Honestly guys are probably scared by you, generally a really pretty girl will be more likely to reject them :(

jamaall89 · Answer

You're a cute girl. Don't worry about it. Take your time to find someone worth dating. A lot of guys can seem charming at first in High School, but many of them just date cute girls for improved social status among his peers.

TheEnding · Answer

Your looks are definitely not the problem. I'm not sure why you haven't been asked out. You could try sending signals to someone you might want to have ask you out. Like a smile or something to let them know you're interested.

BrianG123 · Answer

You're very cute. Not sure what their problem is. You may be too attractive and it intimidates guys?

rUinSAYAN · Answer

maybe you are intimidating the guys, or maybe your pics were from google search. if not take it as a weak compliment

nerdyasianman14 · Answer

You are a 7. I would buy you a tub of frozen yogurt with oreo cookies.

jgarcia · Answer

I'd say 6-7 maybe you come offrom as bitch or stuck up, that will keep us away for sure

Slientwalker · Answer

10! You are beautiful! Don't get annoyed what people think of you. Stay amazing!

Anonymous · Answer

You are so cute!!! Honestly I think you're very pretty. Don't worry

Athleticbroo · Answer

Is that really you? holyshit/10 if you have boobs too.

Carterfootguy · Answer

Wow, you're really pretty. 10 isn't enough. You're rating 11 on my scale. I can't believe no-one has never asked you to a dance. In my opinion, it's impossible to make you anymore attractive. :)

JSmuve · Answer

6.5 or a 7. Maybe 7.5 if I'm feeling generous. Above average though.

DeadBattery · Answer

Wow you are a stunner. Too bad you are out of my age range :D :D

ihatethiswebsite · Answer

Maybe they think they aren't good enough looking that you would be interested in them

Anonymous · Answer

you're are to beautiful for them and there are intimidated by you and your beauty. so scared you will just say no

Anonymous · Answer

your green/white hair looks bad in that picture. You should be able to get guys to fuck though

Anonymous · Answer

Very pretty! I am not gonna rate with any number. Pretty is pretty :)

mutedaisy · Answer

You're really cute :>

Kris85 · Answer

You asked this question about two days ago.

Kaynetime · Answer

I'd taint that, message me when you're 18

Levin · Answer

I like American teeth.

tex45 · Answer

You are gorgeous. I'd say 8/10.

Downanddepressed · Answer

I give you a 9. You are jaw dropping beautiful

Patrick453 · Answer

You are pretty, i give you a 9

Ihav2fart · Answer

Your first picture is cute. 7.5/10 .

fotis · Answer

Firmly 9 or even 10. Stunning

foxsquirrell · Answer

I can't see the pics. Quick add some more!

Cómoestás · Answer

Eres una mujer hermosa ;)

harrison102 · Answer

I say a 7.5 to a 8 xxx

Klaatu51 · Answer

how tall are you?

ArabianPwincess197 · Answer

You're pretty :)

Anonymous · Answer

8-9, guys are intimidated.

CellLuddite · Answer

8 Eight. 8 Eight.

pedro58 · Answer

You are really pretty (:  10

SteelMagnum · Answer

A solid 6/10

CauCaspian · Answer

Are all these you?

randomwhiteguy · Answer

Off the scale

Anonymous · Answer

Over 9,000!!!

JonBon · Answer

very beautiful ! :)

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