+1 yI like a girl to be a gamer since I am, but to me it doesn't matter if they are or not. If a girl who I really liked, and they were not a gamer, asked me out I would say yes than a girl that I liked equally, and they were a gamer, asked me out the next day for the same night and time as the other girl I would have to say no I'm sorry I already have plans for then, and it would be the same the other way around. I would also tell the girl that's a gamer that so and so already asked me out for then and i said yes and I do not like disappointing people/ breaking prior arrangements with people is why i can't then, but i want you to know I still really care about you and ask her if she wants to come over to my house and play video games and if I go to hers and we play video games sometime. I'd give the gamer girl a big hug and tell her words cannot describe how sorry i am and how much i would have loved to go out with you and it doesn't matter if I have a girlfriend or not, I will always be there for you if you need me or just someone to talk to, heck I will even leave in the middle of a date or hanging out with other friends/ a girlfriend, or my job so I can physically be there for you. I would give her my number and tell her to call me if she ever needs to talk to me or she just needs someone to talk to, and if she needs someone to talk to for her to call me first and it doesn't when it is, she could call me at 3 in the morning, midnight, anytime. I would do the exact same for the girl who isn't a gamer, except I would tell ask her if she wanted to hang out and do something she liked. or we both liked instead of video games.
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+1 ySure, although CoD doesn't count.
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@JazzyLove hmm? What do you mean?
Guys find it intriguing if you have traits like them. They like to connect and share time with someone. Some may even find it sexy. This can go for all kinds of skills and personality traits.
But the truth is that their primary focus is beauty and femininity (includes sweetness, gentleness, kindness, sensitivity, submissiveness, grace, etc.). Guys are attracted to girls who are opposite of them.
Analogous to that, guys who are effeminate may be interested in tomboys, but even some effeminate guys want feminine girls and are only being effeminate because they are projecting on women, thinking making themselves pretty and being lady-like is going to work. Same way you're projecting and thinking that being skillful, or having a "guy hobby" is going to get you a guy.
You can spend your life boasting about any of these amazing skills, or quirky hobbies, but guys don't really give a shit on their priority list. They just don't want a blow up doll for a girlfriend, some stuff may be sexy in a fetish-like manner, but that's it.
In their core, guys want someone to compliment them, someone they can be proud of but still feel superior to (because they often simply are superior, and because they want to feel like the protector in the relationship), and someone to be beautiful for them.
All that other stuff is a perk, unless it's a fetish.
Just like women are amazed by guys who are popular, have amazing skills, and if they are handsome, that's a nice perk.
Some women never figure this out and spend their life alone chanting how men are intimidated by their *insert skill, or asset here*. -_-02 Reply- +1 y
@kain7th Popularity, wealth, skill, intelligence. All the traits that make you influential, powerful. Women instinctively seek providers and protectors. To older women it's money and intelligence that's most attractive.
Popularity is attractive to all women as well, yes. But it's much less important to women around our ages. I put popularity into my explanation because I am talking to a teenage girl, trying to get her to see my point.
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+1 yIt's usually always less this:
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Depends. Listen to internet. People usually spill their soul and desire in there. ''Gamer-girls are hot'' here's your answer. You might not be every simple boy's type, but don't concern yourself. There are plently of gamer-boys to choose from.
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+1 yMaybe. Still depends on her personality more. There's tons of different girls who play video games and not all of them are girls I'd want to date. Plus there's not much of a point if she doesn't like the same games as me.
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Fuck yes if you aren't unbearable to look up. There was this one girl I knew who was fat and wore a shirt that was too small and her belly always hung out. She wore too tight pants so she had this disgusting muffin top. She probably never did her hair cuz it was pretty disgusting. But she had on some videogame backpack.
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+1 yIt really depends on the girl I guess. A lot of us older gamer guys sort of have a grudge against the older gamer girls though because they hid the fact they played games to be popular and did not associate with us. Things are different nowadays though since it's mainstream. I'm glad most people don't view it in such a negative way anymore.
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+1 yIt's not attractive or unattractive. Most men can't get it into their heads that girls can play video games too. Video games are a fun hobby but it's no way to impress a guy. Chances are he'll think you're a poser unless he sees you playing for himself. He probably won't take you seriously and tell you to get back in the kitchen and make him a sandwich.
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+1 yi am a girl gamer!
And i would not say i'm not hot because of that,, and if i would say from what guys say to me and what they say to my friends about me they say i'm pretty hot and that i'm cool for being a gamer..
I love being a girl gamer and a lot of guys like me for that00 ReplyNothing wrong with a girl gamer in my opinion. I believe that is most guys that are gamers dream to have a girlfriend that will play with him. You would sure fit in my country because apparently the gaming market here is 48 percent female dominated.
00 Replyif the girl is hot -already-, then yes, being a gamer is attractive.
if the girl is not attractive, then being a gamer doesn't add to her looks.10 Reply
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yIt's attractive when girls are attractive.
Video games are a hobby. If a guy's into video games, he's probably going to value your hobby to a higher degree than a guy who surfs or plays sports, etc.10 ReplyI don't really care, about 4 years ago I would have lol, but hey if we just so happen to play games together, great.
00 ReplyIt is an attractive factor,
There's still more to you then gaming.
But I find it to be attractive.10 ReplyR u kidding me
I'm very badly attracted to girls who play video games20 Reply
+1 yI am not interested in gaming stuff. So a gamer boy would not be a neither must nor plus for me.
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+1 yNo, because that doesn't particularly change anything. That's like saying I'm sexy because I eat crumpets sometimes.
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+1 yYES
I love gamers, I never got good at playing games, but I do like to watch other people play.00 Reply4.2K opinions shared on Other topic. To guys into games I would generally think so. To me no.
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+1 yWho cares? Good games are so much better than good looks.
00 Replybig whoop you're a gamer. just because you're a girl doesn't make you special. maybe to those desperate guys on there.
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+1 yI don't mind either way, I'd personally like her to be more into cars than video games.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yWell I'm not a gamer myself, so I wouldn't really care either way. Though I think my gamer friends would love it for their girl to be into that type of thing.
00 ReplyFor me, It's a HUUUGE turn on !!!
I love gamer girls01 ReplySome of them love some of them don't.
I as a gamer zero care what they think about me.00 Reply
+1 ySince I'm not much of a gamer it's not important to me. However tons of guys love that.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI'm neutral about it. I used to be a gamer. Not much anymore. You can do it if you want
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 ywell 90% of the guys on gag are nice guy, virgin, gamers so of course they'll think it's hot.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yYES! YES! I wish I could get my girlfriend into World of Warcraft LOL.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yI think guys find girl gamers attractive. I'm a gamer myself. Id say hot
00 Reply2.1K opinions shared on Other topic. As a gamer. Bring them on, Hot!
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+1 ydepends if you're hot or not
10 ReplyGo to a lanparty slightly dressed up and find out.
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+1 yHow old are you?
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+1 yI'm a huge gamer so hell to the yes :)
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+1 yDon't care about the sex of the gamer
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+1 yA really gamer girl, hell yeah
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+1 yYes, definitely.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yMeh its no big deal
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