My 12 year old boy cousin accidentally saw me partially naked... What do I do?

[Anonymous]

I didn't realize I had left my door open and started changing out of my swimsuit. I heard him walk by, and then I looked over and saw my door wide open. I know he saw me because he was acting super weird the rest of the day. Should I say something? Or just leave the situation be?

[MadeInAmerica]

I'm pretty sure after a few days it will blow over and be fine. If he is still acting weird around you after that I would have a talk with him or tell your parents or aunt/uncle about it so they can talk to him or assist you in talking to him.

[AlexCab]

I wouldn't talk to him, might make things worse. If you think it's too weird, tell his parents so they take care of that. It was an accident, nothing sexual so no biggie.

[itsme_goodsamaritan]

Act as if nothing happened. It was just an accident. If you raise any alarm, it will remain in his and everyone's memory longer and do more damage. He could feel guilty. If you take it as a non-issue, then it'll soon be forgotten.

[Asker]

Thanks, this helped a lot :)

[Anonymous]

If your open to it when just u r around just tell him there's nothing to be weirded out by and show him your body

[Asker]

Show my body to my 12 year old cousin? that's so wrong...

[Opinion Owner]

You can show him its normal and natural

[Anonymous]

You do nothing, just let it go.

And be more careful about leaving the door open when you're changing in the future.

[MyInternetUserName]

Do what they did to that kid in Breaking Bad. you can't leave any witnesses.

[Tiffanymonroe]

Lemme guess.. you are an american?

[Asker]

Yes I am, why?

[Tiffanymonroe]

Tipycall Americans.. so NOT open minded... he just saw your boobs and so the fuck what? What does it matter.. he did not touch them, knows you have them... sees it on tv. there is no big deal at all. The fact that he was shocked though, haha.. makes me think that he rather sees dick.

[Klaatu51]

let it be there's nothing to worry

[delrey]

Nothing, what is there to do? It's no big deal.

[delrey]

I really don't understand kids, why is he weirded out by that? Why do you have to talk to him about it?

[Asker]

Well it was probably his first time seeing a naked girl, and he was acting weird and dazed. I noticed him a few times laying face down on the couch after it happened...

[delrey]

LOL! Funny kid.

[Asker]

Haha pretty sure I scarred him for life...

[Cameronn00]

He was laying face down? As a guy, he was probably hiding his physical reaction instead of feeling traumatized lol

[Anonymous]

Did he see top or bottom?

[Asker]

bottom

[Opinion Owner]

Depending on how old you, how old he is, and how close you are in age, he may have walked out of there with a raging boner. I know that sounds gross because he is your cuz, but the hormones do not care.

There may be some awkwardness. The image is probably stuck in his mind for life. He may try to avoid thinking about it, or he might find pleasure in it. Just don't walk into his room tonight without knocking.

[Asker]

I'm 17 and he's 12, and by the way he was acting afterwords I think the image was stuck in his head. :/ I just hope this doesn't make everything awkward between us now.

[Cameronn00]

I think their right, and I dont think it made things awkward because he likes what he saw.

[ledfoot64]

leave it alone

[Anonymous]

Put some clothes on.

[Asker]

No duh dude. It was an accident.

[ThatBritishLad]

Leave it be.