My girl cousin saw me naked?

[Anonymous]

i was taking a bath and the door have no locks, she opened the door , she thought i was her sibling taking a bath then she saw me naked and im like wtf. i just dont know what to do in our awkwardness. should i leave the house. she's just a visitor staying for 1 month here. i can't face her anymore. by the way im a girl. she and we're not close she didn't say sorry. and We're Asians by the way

Leave the house until she leaves where you stay.(i can leave i have other house to stay)

Pokerface, like nothing happened

Avoid her

[DarthLadyKiller]

that is awkward. Just act like it did not happen and if she brings it up, laugh and say that you are sorry there was no lock and then talk about something else. It is not terrible.
I have a British friend that moved to Greece, shared a small house with a Finnish woman, and the Finn would jump out of the shower, naked, and run around the house until my friend told her that made her uncomfortable and could she please get dressed. Just don't make a big deal out of it. She is probably more embarrassed than you are and will be glad if you don't act weird or bring it up.

[Asker]

😫 haha alright thank you

[Streamhopper]

This is a tough one. Americans would say poker face; that's our culture. But Asians, that's a different ball of wax. I wouldn't blame you if you left the house.

[Asker]

yeah im not so sure tho, majority here are americans or westerns

[Streamhopper]

That's true. I did read through the replies you got; but I understand the cultural aspect of things. I've studied Japan extensively, and most of Southeast Asia to a lesser extent. Consider it a hobby of mine. I suppose if I was in your position, and I could go to another house and stay there, I probably would.

[nimbus24]

I shower with my girl friends naked. No malicious contact or anything, no big deal. There's nothing wrong with a girl seeing another girl naked. I'm Asian too by the way.

[Kayla45]

So what? My sisters seen me nude from time to time, cousins not really.. Unless it happened when I was much younger as I do not see them that often.

[Asker]

i think its because from where i came from. I'm from asia and many people here are sensitive

[JaneMancen]

I know how you feel, but there's not much to do about it.

[America1st]

she's a girl. What did she see that you are so self conscious of? What did she see that she doesn't have? Either I'm missing something here or you are way over worrying about nothing. Just do things normally. I can't imagine she really thinks much about it at all. Stop overthinking this.

[Asker]

i see her and she's avoiding me

[America1st]

Ignore it. She may be embarrassed that she came in. She may feel like she should say something and not know what to say. Let it go and she'll get over it. Just be yourself and when she sees it's no big deal, she should settle down.

[Asker]

thank you america

[America1st]

You're welcome.

[Mr_President]

if she stayed there it would be weird. if it was super quick I wouldn't make a big deal about it

[Asker]

yes its just quick she slammed the door lol 😂😫😫😫😫😫

[Mr_President]

pretend like nothing happend. I would advise against communication if possible

[adamski24]

You're family it's no big deal we all seen naked people before and know what they look like.
So many of my female friends and family and I have seen each other naked and nude for many different reasons.
I understand it may be different for you and your culture but try to look past it now.
It happened now not much you can do.

[Whatthefluff]

That's pretty weird. At least it's only a month and not permanent.

[Jim1991]

I'm Asian, and I've lived a majority of my life in Asia. it's no big deal. whatever awkwardness you feel is all in your head.

[kafaco]

hehe.. keep it simple dear, you are not of other gender anyway, why worries chill. and ask her how did she feel after seeing you naked, and may be you guys can get much closer and intimate if possible.. haha.

[that_dude_v2]

Obviously this varies from person to person, but I personally don't give a shit if a guy in my family sees me naked even if I don't know him

[LemWill]

Tbh, it doesn't sound like a big deal. Been there done that.

[Asker]

that was my second time. my first time is when i was like 12 and my uncle saw me accidentally. 😭😭😥

[LemWill]

Must be a gender thing. Cause i been seen naked and vice versa by immediate family, relatives, and friends

[Asker]

i think its because from where i came from. I'm from asia and many people here are sensitive

[LemWill]

Understood

[independentman]

you should have a shower courtain and a lock to that door

[Asker]

the door knob is damaged just few days ago, and haven't fix it , too much busy

[independentman]

You could put a chair on dood if it opens inside or a system lock if it's open outside

[Arya_Christ]

what does being Asian has to do with anything? and yeah it is no big deal..

[Lopezz1999]

Ikr?

[Anonymous]

I don't see what the problem is. Forget about it and move on.

[chuy10]

where would you go if you left and why would you leave

[Titanic1912]

Avoid her as best you can!

[Anonymous]

Get over it. It's no big deal.

[garrrrry]

never been in a changing room before?

[Asker]

no, and I'm totally naked

[garrrrry]

dont worry, we all have bodys. nothing to be ashamed of.

[Asker]

alright thanks 😫😫

[Dred1614returns]

Be mature. You're both girls, it's nothing.

[Asker]

we're not kids. im 22 she's 19 and its embarrassing

[Dred1614returns]

Alright, you're both women. It's nothing. Act like you're adults.

[Asker]

alright thanks 😥

[thomasans]

Whats the big deal? Same sex no big deal.

[daremetwo]

No big deal.

[Anonymous]

what does being Asian have to do with it