I obsess over height?

[Anonymous]

I am 5'2.5" otherwise known as 159 centimeters tall. Every day, I search up the heights of celebrities i know, and if they are shorter than me, I get a bad feeling. I know I'm not tall, but I don't feel short either. I feel like I have to be short to be worth something... and that's really strange. I mean height shouldn't matter, but it really does to me. I compare myself to all of my friends as well, and count all the people who are shorter or taller than me. How do I stop obsessing over height?

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I feel like it's because I am in the middle of short and average, so I feel like I need to prove myself or something

[youknowitt]

I have the same issue, only I feel that I need to be taller to be worth something...

I aspire to be a model, though I'm only 5'4.
But hey I got past comparing myself to others because fuck it, I could model for lingerie when I'm 18 (no runways for me though ;( ) , and no matter what I'll always be the best version of myself.

As easy as it is to say, and as hard as it is to do, just love yourself okay? <3

[Asker]

That's sweet <3 omg yeah it's kinda sad that people need to be so tall for the runway but whatever

[bombamboum]

It's like you could change something about it. It's just is. I'm your heigh 1m58 and never had a problem with it. You can change your weight, your apparence but height just stay the same, you have to accept that.

[Asker]

I really do need to accept it! Gah you're right but i am just sooo paranoid

[bombamboum]

Don't be, I don't really get why you have a problem with it. I mean, most men like short women and it's not because we're small girls that we're not strong.

[Klaatu51]

basically you're only 1.5" shorter than average so you're not THAT short.

i feel almost the same like you i'm not tall, but on the shorter side, yet i want to be shorter in order to feel special.

don't ask me how tall i am, i'd rather not say

[Asker]

Yes exactly
Nah I won't, but how short would you like to be?

[Klaatu51]

around your height

[Asker]

Oh, that's pretty short huh.. We just have to wait until it's possible I guess lel

[Michaelfreltofte]

Learn the fact that you can't use peoples height for shit. Maybe if you ask them to an amusement park, but thats it

[Asker]

I like that statement haha

[Tokana]

If you have no control over something than just forget about it. Plus you''re a woman and guys generally don't care.

[Asker]

I feel like they need to have the shortest one all the time 0-0

[hardon81]

I love your height.

[Asker]

Hah why thank you :)

[hardon81]

What if I love you

[Asker]

that would be weird, considering im anon