Guys, would you date a fat girl with a beautiful face?

[viviansmommy]

I'm over 250 lbs. Great personality, funny, outgoing, intelligent etc. I have been on a diet lately and trying to exercize to lose a few pounds. Would you date me or be my boyfriend reguardless of my size or does size really matter?

[Anonymous]

It depends on how she is currently living her life. I have struggled with my weight all my life and I can't be with someone who will make living a healthy lifestyle for me even harder than it already is. I still need to lose more weight, but I have learned that being with the wrong woman can cause me to balloon up fast. Currently I am 220, and would date a woman of your figure as long as it didn't mean that I was going to be derailed from trying to live healthier myself.

Looks are important as there needs to be some attraction, but it isn't a huge deal for me. I am more concerned with finding the right woman that will treat me well, and support me throughout my life.

[mistninja314]

Yeah, but 2 things are going to have to happen.

1 She's the 1 who approaches me ^_^
2. She's going to have to treat me good (not materialistically speaking) and overall be a really generous person

Like I always say "a cute face > body" every time for me at least. Now usually that goes for girls that are so called chubby. but I'd date a so-called fat girl also ^_^. Once again, she's going to have to be cool as hell to hang around though. i1127.photobucket.com/.../...f.com-add-text_15.gif

[viviansmommy]

Lol peek a boo

[mistninja314]

Crap I forgot to go "anon"... but even when I'm "non-anon" I'm still "anon" since I'm always hidden in the mist

Mistninja314 might be here, but you'd never know (¬‿¬)

[imlawXD]

I'm gonna be the only one to say this I guess but yea id date just about anyone as long as there nice and honestly big girls are usually really nice and great cuddlers ;) more to love I say

[viviansmommy]

That's really sweet.

[imlawXD]

I'm here to help :) law at your service

[imlawXD]

You don't need someone who is gonna force u to lose weight u need someone that will go along with want you want cause after all its your life your the one that's gotta live it

[Anonymous]

No way, a girl with whom I would want to be in a relationship must meet three conditions:

1. Beautiful face, eyes and hair (Ugly girls are out of the question)

2. Fit/Athletic/Toned figure - but not overly muscular, or Slim/Slender/Thin body - but not too skinny (Fat/Chubby girls are out of the question)

3. Assertive, dominant and self-confident personality (Nerdy/Geeky/Goofy girls are out of the question - I'm not attracted to girls with glasses, or shy girls, or passive/submissive girls).

[AleDeEurope]

Well, you're 100 lbs heavier than me, and to be honest, I'm not attracted to girls that heavy. Maybe when you manage to lose some pounds you'll look better, because honestly, you do have a beautiful face, but I'm more attracted to girls less heavy.

[viviansmommy]

Oh ok :) thanks for the compliment

[Outofthegrey]

No. Doesn't agree with my lifestyle in terms of a long term relationship.

[TedStar]

You can tell someone's lifestyle by the way they look?

[Outofthegrey]

@Tedstar Bodysize is an indicator of certain lifestyle choices. I'm physically active, jog in the mornings, make sure to eat less than 30g of sugar in a day, and the only beverage at my apartment is water. The majority of all other people who make similar choices are going to be on a completely different diet than those who don't, and have a completely different mode of living. Speaking longterm here, you're not likely to be together for an extended amount of time without habits like that clashing if they aren't already somewhat similar. Let alone a complete change.

[TedStar]

I hear you, but I just don't buy the "lifestyle" excuse when you don't know the person. I mean what about some models who have gene on their sidea and who are heavy chain smokers who don't eat right or exercise. They look OK, but their insides and " lifestyles" not o much

[Outofthegrey]

Right, but we're talking about the average person here. Not statistical anomalies. Muscle does weigh more than fat, but when I say 300lb man do you think the image of a bodybuilder or an overweight man come to mind for most people?

[DarkHumorRUs]

There are SOME fat girls out there who would have beautiful faces if they were of normal size, but alas, they are not.

[Watermelonoma]

*looks at the comments*

and certain individuals on here will still try to tell me that its better to be fat than skinny on here xD

[singlebee]

Whooaaa... no way... LOL that's too much fat... there...😁

[meatballs21]

I was presented with this exact choice once and I said no.

[hypno-trip]

You have a nice face but I have trouble saying yes. I‘m a pretty slim guy and I'd like a slim girl too...

[adamski24]

No sorry not for me. I'm not saying you're not really beautiful beaches you are I can't be with a larger lady. Xx