Do black girls love white boys
Black girls and white boys?
For me I would love to meet, fall in love with and marry the right dark skinned lovely young lady. To quote someone from earlier, "It is my hearts desire to be in a relationship with a white man because its so beautiful, and not very common." I completely agree, it is rare to see, and there is something exotically alluring and very exciting about being with a woman opposite of me in a physical sense. HOWEVER, what I have found, is in my experiences it is a lot more difficult to go beyond the physical attraction I naturally have and actually connect and find similarities with someone, and get past some things.
#1. Finding a black girl that is actually attracted to white guys and letting her know that you are a white guy that is genuinely attracted to black women. (Bringing up this alone makes you start off right off the bat as sounding racist, so you have to not bring it up and hope somehow you can both figure out that the other person is into who you are)
#2. Finding someone who has enough personality similarities to you that you can actually get along together and do it well. This can be a problem in any dating-stage of any relationship, but I believe there is some added pressure to make damn sure for us nice good-intentioned white guys to hold you ladies in the utmost respect and honor, so we must be very careful if we show attraction and interest and then later decide we have too many differences in who we are, to tactfully stop things.
#3. If things get more serious, sometimes people can find added negative pressure from friends/family on both sides. It may be easy to say at first, "I'll stand up/defend my girl or my man to anyone no matter what", but when someone you love or care for your whole life says some very hurtful things, it can be really hard.
To describe what I think would be the most amazing woman ever- and some of these things may some stereotypical some may not- but either way everyone is an individual, all women are beautiful in some way, and this just to me would be the most amazing lady ever:
A lady who is dark skinned, big brown eyes, curvy, that knows how to be playful, flirty, confident in some ways in herself, is very intimate and wants to be really close with someone, has not been overly promiscuous, polite, stands up for herself and can have a backbone when necessary, smiles a lot or have a friendly attitude toward people, and is a very sensual person that often would like to have physical attention from their man... Leaving other parts out such as interests, life goals/direction, all those things I mentioned above to me make up the most alluring and desirable attractive beautiful lovely woman ever. If I could be the man that was either good enough, smart enough, or lucky enough to attract someone like that, I would fall completely and totally in love and want to give her everything I have to offer and all of my heart.
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Yes they do. I'm a white guy. I'm also one of the few that is smart AND built like a brick outhouse. I almost got engaged to one. We went our seperate ways because we were just too far away to make it work. She was a real sweety.
I like the sweet ones but there is something about a black girl's confidence too. I think it's maybe when I look at the culture that it at least SEEMS like it's more masculine in nature so you have to have confidence or you'll get eaten alive out there.
I do like the various skin tones and even the ones that seem almost white too. However there is something about one that is so black that she looks almost like a polished onyx stone. I don't like the "braids" or whatever they may be called, I love the jet black hair, I like the hair straight or maybe curly depending on her natural beauty. However if I like her, I won't say anything about the hair because I know she can look good when she wants to.
I also like that some have such natural dark color on their lips that it contrasts with their skin color as if it's a natural lipstick that man can not copy.
I like that a lot of them are into sports. I like that because it seems like white girls often are not but not always. Because of this, they seem more likely to be more of a companion than some distant individual that it would take an act of the Almighty to have anything in common with what so ever.
I like white girls and all but most I find prefer to be distant, friends or teases. I have no time for such games.
I find myself most often attracted to as a result, anyone with a skin tone different than my own. I often find such people interesting. I like Asian girls, they're nice unless they just fall into demonstrating that they have something about their personality that isn't very good then I just shut the door on them completely.
The other thing is that I often meet a black girl that goes to church but is often more wild than some church going white girl. When I figure that out, I definately like that, because I know sex won't be an issue in a real relationship. Now if she's bi-polar or something like that though then that won't fly, I need a stable girl, a girl that's gonna help me through the rough stuff in life.
As long as they play along and dress decent when around my family and understand my mom puts up a front, I don't care what she wears (more or less) when we are together.
Yes, I do. White guys are a lot nicer to me than Black guys. I like that a lot of White guys actually LIKE my dark skin and the way I keep my hair natural. Black guys don't seem to like those things about me. Black guys are always telling me that I'm too black and that I need to bleach my skin and get my hair relaxed. Once, when I was in high school, a Black guy even walked up to me in gym class and cursed me out in front of everyone for keeping my hair natural. He actually said to me "You need a f***ing perm. This is the 21st century. Black women nowadays get perms. YOU look like a f***ing SLAVE with your nappy ass hair." No White guy as ever said anything like this to me. That's why I prefer White guys.
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I know my generation of black women love white men because their parents told them to stay away from them. I think the black race in America is going to be beige soon because most of my girl friends date white men. I do not have time to be trolling the clubs so I date close to my circle of friends. As a result, all I met are white men looking for black women. So I always in up with a white man. I hate to seem shallow but I am attracted to the bone structure of white men. I aways feel nice when my boyfriend puts his large hands on my face. Black men tend to have a smaller bone structure. My white girl friends like that. I don't really like that in a man. To each his own.
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Well as a black girl myself. My preference is pretty much white guys. The only problem is. It is hard trying to figure out which white guys like black girls.
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Hi! I must admit I have always been attracted to black women but I was just too shy. Until I met the most beautiful and amazing woman in this life My Queen, the LOVE of my Life and we are happily married since 3 years. It was her that approached me and since that day with each moment our love and passion for each other has grown more and more. She fills my life with happiness, every moment with Her is magical and Perfect. It was not easy, we had our highs and lows, because of the prejudice of stupid ppl, different education and our own stupidities and flaws but with LOVE, Care, Patience, Respect and Understanding we passed thru it all together. Our families have been very supportive since the beginning, especially her mom that I love like my own. So all you couples out there or singles, Don't get discouraged! or let anybody judge you because of their stupidity, precocieved ideas, narrowness or hate, Believe in YOUR COUPLE, Believe in YOU, Believe in YOUR LOVE because it's the Only thing that matters. Focus on your dreams and goals as a couple, on your love and to be more perfect for each other. Always be positive, care and love each other, speak much and don't let the negativity around you affect you. Just brush it off. All that matters is LOVE.
God Bless you all! I love you Boo Boo<33333 -
Idk about my friends but as far as I got I have liked Black girls since I was very very young boy. I just like the darker skin and darker hair and don't know why. but not like I wouldn;t date a white girl. Just not genrally as attracted to them.
I read some girl that posted you like white guys but just don't know any white guys who would like you. That's how I feel about any girl who isn't white because guys have this image in theire head girls only like black guys. Least that's what it has seem as of late. And especially black girls. I remember this one black girl telling me one time she never messed with white guys because they didn't know how to handle her. I just think people speak for the group too much and not realize peole are individuals. -
do black girls like white guys? of course, i do . i'm black and i date only white guys, why? i guess i just like them more, of course black guys ask me why, would i even go with a white guy, your better than them your figure your body type is just to (fine), your made for an black guy, and white guys cant handle you , well to all of them guys that or angry because black girls chooses white dudes over you , fuck you because at the end of the day all of us or the same white, mexican, or black it doesnt matter.
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I'm black.... I don't have a preference.... As long as your a good man..... It doesn't matter.... Just like any other relationship you have to be attractive and cool as hell.... Willing to except your partner flaws and all...I do know that interracial relationships maybe a little harder than most, but that should make your bond that much tighter....Anyways I just think women love men good men...Lol... No matter what color they are.... Well at least I do!!!!!
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I'm a black chick and I love white guys. In fact, every guy I've dated/hooked up with has been white. I dunno, I love how sweet and caring most of them are. They really know how to appreciate a woman's body, even if they may have the wrong intentions. Most black guys that approach me can just be so crass that I pretty much ignore them.
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Black girls are nice, But most white Guys Prefer Asian Girls I know, Because Asian Girls are more self empowered, and their usually not running away from something, they tend to be comfortable in their own Skin. Black girls aren't. Black girls tend to compliment me on my looks, and the color of my eyes. Asian girls tend to ask me deep meaning questions. Black girls tend to talk about what annoys them, like ugly babies, I've dated at least three black girls in the past year and they always talk about how they'd have pretty babies with me. Asian women are not that superficial. they tend to look at the inner quality of their potential mates.
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So true )) I love white boys all boys at that haha I like boys of all races. I've always been more attracted to white boys though haha. It is really hard like other people have mentioned to find out which white boys like black girls especially where I live because I'm surrounded by white people all the time. It gets hard to be able to tell which one likes you, or just wants to try hooking up with you. I wish I knew a way of figuring it out : )
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This matter is sensitive!
it is no an issue of race, but feelings. We do not get to choose who we fall for, its where our hearts find the most comfort. Be it black or white!
Now if you star by looking at the race you might t end up being alone.
Take shopping as an example. When you go out shopping ad you come out having a particular cloth inside your head! Well, chances are that you might overlook that dress that would have fitted your curve more beautifully, just because you have a particular one in mind.
Its not the race, whether black girls like white boys or the their way round, its where your heart finds the most peace.
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I love black women! I have been happily married to a completely wonderful black woman for 10 years now. I am just as much in love with her as I was 10 years ago when we first met. I don't know about the other white guys out there, but I have strictly dated black women because...There is that mystique or air about them that I find desirable. From my experience, most white guys do like black women. The problem that I hear from most of them is, they are nervous about being in a relationship and hearing any negitave comments from family and friends. Some of the guys I know think that is to much pressure. I call that a cop out myself. But, that's ok because that just leaves the more confident white men for the truly wonderful single black women out there
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this is great,hearing all these black lady's saying they only want a white guy,i just wish I would of found this out awhile sgo,i get a lot of looks from black lady's when I pass them at the mall or on the boardwalk,and I always wanna ask them for there number but I'm not sure,thanks girls for saying what you want,just the other week,i was at a meeting and it's more black people then white and the most beautiful girl there came up and hugged me and starting talking with me, o she was black,but she had kids from a former man,so that is soreta a no for me,but I'd rather have a black girl over a white one,i don't know if this is out of line saying this,but I only watch porn with black girls and white guys,you girls are the only one;s that turn me on,
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i like all guys! If you're attractive and you have everything I'm looking for in a guy
then why wouldn't I like you? A lot of white guys are attractive, and I know its "taboo" or whatever to say that in front of other black people.but hey.its a new day and age, lets put the racism and whatever behind us and become more open minded! -
As a white boy - I'm crazy about black girls for a number of reasons. First because I feel super comfortable around them - I don't feel like I have to control my words. Secondly, I like a woman with Confidence and Curves. If she will grab me at the club or come close to dance - I am down - that is HOT and it makes me want to give her a good time. I've been to a club more then a couple of times and before I know it, there is one hot girl after another running up on me. It makes me want to step up look etc. because there is all of this interest that I didn't know was out there. I think the future is brighter with our young generation coming up - we don't dictate our decisions by race as much. This seems particularly true in the under 25 set. One of my best friends is black and he is in an interracial marriage. So my advice is if you're hot for someone - holla at 'em. To quote Pac you got "Nothing to Lose."
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I sure do!I love all races!
I just love guys in general,if you know how to treat a lady,and your cute then I probably have my eyes on you. I used to actually only like white boys and black boys,but then I realized I was stupid because anyone can have those qualities no madder what race you are!
so yup.I LOVE them all! -
YES! I know TONS of black girls who are very attracted to white guys, myself being one of them. I can tell you that most black girls who like white boys don't show it because their afraid that white boys don't like them. Bottom line: we should not be judged by the color of our skin, but by the content of our character. If you like a girl regardless of their color, you should go for it. Yes, they may turn you down but really, you would be surprised at how many black girls love white boys.
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Looks like a question aimed at the girls, but I'm all for mixed couples. Let's continue until it's so normal that the question doesn't need to be asked and we don't even have a term for it. Sade, if you're listening, I'm here.
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I love (LOVE) white guys. They are the only guys that I'm attracted to. But it's so hard trying to find a white guy who is willing to date a black girl =/
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I find all races attractive, personally I have liked a guy for two years he is white, but not just because he is white. I think he is cute, funny and nice. He likes me too ,but we don't talk to each other because we don't have any classes or activities together. So if you mean is a black girl capable of falling in love with a white guy? Yes ,but don't ask as if every black girl is the same, it depends on the girl herself.
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Well I am white I am 45 and have never dated,women in general say I am weird and ugly,but regardless I do like girls predominately dark skinned black girls,although some buxom white girls take my fancy,sadly women have only ever wanted me as a friend.
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I actually am more attracted to white guys than I am to my own race! I don't know if that's just cause I was brought up in a mainly white community or the fact that God just want me to be attracted to a white person! I do feel that white guys are reluctant to date black girls cause it's not SOCIAL ACCEPTABLE esp. where I live, but it is for a black guys to date white girls. Plus a lot of people stereotype, both black and white, so that doesn't really help!
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We sure do. It is my hearts desire to be in a relationship with a white man because its so beautiful, and not very common. The fact that white men like exactly what black men don't appreciate about us black women.
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