Black girls and white boys?

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Do black girls love white boys

Californiadrewski · Accepted Answer

For me I would love to meet, fall in love with and marry the right dark skinned lovely young lady. To quote someone from earlier, "It is my hearts desire to be in a relationship with a white man because its so beautiful, and not very common." I completely agree, it is rare to see, and there is something exotically alluring and very exciting about being with a woman opposite of me in a physical sense. HOWEVER, what I have found, is in my experiences it is a lot more difficult to go beyond the physical attraction I naturally have and actually connect and find similarities with someone, and get past some things.

#1. Finding a black girl that is actually attracted to white guys and letting her know that you are a white guy that is genuinely attracted to black women. (Bringing up this alone makes you start off right off the bat as sounding racist, so you have to not bring it up and hope somehow you can both figure out that the other person is into who you are)

#2. Finding someone who has enough personality similarities to you that you can actually get along together and do it well. This can be a problem in any dating-stage of any relationship, but I believe there is some added pressure to make damn sure for us nice good-intentioned white guys to hold you ladies in the utmost respect and honor, so we must be very careful if we show attraction and interest and then later decide we have too many differences in who we are, to tactfully stop things.

#3. If things get more serious, sometimes people can find added negative pressure from friends/family on both sides. It may be easy to say at first, "I'll stand up/defend my girl or my man to anyone no matter what", but when someone you love or care for your whole life says some very hurtful things, it can be really hard.

To describe what I think would be the most amazing woman ever- and some of these things may some stereotypical some may not- but either way everyone is an individual, all women are beautiful in some way, and this just to me would be the most amazing lady ever:

A lady who is dark skinned, big brown eyes, curvy, that knows how to be playful, flirty, confident in some ways in herself, is very intimate and wants to be really close with someone, has not been overly promiscuous, polite, stands up for herself and can have a backbone when necessary, smiles a lot or have a friendly attitude toward people, and is a very sensual person that often would like to have physical attention from their man... Leaving other parts out such as interests, life goals/direction, all those things I mentioned above to me make up the most alluring and desirable attractive beautiful lovely woman ever. If I could be the man that was either good enough, smart enough, or lucky enough to attract someone like that, I would fall completely and totally in love and want to give her everything I have to offer and all of my heart.

CurlyHairedGuy37 · Accepted Answer

Yes they do. I'm a white guy. I'm also one of the few that is smart AND built like a brick outhouse. I almost got engaged to one. We went our seperate ways because we were just too far away to make it work. She was a real sweety.

I like the sweet ones but there is something about a black girl's confidence too. I think it's maybe when I look at the culture that it at least SEEMS like it's more masculine in nature so you have to have confidence or you'll get eaten alive out there.

I do like the various skin tones and even the ones that seem almost white too. However there is something about one that is so black that she looks almost like a polished onyx stone. I don't like the "braids" or whatever they may be called, I love the jet black hair, I like the hair straight or maybe curly depending on her natural beauty. However if I like her, I won't say anything about the hair because I know she can look good when she wants to.

I also like that some have such natural dark color on their lips that it contrasts with their skin color as if it's a natural lipstick that man can not copy.

I like that a lot of them are into sports. I like that because it seems like white girls often are not but not always. Because of this, they seem more likely to be more of a companion than some distant individual that it would take an act of the Almighty to have anything in common with what so ever.

I like white girls and all but most I find prefer to be distant, friends or teases. I have no time for such games.

I find myself most often attracted to as a result, anyone with a skin tone different than my own. I often find such people interesting. I like Asian girls, they're nice unless they just fall into demonstrating that they have something about their personality that isn't very good then I just shut the door on them completely.

The other thing is that I often meet a black girl that goes to church but is often more wild than some church going white girl. When I figure that out, I definately like that, because I know sex won't be an issue in a real relationship. Now if she's bi-polar or something like that though then that won't fly, I need a stable girl, a girl that's gonna help me through the rough stuff in life.

As long as they play along and dress decent when around my family and understand my mom puts up a front, I don't care what she wears (more or less) when we are together.

Althea · Accepted Answer

Yes,  I do. White guys are a lot nicer to me than Black guys. I like that a lot of White guys actually LIKE my dark skin and the way I keep my hair natural. Black guys don't seem to like those things about me. Black guys are always telling me that I'm too black and that I need to bleach my skin and get my hair relaxed. Once, when I was in high school,  a Black guy even walked up to me in gym class and cursed me out in front of everyone for keeping my hair natural. He actually said to me "You need a f***ing perm. This is the 21st century. Black women nowadays get perms. YOU look like a f***ing SLAVE with your nappy ass hair." No White guy as ever said anything like this to me. That's why I prefer White guys.

Sasha · Accepted Answer

I know my generation of black women love white men because their parents told them to stay away from them.  I think the black race in America is going to be beige soon because most of my girl friends date white men. I do not have time to be trolling the clubs so I date close to my circle of friends.  As a result, all I met are white men looking for black women. So I always in up with a white man.  I hate to seem shallow but I am attracted to the bone structure of white men. I aways feel nice when my boyfriend puts his large hands on my face. Black men tend to have a smaller bone structure. My white girl friends like that. I don't really like that in a man. To each his own.

nothing2thkof · Accepted Answer

Well as a black girl myself. My preference is pretty much white guys. The only problem is.  It is hard trying to figure out which white guys like black girls.

Dragonboy · Answer

Hi! I must admit I have always been attracted to black women but I was just too shy. Until I met the most beautiful and amazing woman in this life My Queen, the LOVE of my Life and we are happily married since 3 years. It was her that approached me and since that day with each moment our love and passion for each other has grown more and more. She fills my life with happiness, every moment with Her is magical and Perfect. It was not easy, we had our highs and lows, because of the prejudice of stupid ppl, different education and our own stupidities and flaws but with LOVE, Care, Patience, Respect and Understanding we passed thru it all together. Our families have been very supportive since the beginning, especially her mom that I love like my own. So all you couples out there or singles, Don't get discouraged! or let anybody judge you because of their stupidity, precocieved ideas, narrowness or hate, Believe in YOUR COUPLE, Believe in YOU, Believe in YOUR LOVE because it's the Only thing that matters. Focus on your dreams and goals as a couple, on your love and to be more perfect for each other. Always be positive, care and love each other, speak much and don't let the negativity around you affect you. Just brush it off. All that matters is LOVE.

God Bless you all! I love you Boo Boo<33333

Dewey503 · Answer

Idk about my friends but as far as I got I have liked Black girls since I was very very young boy. I just like the darker skin and darker hair and don't know why. but not like I wouldn;t date a white girl. Just not genrally as attracted to them.

I read some girl that posted you like white guys but just don't know any white guys who would like you. That's how I feel about any girl who isn't white because guys have this image in theire head girls only like black guys. Least that's what it has seem as of late. And especially black girls. I remember this one black girl telling me one time she never messed with white guys because they didn't know how to handle her. I just think people speak for the group too much and not realize peole are individuals.

ANGEL2009 · Answer

do black girls like white guys? of course, i  do . i'm black and i date only white guys, why? i  guess i just like them more, of course black guys ask me why, would i even go with a white guy, your better than them your figure your body type is just to (fine), your made for an black guy, and white guys cant  handle you , well to all of them guys that or angry because black girls chooses white dudes  over you , fuck you because at the end of the day all of us or the same white, mexican, or black it doesnt matter.

KMONEA23 · Answer

I'm black.... I don't have a preference.... As long as your a good man..... It doesn't matter.... Just like any other relationship you have to be attractive and cool as hell.... Willing to except your partner flaws and all...I do know that interracial relationships maybe a little harder than most, but that should make your bond that much tighter....Anyways I just think women love men good men...Lol... No matter what color they are.... Well at least I do!!!!!

smokeandmirrors · Answer

I'm a black chick and I love white guys. In fact, every guy I've dated/hooked up with has been white. I dunno, I love how sweet and caring most of them are. They really know how to appreciate a woman's body, even if they may have the wrong intentions. Most black guys that approach me can just be so crass that I pretty much ignore them.

DaveAsia · Answer

Black girls are nice, But most white Guys Prefer Asian Girls I know, Because Asian Girls are more self empowered, and their usually not running away from something, they tend to be comfortable in their own Skin. Black girls aren't. Black girls tend to compliment me on my looks, and the color of my eyes. Asian girls tend to ask me deep meaning questions. Black girls tend to talk about what annoys them, like ugly babies, I've dated at least three black girls in the past year and they always talk about how they'd have pretty babies with me. Asian women are not that superficial. they tend to look at the inner quality of their potential mates.

collegegrl18 · Answer

So true )) I love white boys all boys at that haha I like  boys of all races. I've always been more attracted to white boys though haha. It is really hard like other people have mentioned to find out which white boys like black girls especially where I live because I'm surrounded by white people all the time. It gets hard to be able to tell which one likes you, or just wants to try hooking up with you. I wish I knew a way of figuring it out : )

annonymus · Answer

This matter is sensitive!

it is no an issue of race, but feelings. We do not get to choose who we fall for, its where our hearts find the most comfort. Be it black or white!

Now if you star by looking at the race you might t end up being alone.

Take shopping as an example. When you go out shopping ad you come out having a particular cloth inside your head! Well, chances are that you might overlook that dress that would have fitted your curve more beautifully, just because you have a particular one in mind.

Its not the race, whether black girls like white boys or the their way round, its where your heart finds the most peace.

thank you!

colbaltwave · Answer

I love black women! I have been happily married to a completely wonderful black woman for 10 years now. I am just as much in love with her as I was 10 years ago when we first met. I don't know about the other white guys out there, but I have strictly dated black women because...There is that mystique or air about them that I find desirable. From my experience, most white guys do like black women. The problem that I hear from most of them is, they are nervous about being in a relationship and hearing any negitave comments from family and friends. Some of the guys I know think that is to much pressure. I call that a cop out myself. But, that's ok because that just leaves the more confident white men for the truly wonderful single black women out there

jaykilf · Answer

this is great,hearing all these black lady's saying they only want a white guy,i just wish I would of found this out awhile sgo,i get a lot of looks from black lady's when I pass them at the mall or on the boardwalk,and I always wanna ask them for there number but I'm not sure,thanks girls for saying what you want,just the other week,i was at a meeting and it's more black people then white and the most beautiful girl there came up and hugged me and starting talking with me, o she was black,but she had kids from a former man,so that is soreta a no for me,but I'd rather have a black girl over a white one,i don't know if this is out of line saying this,but I only watch porn with black girls and white guys,you girls are the only one;s that turn me on,

boonana135 · Answer

i like all guys! If you're attractive and you have everything I'm looking for in a guy

then why wouldn't I like you? A lot of white guys are attractive, and I know its "taboo" or whatever to say that in front of other black people.but hey.its a new day and age, lets put the racism and whatever behind us and become more open minded!

Cmeloissick · Answer

As a white boy - I'm crazy about black girls for a number of reasons.  First because I feel super comfortable around them - I don't feel like I have to control my words.  Secondly, I like a woman with Confidence and Curves.  If she will grab me at the club or come close to dance - I am down - that is HOT and it makes me want to give her a good time.  I've been to a club more then a couple of times and before I know it, there is one hot girl after another running up on me.  It makes me want to step up look etc. because there is all of this interest that I didn't know was out there.  I think the future is brighter with our young generation coming up - we don't dictate our decisions by race as much.  This seems particularly true in the under 25 set.  One of my best friends is black and he is in an interracial marriage.  So my advice is if you're hot for someone - holla at 'em.  To quote Pac you got "Nothing to Lose."

skittles689 · Answer

I sure do!I love all races!

I just love guys in general,if you know how to treat a lady,and your cute then I probably have my eyes on you. I used to actually only like white boys and black boys,but then I realized I was stupid because anyone can have those qualities no madder what race you are!

so yup.I LOVE them all!

GuessWhoSomethingNew · Answer

YES! I know TONS of black girls who are very attracted to white guys, myself being one of them. I can tell you that most  black girls who like white boys don't show it because their afraid that white boys don't like them. Bottom line: we should not be judged by the color of our skin, but by the content of our character. If you like a girl regardless of their color, you should go for it. Yes, they may turn you down but really, you would be surprised at how many black girls love white boys.

Rafael151 · Answer

Looks like a question aimed at the girls, but I'm all for mixed couples.  Let's continue until it's so normal that the question doesn't need to be asked and we don't even have a term for it.  Sade, if you're listening, I'm here.

HeavenlyEbonyBeauty · Answer

I love (LOVE) white guys. They are the only guys that I'm attracted to. But it's so hard trying to find a white guy who is willing to date a black girl =/

Anonymous · Answer

I find all races attractive, personally I have liked a guy for two years he is white, but not just because he is white. I think he is cute, funny and nice. He likes me too ,but we don't talk to each other because we don't have any classes or activities together. So if you mean is a black girl capable of falling in love with a white guy? Yes ,but don't ask as if every black girl is the same, it depends on the girl herself.

Grotty · Answer

Well I am white I am 45 and have never dated,women in general say I am weird and ugly,but regardless I do like girls predominately dark skinned black girls,although some buxom white girls take my fancy,sadly women have only ever wanted me as a friend.

Mikkoa · Answer

I actually am more attracted to white guys than I am to my own race! I don't know if that's just cause I was brought up in a mainly white community or the fact that God just want me to be attracted to a white person! I do feel that white guys are reluctant to date black girls cause it's not SOCIAL ACCEPTABLE esp. where I live, but it is for a black guys to date white girls. Plus a lot of people stereotype, both black and white, so that doesn't really help!

AbnGrl · Answer

We sure do. It is my hearts desire to be in a relationship with a white man because its so beautiful, and not very common. The fact that white men like exactly what black men don't appreciate about us black women.

zoeyxoxo · Answer

I love em. I duno why but I've always been attracted to white boys and never to black boys. I've always hooked up or was intimate with white guys. Theyr so hott!

RikkiRikkiRikki · Answer

I love, love, love, love white guys. It's just so hard to find one who also likes black girls here where I live. But I think white dudes are great (: I'd rather date a cute white boy any day.

countrykid14 · Answer

As a white guy from a small, white town...I have plucked my last white fruit from the tree. I just feel certain black girls are far more hottt than any white blond could dream to be. I also feel there would be no babysitting at clubs, cause the girl would know how to handle her sh*t. I feel a black girl just "knows" when it cums to good, hard lovin'

DivineAliah · Answer

I like white guys but they don't look my way. I sometimes think its because I'm not. skinny enough but I'm not overweight either. I'm in the middle with a lot more in selective areas. Then I thought maybe I wasn't pretty. Not sure...

passionforprince · Answer

Love should really see no color. We all are attracted to certain types and I am sure some black girls do love white boys. But some people are just looking for good people someone (any shade) who respects them and loves them unconditionally.

Cookin71 · Answer

I'm in love with a woman of color. She is the most beautiful, intelligent, confident, creative, fun to be with woman I have ever met. I'm definitely going to marry this lady if she says yes.

rafael123 · Answer

i'm 23 years old and  a white brazilian like 50% of people there and I'm married with a multiethnic girl like beyonce or riahana,same color of skin that them,i always been atracted by dark skin girl,not very very black but dark skin,but only thing that I wanted change on black girl is hair,but my girlfriend make a thing on hair hair and after it's smooth,nelly 4421 your are just my type of girl

Adam89 · Answer

I must say I am surprised as hell because I ve never seen a black girl who likes white guys. Damn I love black girls so much, they make me CRAZ... but I never try to ask one anything because I am always thinking that she prefers the black ones...i knew one but she was an emo so I didn't wonder why she likes a blue eyed guy. your comments spur me on

Dusty1986 · Answer

I'm A white guy and I love black girls! My Girl friend is black and she has only dated black guys. Why because she say most of the black guys are d***s! But Me I love how damn sexy and beautiful black girls are! They always smell nice and there skin is soft! I really think since I was a little kid I've always like black girls... I can't stop thinking about black girls! I'm so happy with my girl now though she is the best girl I've ever dated!

LostPuppy · Answer

Answering from the "other side" (white guy) I'd have to say I am attracted to black women. But then I find the opposite true as well, in that it is equally tough to find out which black women like white men. Physically, I love the curves and emotionally I am attracted to their vivaciousness.

shanie82 · Answer

YUP! Some white guys are really hot. plus in the end it all comes down to preferences. and white guys just happen to be one of mine along with some hot LATINO/Hispanic men! :o) (I'm Black)

Charnelle · Answer

Some do, some don't. It's a matter of personal preference. As for me, yes I date more white guys than any other race.

rafael123 · Answer

i’m a white brazilian even tanned by the sun I'm white,and i’m married with a multiethnic girl,she look like beyonce,i think that mixing black and white races is good,look beyonce or riahana ,how beautiful they are,riahana teanned skin with light eyes,beijos do brasil para vocês

jamaicangrl · Answer

I find white guys simply irresistible and very attractive. White guys are my dating preference and has been for a long time. Guys, please don't be she to stop by and say hi, see that smile, I'm an angel, really ;)

BrodyM20 · Answer

wow I love all these beautiful black ladies loving white guys! im very very attracted to black girls but had no idea this many of them felt that way about us! crazy but very cool... you girls rock!

Moreno · Answer

Hi all,

i like black women and all other. Well, I'm not exactly white but caucasian and I think the colour should not be the case. You should consider each girl individually. Of course, depends what you want: sex, relationship, family, kids, etc. I've never had a black girlfriend, and never had even conversation with one. Will be glad to meet)))

Thisisme77 · Answer

I love black girls but it's hard  because they generally just don't seem to be in to us white guys but I guess I'm reading it wrong.  Only been able to be out with one black girl and she lived too far away.  Wish I could find a nice girl like that now.

MiZzYChIaMaKa · Answer

OF COURSE!  we love us some white men they are so sweet at heart and sexy

somecoolname · Answer

I know I'm way late for this thread..    I'm a white guy.. obviously..  just thought I'd throw that in there . ;)

slinky180 · Answer

I'm a black girl and although I never dated a white guy I find them attractive, but its kind of hard because you don't know what white guys like the black girls

EllieLovesUall · Answer

I do Well I'm black and Asian but I don't care about race However I guess like 85% of my boyfriends have been white

Toumai · Answer

Don't you think this would largely depend on the personal preference of the individual girl? You can make such blanket assumptions.

ALWAYSclassy · Answer

I like white boys, but I don't love them or anything lol.  I would date one if I liked him and he was a cool person

Anonymous · Answer

i'm a 29 white male,and I only want a black girl I don't know why,i love them,i get turned on so much more,and everyone i;ve ever been with or known as a friend,black girls are so much cooler to hang out with,and great in the bed,i don't even want to date another white girl again,i love b;ack girls,i will on;y watch a porno if it has a black girl in it

WBL91 · Answer

Hey, I can't speak for all black chicks, but I know I do! I'm not playing either. White boys make my knees feel weak. They make me melt inside... -Shankia T-

Maciek · Answer

I am white man and I love everything about black girls. I am from Poland so its not many black girls hire but been living in Brazil and London where I have been dating black girls and if I get marry for sure will be with black women :)

jay10 · Answer

Are we talking about the same white men who have enslave your ancestors?The same white cops who are killing your black men all over this country. You ladies need to learn some self respect. Ya sound like some good little house slaves.

SakuraChii · Answer

I wouldn't reject a guy for being white but it's not like I would go gaga over them either..

Anonymous · Answer

Not all black girls like white boys but most have at least had a crush on one at sometime in their life and, some can't get enough of them. It all depends on that girl.

mickeydh · Answer

I do, and I have friends that do as well. Also I hear about it a lot nowadays, hope I helped.

ChelseaG · Answer

im a black girl nd I looove white boys... I dnt really like black boys... nd I reaaally wnt a white boy... bt most of them dnt like black girls... nd thts kinda hurt ful :)

MissAmanda · Answer

i do. they def treat me better and approach me better. my boyfriend of 4 years is white and I'm black. I love him :]

Jonty47 · Answer

im white & love black girls I would only date black girls there so pretty :)

Inthesilence · Answer

Hell yes. I do. Not only do we connect more mentally, etc, but they turn me on like no other.

Anonymous · Answer

I love these questions!  I'm a white guy and I love black girls.

bossey · Answer

i think a lot of white men like blacks girls but they parents don't like them talking to other race but they race i hate when parent freaking do that shit

whiteboylover26 · Answer

I am a a hazel eyed black girl who love country music and getting dirty. I love white boys and i can't understand why people are so closed minded to interracial dating?

XxMurphyxX · Answer

I agree with Nothing2thkof. I'm a black girl that's mainly attracted to white guys.But its hard to tell which ones like you back or even consider you attractive.

DC-archer · Answer

I love black woman there sexy and they are super affectionate

Vito91Mangano · Answer

I'm italian American and I love black women I find them beautiful :)

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