Do you agree with this photo?

[Relentless_Hippie]

I mean obviously this isn't always the case but like all stereotypes, there's some truth in it.

Yes

No

[somebodysaycheese]

But that black girl is British. And there is a huge difference in behaviour between black americans and black europeans.
That being said my aunt isn't ghetto neither is my black uncle in law.
Is there some truth? Kinda. But I've seen more white dudes with ghetto hispanic n black girls then the other way around.
I guess it depends on where you are at.

[KittieCat]

She kinda looks like a chola, and meehh there some truth to it unfortunately. The vast majority live in ghettos where that type of attitude and personality is common so being attracted to it and dating it isn't a huge surprise.. Hopefully we can fix that one day

[Curlybeauty17]

Jaime and Nikki are so cute. But going on topic, there is a tiny bit of truth to this, but it doesn't apply to all black/white relationships.

[Gommers]

Obviously.

Why do you even qualify your statements with such nonsense? Nothing applies to all...

[Relentless_Hippie]

Well yes of course.

[Curlybeauty17]

Well let me rephrase that, I'm not going to say that it applies to the majority of black/white relationships, but it does happen a lot. Is that better phrasing?

[Gommers]

Stop speaking down to people, we're aware that generalizations aren't absolutes.

[Curlybeauty17]

I'm not speaking down to anyone... Why do you have such a bad attitude? I just answered the question.

[Gommers]

Because specificity of language is everything in communication. Leaving it up to ambiguity means that you're not actually confident in your position and that it's open for interpretation. It's also extremely poor form to add qualifiers when speaking unless speaking in a highly specialized area or narrowing down the selective group; using a qualifier to open up the group does nothing but to, again, insert ambiguity into your statement clearing you of any potential of being incorrect.

Be precise and concise with your responses.

[Curlybeauty17]

Bro, this is a website not a class. Try to relax.

[Gommers]

This isn't just a website, this is life. I'm not going to relax because you're too lazy to learn how to properly use the English language, you had the chance to when you were in school, now it's time for you to start figuring shit out. I'm sick of dealing with arguments that sit with no firm footing and can be changed at a second because you feel like you're right. Be right or don't you don't get to flip and flop around with your comments like a dead fish just because you don't know how to speak specifically.

[Curlybeauty17]

I wasn't arguing with anyone. I just put my opinion out there. You don't know how I apply arguments in face-to-face social situations nor do you know how I apply arguments in papers. This is your problem sir and I suggest you go deal with it. Don't take your aggravation out on me.

[Gommers]

Now you're making a misdirection argument against syntax instead of just admitting that you were wrong.

[Curlybeauty17]

I'm not wrong for phrasing my opinion in a way that you don't like.

[Gommers]

You are wrong for not making a solid statement in the first place. I mean shit, how hard is that to understand. You didn't make a statement, you can't be right.

[Curlybeauty17]

Why do I have to make what you consider a solid statement to express my opinion. Please get over yourself.

[PT1911]

Curly he does this all the time.

Granted I remember being confrontational to you on another question (which I believe I apologized for) but this is all this member does.

[Gommers]

@PT1911 See the conversations above.

You can ignore the fact that no point was made here but I won't.

You people ruined my culture and I'm not going to leave so figure it out or delete your account and go back to actually spending time with friends.

[Curlybeauty17]

Ah, so I should pay him no mind. Thank you for informing me.

[Gommers]

That's the adult response, ignore the person that's trying to help you better yourself and your grasp on the English language. Just walk away, the the little girl you are.

[Curlybeauty17]

Whatever you say bro.

[Relentless_Hippie]

What's even happening right now? xD

[Curlybeauty17]

Right?

[kaylaS91]

The girl on the right doesn't even look black and if she is, that's how maybe 1% of the female AA population looks so... no, I don't agree.

[Relentless_Hippie]

Lol how many black people do you actually know? And yes, she's black. I think she's from the UK or an African country. That's her husband in the photo and they have a family. They have a Youtube channel about their lives. They're a really sweet couple.

[kaylaS91]

I know enough black people to be aware of how most look. That chick doesn't look black in respect to skin colour, hair colour, or features so I guess she's either 1/8th 'black' and that's just an application of the one-drop rule, or she's paid several visits to the plastic surgeons office.
(Where she's from in terms of place of residence has nothing to do with her skin colour but thanks for adding that?)

[Relentless_Hippie]

Lol what are you talking about? Are you talking about the girl on the right or the left. The girl on the right is white, the girl on the left is black.

[kaylaS91]

... as the fifth word in my answer says, I'm talking about the girl on the right.

[Relentless_Hippie]

Did you even read the photo? The black woman is the pregnant one with the white guy.

The white woman is the woman by herself.

[Relentless_Hippie]

Nobody said the girl on the right is black. It's obvious she's not black. To start talking about her makes no sense. The picture is about the type of black women that white men date. Versus the type of white women black men date. Nobody called the white girl black at all.

[Luci92]

Mmm, I can't really say because there aren't a whole lot of black people in Australia, specifically in my city.

[Relentless_Hippie]

I think it's an American thing, at least that's what this photo is referencing.

[Luci92]

Yeah I think you're right.

[Anonymous]

Since we're stereotyping like mad, the white girl should gain about 70 lbs.

Yeah there are some white girls like that with black guys, but the most common is the uh... very thick white girl who has curves that are appreciated by the black man?

[Relentless_Hippie]

For where I live the girl pictured above is more common. Truthfully I've never met a black guy that had a fat white girl obsession.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know that they do.

They're just more fat tolerant.

They do tend to aim for somewhat thicker, on average.

[Relentless_Hippie]

Yeah I know what you mean.

[JustinTheGreat]

Why are trying to look deeper into this photo? It's a meme. Memes aren't supposed to be serious. They're jokes

[Relentless_Hippie]

Well yeah, it was just funny to me.

[Anonymous]

I have to say 75% agree LOL.
However, it is equally truthful to point out that the men date the same kind of women and women date the same kind of men.
This is saying, the Black men dating White women are less favorable in general, while the White men dating Black women are more favorable in general, too.

[Relentless_Hippie]

Yes of course! Very nicely said.

[Fuentes]

I stay in Fresno im half black but Blacks stay with Latinas, White, Azn, Native, Armenian even som Arab and Indian lol same as my other half Hispanic so everyone is a big pot of mixture here lol and we have hood girls and preppy girls i think the Bay is the same way i think in So Cal everyone doesn't mix like that but we do

[Shawn58]

Yea I've seen this and I've seen people talk about it I don't know if it's always this cut and set tho

[Relentless_Hippie]

Well yeah of course. It was just funny to me, because that's what it's like where I live. Soon as I saw this I pictured at least three couples I know.

[Shawn58]

Live also noticed the black girls are always nice when they are with a white guy and they even talk different and also noticed that white chicks sometimes talk ghetto when they are with a black guy lol I never seen one of those ghetto black talking white chicks with a white guy only with a black guy

[Shawn58]

Ghetto white chicks

[Shawn58]

I've also never seen a ghetto black chick with a white guy unless you count Rob and chyna

[Relentless_Hippie]

Yeah, usually they attract the same kind of person. The only time I've seen a ghetto black girl with a white guy he was ghetto as well.

[PT1911]

Stereotypes are generalizations,

Buuuuutt...

There has to be a trend for a generalization to hold some truth

[Anonymous]

White guys usually go for pretty and slim black women but black guys go for fat white women is usually the stereotype

[Relentless_Hippie]

Or ghetto ones, which is what this picture is referencing. Of course it's just a stereotype, it just made me laugh when I read it because that's what it's like where I live.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I see that a lot in the major cities

[Winter_Storm_Guy]

I'm a White guy I'd rather be with the Black woman , the White woman on the right not and would never be my type. ( No offense to my own race)

[reixun]

I don't get it, the only difference is formality of clothing.

[Relentless_Hippie]

Ghetto girls vs classy girls.

[Anonymous]

I know a girl that looks exactly like that. And there's a girl on here who loves the black and looks like that too

[Anonymous]

I don't get it. Is it that the black woman is pregnant?

[Relentless_Hippie]

No, it's saying white guys who date black girls tend to date those that are classier, womanly, nice people. Black guys who date white girls tend to date ones that are ghetto, loud, rude, slutty.

[Curlybeauty17]

But Nikki just happened to be pregnant with Jaime's baby at the time the picture was taken.

[Opinion Owner]

Ah right. The picture is too low quality to really figure out who's classier

[Relentless_Hippie]

Yeah I know what you mean.

[Bandit74]

I do think there is some truth to it.

[Paul09]

I dont get the question?

[bombbomb]

never

[babeeeone]

Ughh. No.

[Relentless_Hippie]

Lol okay, that's fine.

[Decentguy]

dont get this

[Relentless_Hippie]

It's ghetto girls vs classy girls.

[Anonymous]

no do not

[relaxrelax]

i dont get it