What do 13 and 14 year old guys find attractive in girls?

[tazzie_girl88]

Please keep comments appropriate.

[trentlee1244]

At that age because boys have only just started to get interested in girls they tend to very curious about girls and ask questions about them or try to find out more info about girls. They will try to hang out with girls a lot to feed their curiosity.

They also tend to go heavily by looks at that age as they don't know what they like personality wise in a girl yet (they are still figuring that out hence the heavy curiosity) so cute features like cute eyes etc. will tend to attract them.

Boys are also very shy at that age so if they quiet around you and they don't seem sure what to say to you they probably like you but if you start talking to them they will generally open up more.

So if you wanna get boys interested try emphasize any cute features you have like eyes or hair etc., feed their curiosity by hanging out with them and don't afraid to talk with the quiet shy ones as they may like you.

[Somewhat_Normal]

That's the age when guys begin sexualising things and hormones really begin ramping up. A lot of the time a majority of them will only find really pretty girls attractive, that includes face and body. Hence why they focus on girls bodies more. There's less focus on an emotional connection, that begins a little later I would say but that's not the case for all 13 and 14 year olds

[BellePepper]

Honey boys that age are too young to think of anything other than their wee wees. You don't need that in your life. Focus on school and your extracurricular because that's what's going to move you forward in life.

Not. Boys.

[tazzie_girl88]

I do focus on my grades. But not all guys are like what you said. Some guys are sweet.

[BellePepper]

Some of them are nicer than others but that doesn't mean they don't all have the same hormones going through their little brains. That's why they're just not worth your time yet.

[tazzie_girl88]

Girls have hormones too.

[BellePepper]

Girls are taught to control themselves and be ashamed. Boys are taught to embrace their sexual urges and be proud of them. There's a big difference.

[tazzie_girl88]

Not really I know some pretty mean girls, I know some girls who do not control themselves. And I know guys who are very gentlemenly. Girls and guys alike have raging hormones we are learning how to deal with.

[BellePepper]

We're not talking about if people are mean or nice. We are talking about the boys you are fighting so hard for seeing you as nothing more than a collection of parts instead of a human being.

This is not a matter of being a gentleman or being a boor. This is our society. This is how it is for everyone. You are not special. Move forward.

[tazzie_girl88]

I'm special maybe not for any earthly things. And I don't know guys I don't have any close guy friends. And just because I don't have the courage to talk to a guy in person doesn't mean every guy treats me like a collection of parts. And again I am special. I'm the only me there will ever be. I'm special because I'm loved by the great I AM.

[BellePepper]

Okay so you already know what you want to think so why are you even asking us when you don't want to hear the truth?

[tazzie_girl88]

Because you didn't say the truth.

[BellePepper]

LMFAO okay sweetie. You waste your time and your emotional resources and go through this stage of your life the hard way XD

I'm not going to sit here confirming what you already know is wrong no matter how much you want us to.

[tazzie_girl88]

@adrenoic

[BellePepper]

Oh honey. You don't need to prove the bad decisions already exist. We know they do.

[Nightshades]

Belle did you get burned by a guy and taking it out on her?

[Nightshades]

I could say all girls are looking for money and it would hold about as much weight as you saying guys want her "collection of parts"

[BellePepper]

@Nightshades Except mine is backed up by scientific studies. Yours is Bitter Male Syndrome.

Try again :) www.livescience.com/...female-objectification.html

[Nightshades]

balle search up the term hypergamy scientific research is on both our sides

[BellePepper]

@Nightshades Ohhh. You're one of those boys. You poor thing.

[tazzie_girl88]

I'm a female and I could say Pencils makes mistakes. But I'd be lying because people use pencils. Pencils don't make mistakes just lying on the paper someone has to write with. This applies to what you have said

[Nightshades]

you just got burnt now your spiteful agaist males

[tazzie_girl88]

Me no

[Nightshades]

no I'm talking about our friend belle

[tazzie_girl88]

Ok cause I'm on your side nightshades

[Nightshades]

she probably had a guy but then that guy cheated and she hates all guys like that now which if true is really sad and you have my sympathy

[BellePepper]

Women are human beings. They are not animals. They are not females. You went over how special you are so act like it and treat yourself better than a dehumanized animal.

[BellePepper]

@Nightshades *you're ;)

[Nightshades]

I'd I wanted to write properly I would be writing a essay now I wouldn't want to subject you to that

[Nightshades]

second don't project onto me. I never told you that you were an animal

[BellePepper]

@Nightshades Little boy when I am talking to you I will tag you.

[RockingRitu]

I would say. BellePaper is correct here. I am sorry. Don't want to hurt you but you are too young for this reasons to understand. Grow up first. I know you can say that I am an asshole. Even If I was at your age and someone would say something like this I would have thought something similar. Go focus on your grades. Not boys. When I was younger like you (or maybe younger than you) I thought I know everything about love (I bet you think that too. That's why you are arguing with her) But Now I can understand how wrong I was. So I would say move on. I am sorry If I made you hurt. But that is the truth. You might think that a boy truly loves you but you are wrong. very few boys truly love a girl. Others just want to have sex with that girl or they find that girl is cute for them. That's the bitter truth of life.

[tazzie_girl88]

Bellepepper what are you even talking about. Just because I defend males doesn't mean I'm less special.

[Nightshades]

it is true some want just sex but that's where most of our society's problems come form the generalising of everything just remember #notall

[RockingRitu]

Being a Male but honest I can tell you, you are doing a great mistake by defending males. You will regret for it in future. by the way I want to ask you something personally. So please allow me to PM you.

[tazzie_girl88]

I have all A's and and maybe I was just curious. I don't know everything about love. I have strong faith in the lord.

[BellePepper]

If you read what I wrote to you, you would know what I mean in my last comment and know that it had nothing to do with boys. Go try again.

[Nightshades]

belle feel insecure about your age? no need to project it on me I'm not a little boy and I have shown you human respect but you have done nothing but take jabs at me.

[BellePepper]

@RockingRitu Good on you

[RockingRitu]

@Nightshades I don't know how you feel about it being a boy. But most of the boys gets into a relationship just because they want to have sex or they find the girl attractive. Check out the questions I asked here to get the perfect answer.

[Nightshades]

"most boys" I have a problem with it went to a proper school where "most guys" aren't fuckbois what you should be saying is not trying to prevent that won't work she'll just rebel but rather teach "some guys are assholes that only look for your body"

[RockingRitu]

@tazzie_girl88 Well whatever a 14-15 year girl or boy think is much different than the practical world. Sorry but this is the Truth.
I want to ask you something personally. Please allow me.

[RockingRitu]

@Nightshades No boy will tell you "Hey! Hello you know what? I am a Fuckboy" Unless you ask someone in the virtual world where they feel safe to tell about this.

[Nightshades]

@RockingRitu "look at me I know about the practical world even thought I'm 2 years older than you and probably know about as much as you about the real world"

[tazzie_girl88]

I blocked them both

[Nightshades]

and no guy will say "hey you know what I'm a good person" you know how you find out? you date them but don't get too emotionally invested

[Nightshades]

Haha really

[BellePepper]

@RockingRitu It's incredibly easy to tell if a guy is a fuckboy. Like sorry it's hard for you?

[BellePepper]

Why did you decide to block them OP?

[tazzie_girl88]

You underestimate me because I'm young.

[Nightshades]

well belle look at it from her perspective

[BaeBeeee]

what a bunch of negativity here about teen boys. Not all of them think with their boner.

[Nightshades]

thank you

[BaeBeeee]

From my previous experience from classmates, boobs, most likely.

[tazzie_girl88]

I blocked the negative people

[BaeBeeee]

Good thing

[tazzie_girl88]

I don't get people like that.

[BaeBeeee]

Me either. They're just negative

[Anonymous]

From what I observe at my school it's tits and butt

[Jake979]

For me... I just want to feel comfortable... I want someone to talk to who gets me and can talk to me... however that is just me... I kinda stray away from the crowd when it comes to other guys at my school... is there a certain guy your trying to impress or are you asking in general?

[disgustingweebtrash]

Please keep comments appropriate...

Around that age, I was interested in the female breast, it perked my young childish mind (hehe i'm still childish), but nowadays i'm more interested in the gluteus maximus of a woman.

[FrenchyRomain]

girls who do their homework... girl you are 14 you need to watch Disney Channel and do your homework... not worry about what guys your age like...

[meatballs21]

Bewbs. Basically they just go by what they're told they're supposed to like, they haven't really figured much of it out for themselves yet.

[dropkicknj13]

when I was that age it was mostly boobs lol

[tazzie_girl88]

I said keep it appropriate

[dropkicknj13]

I didn't see that, but I was just being honest. my bad

[tazzie_girl88]

I just don't want inappropriate comments that's all

[Yumix]

most guys that age aren't much interested in girls yet

[dropkicknj13]

where are you from that boys aren't interested in girls at 14?

[north2south]

A bunch of people I knew dated back in 6th grade when we were 11 and 12. LOTS of 6th grade drama

[dropkicknj13]

right? first relationship in my school started in 2nd grade

[Yumix]

@dropkicknj13 @north2south the keyword here is... Most

[dropkicknj13]

I got that, but most of us where I grew up had rounded home by 14 lol so I'm curious where you grew up that's so different

[OfDeath]

When I was that age it was always the face that did it for me

[tazzie_girl88]

What do you mean by face

[OfDeath]

pretty faces got me

[tazzie_girl88]

What makes a pretty face

[OfDeath]

It's complicated and subject to opinion.

[BronzedAdonis]

When I was that age it was ass mostly

#BootyLover4Life

[KaseyGuy]

Why did I decide to read all of this? (Btw I'm on nightshade's side)

[Anonymous]

At that age a lot of guys are immature and girls get frustrated so they'll often like older guys

[rubyrose83]

good hygiene, virginity

[tazzie_girl88]

What do you mean by virginity because I'm still a virgin and Im waiting till marriage to loose it.

[rubyrose83]

Good. I was basically joking cause I have a 14 year old son & I know how fast some kids move these days. Having boyfriends & all is fine, just don't be that kind of girl. Keep waiting :)

[tazzie_girl88]

I'm a Christian.

[mike5150]

Either her smile or her eyes

[Kimm_3]

This still does wonders, even when you're 20 :P

[babeeeone]

Hobbies, pretty hair, nice smile, outgoing

[Decentguy]

their choices of favorite cartoons i hope

[Anonymous]

*Inappropriate comment*

[saam100]

Big rak
Big ass
Cute face
Slim
Sexy

[abc3643]

Their existence.

[Anonymous]

lovely smile, good smell

[Anonymous]

Tits, and ass... because they're fuckboys.