What does being tied up feel like?

[Anonymous]

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Does anyone else have a take?

[Anonymous]

Im assuming you mean in the BDSM snese...
For me its amazingly freeing. To totally surrender yourself to someone and allow them to restrain you just feels amazing.

[Asker]

You feel free but you can't move? How were you tied?

[Opinion Owner]

To not have to think about anything but whats happening then and there, to put everything in someone elses hands is what feels freeing, not in the sense that i could move/get away.
I was tied up using a form of rope bondage known as Shibari.
Something similar to this...
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[Asker]

Wow! Is that as uncomfortable as it looks?

[Opinion Owner]

Not if done correctly

[Asker]

What is the correct way to do it?

[Opinion Owner]

The proper knots, the right tension, the right body positioning, the right type of rope... there's a lot that plays into what the correct way is.

[Asker]

Wow. I didn't realize there was that much to think about. Do you have a preference for types of knots, ropes or position?

[Opinion Owner]

Not really, i like when all are changed up, keeps it interesting.

[Asker]

How long can you be tied in a position like that for without it hurting? How long before you can't stand it any more and have to be untied?

[Opinion Owner]

Something like that, like 10-20 mins

[Asker]

How long does it take to tie them up? And does the person being tied have to cooperate with the person doing the tying?

[Opinion Owner]

Depends on the intricacies of the knots and patterns, and yes corporation makes it easier

[Asker]

If it's not too personal, do you have sex in that position or can you if you want to, or is it purely tying up for the sake of tying up, or do you do other things instead?

[Opinion Owner]

Sometimes sex but most of the time its more like foreplay and then we untie and have sex.

[Decentguy]

i dont know
but i hope my future wife loves that

[Asker]

So you want to tie her up or have her tie you up?

[Decentguy]

i want to tie her up

[HappypersonT]

Sexy and vulnerable

[Asker]

What about it feels sexy?

[HappypersonT]

That you're all out there ready to be dominated