My husband wakes me up in the morning to cook him breakfast?

[Anonymous]

It pisses me off that I have to crawl out of bed just to make his faget ass breakfast.

[jackc20]

you call him a faggot yet your still married, he wakes you up to make him breakfast? you get how insane that sounds marriage is mostly about love i don't see how that indicates love just using you as his personal maid and you say that you"have" to crawl out of bed that indicates force I'm not sure what type but i would say (obviously depending on outside factors such as kids and stuff) get the hell out of that marriage ASAP live life don't go through it and love life don't be pained by it and speak it over with a friend or a pro it sounds to me like there's more going on then just breakfast (maybe abuse) but no matter do something about it don't look back in 10 years and wonder what your life was or y dint i do something sooner

[Asker]

Me makes me do it, he wakes me up in the morning just for him. I hate it. Just cause he does the income and money etc etc. I'm barely graduated high were I can't even get myself a job and my parents wanted me to live like this.

[jackc20]

so your marriage is purely he gives money and you make him breakfast and (unclear) give him sex from time to time that sounds like a maid or a sex maid he pays for your services basically so you'll have to ask yourself do you want your life to be this business arrangement or not-think of it this way, this is your job , your work , with you it somehow merged into one if that's what u want then fine there are many girls like that (just most get a guy that they also like to an extent ) now for the other part I'm not sure what's with your parents what they wanted or dint want you to do but don't let that control you start fresh

[jackc20]

love them but they don't control you respect them but don't let them define you make your own life figure yourself out and live it and love it-you only have one remember use it to your advantage not be used and the job part get one in Walmart or target - listen i had a crappy life so far parents and other factors but i take my reigns and noone else i never went to school and barely passed high school but i somehow find myself smarter than most college students i got a job and i hope to work my way up tell the world fuck off and live your own life think of the world as having been made for you and think of it as a game to navigate through but never lose sight and always be kind and nice to people i promise that's the key to success

[Smoketothick]

I don't know the situation but put it like this. I work and my S. O. works so here are some trade offs me/her
mow the lawn /make dinner
Manage credit and bills /make breakfast
Clean her hair out drains / clean bathroom
Bush her hair / lay on my chest
Eat the box / blow the cock
Early overtime / suck me till I'm up
Move heavy furniture /(I'm sure something)
Tuck her in / get kids ready for
Brush kids hair/(this Is getting hard)
Roll the blunts /be cool when he gone late
Check her attitude in public / respect myself
Love her /love him

The list goes way on

[i_research]

lol tell him you can't wake up that early.
My brother in law goes to work at 4:30, and when my sister doesn't have work, she wakes up and makes it for him.

That was their compromise and they are cool with that.

So look at your days, and see which days are too hectic for you, and pick the less hectic ones, and make it for him.

Or do meal prep that he can heat up

[lovelyhoneybones]

LOL! Tell him you're a grown ass woman, and he's a grown ass man. You're not making his breakfast. He might get upset about it, but he'll get over it and either make his own food or go out and get some.

[Anonymous]

lol. his should make his own breakfast. my dad wakes up by himself and makes breakfast and goes to work. while my mom's sleeping

[abc3643]

Then don't get up! He should do it himself. Next time he asks, retort back "Would you like me to wipe your ass after you shit too?"

[Cody01]

He needs to learn how to cook he's a grown man. Like it isn't hard, I've been cooking everything since I was like 15.

[NakedsunNfun]

Then why do you do it. Are you such a pussy and servant

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend used to wake me up a lot so I just did him a deal that if he lets me wake up when I want all give him morning head 😂 and it's worked amazingly

[Aaron_Rodriguez]

guys are lazy af, you'll half to teach him that he's as capable as u are to make himself breakfast

[dropkicknj13]

maybe he's not, maybe he reeeeeally sucks at cooking lol

[Jersey2]

I handle a lot of things my wife doesn't like fixing things, dealing with car mechanics, handling getting insurance and bringing in all the money. She takes care of me in other ways including making the meals. It works out just fine for us.

[BeautifulPromisesx]

So? He's your partner, just do it then go back to bed

[BijouIsYourQueen]

Girl, tell him that you don't want to. If he gives you lip, leave him and find someone better. Unless you say so, IT IS NEVER YOUR​ JOB TO COOK FOR HIM😉

[mrsticks]

Lmao. Just tell him you'll only do it if he does it for you.

[Princeofanons]

He should make his own breakfast... what a baby lmao

[Anonymous]

Lol, just offer him sex instead, this isn't the 50s

[kickme]

well, if you are both working then i understand your frustration, however if you have a flexible schedule and her does not (If your job is homemaker) then get off your spoiled fat ass

[iwdlxs]

So why do you do that? Don't if you don't want it.

[Anonymous]

That's the least you can doing he is going out to work while you laze about at home.

[Asker]

Look man my sleep means a lot to me and can't do this breakfast shit for him. I fucking give him lunch and dinner and do his bullshit laundry...

[Opinion Owner]

Are you a housewife? If you are, then that's the least you can do. I mean housewives can destroy men in divorce courts. They can steal men's homes, most their income and their children. So make breakfast honey, then go back to sleep

[Asker]

Wow just wow. I have no say. I'm not a human being I guess.

[__Victoria__]

Tell him you don't like this you are not his slave

[TadCurious]

So what is your question?

[NajemEddine]

yet u still take his money

[Asker]

Oh please. Give me a break. I give him love and support just cause I don't make him fuckin breakfast doesn't make me a damn gold digger.

[NajemEddine]

love and support what kind of money is that 😊

[Asker]

Guys are jerks. What do you want me to do? Jumping in the air..

[NajemEddine]

that would be a great start 😊

[derp242]

tell him to make his own god damned breakfast

[Anonymous]

at least you have an s. o.

[EOTS1]

Why does doing your job piss you off?

[Asker]

I'm his wife not his mother! His stomach isnnt my problem.

[EOTS1]

It's the job of the Wife to cook for the Husband. Accept it.

[Asker]

Fucker. Mother fucker

[EOTS1]

What?

[Asker]

Screw you.

[EOTS1]

Haha, don't get angry. Just learn your place female.

[Asker]

I'm a human being! Not a cook or a doormat!

[EOTS1]

So you equate cooking breakfast for your Husband with being a "doormat"? Feminism has really done a number on you hasn't it?

[johnmichaei]

lmao