Sexuality isn't something you discover you just develop and get interested in the opposite sex it's just a thing we all kind of expect as kids. Things can go wrong though homosexuality , "asexuality" other downright nasty things can go wrong as well , serial rapists come from somewhere as do Hollywood producers. Here is a study on the cause of homosexuality one gay man on here even highly recommended it who was very upset with me because of my views. He insisted that it was actually a refutation of me. Probably because it lends a lot of weight to the "born this why" view, but I'm not sure. nimbios. org/press/FS_homosexuality
I was honest to myself about what I was attracted to, and honest about what I wasn't attracted to. I never felt as if I SHOULD be attracted to something and forced myself to accept it. I never felt a need to be different, and tried to assume sexual desires that seemed against the norm, just so I could feel unique.
Are you sexually attracted exclusively to people with vaginas? You're a lesbian. Are you sexually attracted exclusively to people with penises? You're straight. Are you sexually attracted to people with either form of genitalia? You're bisexual. Are you sexually attracted to both genders as well as anything in between, such as transgendered or hermaphroditic folks? You're pansexual. Are you not sexually attracted to anyone, of any gender or orientation? You're asexual. Are you sexually attracted only to those you have an emotional connection with? You're demisexual.
i'm kinda still going through it, but I slowly realised i liked girls (after having a crush on one) i became aware of this and the pieces kinda fell into place. right now, i don't know if i'm lesbian or bisexual. i have a girlfriend somehow.
We are meant for one another, there isn't no other sexuality, it is just heterosexuality that we are all born as, then every other sexuality is just a choice.
Welp I knew women were attractive I knew it was unnatural and immoral to be with the same sex but I tested it out anyways and I never really found any guy attractive unless I mistook him for a chick and when I learned she were a he he was immediately unattractive and also given odd looks.
Fair enough then I would explore it with interactions not necessarily with sex but making friends, connections with different people see what makes you tick in your sexuality then you'll be able to find out.
Look at a pussy, does it turn you on? Look at a dick, does it turn you on? If those aren't the parameters you want to use for your judgement than try some things out, dating women, then try dating men. Which experience did you like?
I just one day found I was really attracted to women, and it never happened for guys and has never changed no matter what. So...
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Anonymous
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You're just attracted to it sexually. There's no need to actively find out what you like, you instincively already know. This movement is making people question themselves for no reason other than "you can be anything you feel like".
Which I felt comfortable with I have always had problems with my gender now I am non binary hate being a male but cannot be a female. You will difine who you are it takes time !!!
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Anonymous
(30-35)
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My d__k showed it to me. When it likes something, it becomes hard. When it doesn't, it remains soft. Simple.
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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I started to notice guys more then girls and slowly my interest changed to guys whoch is when I realized I was gay.
It looks like a complicated situation to me. Well, I personally don't believe in asexuality so I am not the right person to help you. Sorry!😊 good luck with your problem😊
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