Have you seen your good friend naked or seen you naked? Same gender or opposite gender? How did it happen? How did you both react to it?

[Anonymous]

[ZanyInternetName]

Not really naked, but due to some circumstances, which mustn't be elaborated on, a friend and I both had to use the same bathroom (which was sized similarly to those stalls for disabled individuals), where I did see his lower body naked. I didn't really react, it was nothing I hadn't seen before - although I averted my gaze out of basic courtesy.
Actually, I did react. For some reason his right upper leg is very hairy (not quite fur but it's getting there), which did surprise me (although I knew about it) and I did remark on it. That's all the reaction that I had.

[matchrestore]

I'm a nudist, so it's happened quite often. Even my non-nudist friends will use my sauna or hot tub nude when they are at my place. Both same and opposite gender. Most newbies are a little nervous at first, but they become pretty comfortable rather quick.

[k269c]

I've never gotten the chance to speak to a nudist before so sorry if you don't want to hear questions about it but do nudists sexualise certain body parts like we do or do you just see it for what it is?

[matchrestore]

@k269c I think in general we still do. Just like breasts and butts are sexualized even in clothing, they are in nudist culture as well. Its a lot easier to turn that sexualization off for nudists though. I'm not aroused by every nude woman I see, but I still am aroused by the right woman in the right circumstances, and I still find primary and secondary sex characteristics attractive on women. Does that make sense?

[k269c]

Yeah, it makes sense. I just always had this kind of opinion that if the free the nipple campaign does ever set off and girls start having their tits out, rates of sexual harassment and rape might go up to which I thought that introducing something like nudism would be a solution to desexualising breasts. But I'm not really sure what to think now. All these topics are very touchy. But I find it interesting that people can open themselves up completely like that and it's just normal. I imagine there's a lot more trust within your community (if I can call it that. I'm not sure if it's offensive)

[matchrestore]

@k269c I think if topless equality were passed that it would lessen the sexualization of breasts and nipples actually. If you're used to seeing nude breasts in non-sexual situations like on the beach, at a pool, breastfeeding, or catching sun in the park you're not going to instantly associate nude breasts with sex.

As for opening myself up completely by being nude, I guess after a while you just stop thinking of your body as something to hide. I feel like opening up in an emotional way is far more difficult. Everyone has genitals, not everyone has the same emotional and/or mental baggage. And while some places I am nude in public are places I'm familiar with and with people I'm familiar with, that isn't always the case. I don't live near a designated nude beach or resort, so I travel to them quite often, and I like to travel to new places each time, so a lot of the time its new people and places.

[matchrestore]

I've written two myTakes on the topic that you might find insightful: Growing Up In A Nudist Household ↗

Nudism And Arousal And Why You Shouldn't Worry About It ↗

[k269c]

Thanks. I'll have to give those a read

[SaskiaBlueRaySoul]

hi, i attended a hippy festival about 15 years ago with a solar shower set up for about ten people all together, that were just turn up get naked get washed, men, women, kids, teenagers alike. It was a first for me went in with my friend and just thought well we are all in the same boat... that experience actually changed me for the better... im still astounded at work how privy people are when getting changed... im far more cool with that than being naked with a new sexual conquest lol xx

[TeaGirl]

Yes, some of my best friends (all female). I even showered with some of them. We also gave each other back massages, bras are really uncomfortable in such a scenario. We don't mind, really. We've been friends for a really long time (8 years).

[Lolo_]

I've seen a few of my good female friends naked, and they've seen me. Usually when we're changing or something like that we don't mind it

[Poppykate]

No, but I am sure you have a story, you want to share... so let’s hear it! 🤔🍿

[Asker]

Lols

[RayDivine217]

I'm with @Poppykate, I'd love to hear this tale

[Poppykate]

@asker thanks for the MHG! 👍🏼But I wanted to hear the story.. 🤔

[Rahuliyer4977]

When I was younger, I had a friend of the opposite gender. I am a man. The friend was a woman. We had known each other as friends since grade school. We were now in university.

I had come home for the holidays after my term ended (between terms). I got a call from her soon after. She had just come come.

We made plans to meetup the following day. I went to her parents house to find her. Her parents were gone for the day. It was a nice warm day.

We went hiking on a trail near to us. I had my backpack of things. We talked. She recently had broken up with her boyfriend. I was still the single nerd. Just completed year one of my engineering. She was studying biology and premed. As we were walking in the woods, we passed by the lake we all knew growing up. She asked me if there were any towels in my backpack. I had two.

We both decided to go skinny dipping in the lake. We were at a secluded area. She removed her pants, shirt, bra, and panties. I also stripped naked and we went right into the lake to have fun.

We kind of laughed a bit as when we were in highschool together, we always joked about would we ever see each other naked. Just so happened now. We were just friends back in highschool.

We spent the week like like this... We each went back to our universities.. about 45 minutes apart from each other. We became boyfriend and girlfriend, and saw each other more on weekends. This was how it was until we graduated and she left for med-school.

In case you are wondering.. . yes we did ultimately sleep with each other a few times.. she lost her virginity to me, and I lost mine to her.

We still keep in touch, as we now have our own families and live far apart from each other.

[FE4R3D]

One time while playing Monopoly with my friends I went to get water and when I came back one of the pantsed me, except they pulled down my underwear too lol. All they saw was my flaccid wiener just there and I'm like wtf and quickly pull up my pants.

Good times

[chrisv]

Yes. Staying at my significant other’s best friend’s house for the weekend. Always sleep naked. My partner has pulled the covers off while I was asleep.. I had a massive hard on (sleeping remember). Her girlfriend peeked in the room and saw me. TOOK A PHOTO!! ( like who DOES that!).. Antway, at breakfast shows me the pic. Not my girl who was sitting opposite... I died of embarrassment. But never said a word...

[RayDivine217]

I've seen my buddies sister naked a couple of times. It started because one day we were at a cottage and she was sitting spread eagle on a chair reading a book, I noticed she was slipping out of her top and her bottoms which for me at that age was amazing to witness. I tried to accidentally walk in on her changing a couple of times, but funny enough I was visiting them years later and ended up walking in on her as she got of out the shower and we just laughed about it

[Jaximus-Lion]

I have a group of best friends, we are 9 persons 6 females and 3 males and we go to sauna all naked, no reactions what so ever, just enjoy and a cold beer is always goon in a sauna.

[Asker]

Sounds interesting

[Jaximus-Lion]

How and why?

[paleblue]

Me and my friend have seen each other naked like when getting dressed

[Asker]

So it wasn't awkward?

[paleblue]

Not really

[Asker]

Nice

[yamilaaah]

Mhhh I've seen my friends showering and that stuff And we just laugh and say thinks like damnnn that ass

[Anonymous]

No, but I’ve seen a few of my female cousins naked, as they’re apparently very comfortable with nudity. It was awkward for me because I’m an awkward person.

[BobbyC65]

I've seen them naked and they have seen me naked and they reacted to it find everybody in our house is normally half naked or completely naked.

[malachimccoy824]

One afternoon after school, I saw my friend, Heather undress before we went swimming

[Anonymous]

I have a good friend that is straight, but cares not at all who sees her naked like changing clothes or getting out of the shower.

[pantytexan]

A cousin has, not a friend. Now I'm not against it if they want to see me just ask

[Emilykat]

I’ve seen friends of both sexes naked and visa versa. Like when changing and stuff. Not a big deal for me

[nina2992]

I've seen my best friend naked changing her clothes and she didn't care while I am super shy

[MaleaskFemale]

Yes my friend's girlfriend. I 've been to frns place. When i open the door she is naked i turned and go out. May be they are making love.

[100lbguy]

I saw my female Best friend, instant regret

[Asker]

How did it happen?

[100lbguy]

She meant to send her nudes to her boyfriend but instead she sent it to me and when she notice, she stopped talking to me xD. IDC.

[Anonymous]

She did by mistake. We both ignored it

[pink1980]

Nope.