Is it normal to not mind it that a guy is chubby?

[Anonymous]

I don't really mind if my partner has a bit of belly or is chubby. I even find it better because then it means better/softer/warmer cuddles.

My boyfriend for example, has a really broad build as well as big biceps from exercising as well as having a small belly and a bit of fat on his arms (even tho he still has a lot of muscle there), from having stopped said exercises for a while. I don't mind it that he has a bit of belly (he used to have abs and I liked them but I'm more comfy with the soft belly) and I sometimes rest my head there because it's really soft...

Maybe it's because I am a bit chubby myself and seeing my boyfriend be like me makes me feel validated/comfy?

[Berethor]

Yes it's can be because you bit chubby yourself, but it's also common for girls to have less problem for it then guys, both because tend to care more about looks, and because a man chubbiness can still make him looks strong ( and therefore manly), in fact an chubby man tend to look stronger then a skinny man, and as you said he have a lot of muscles as well, so it's not surprising, and let me get, he also tall.

tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/StoutStrength

[Berethor]

I mean "both because guys tend to care more about looks".

[Berethor]

Ops, in the end I mean to say "and let me guess, he also tall". :)

[Asker]

You guessed right, he's 6'3" 😂😂😂
But tbh, it repeats itself. My exes include a chubby woman (5'2" and over 150 lbs), two broad built guys (wide shoulders, big chest, tall (5'11" and up), but average weight), and many of my crushes seem to follow that pattern, physically. Tall or at least taller than me (I'm 4'10) a bit of muscle, a bit of fat.

[rynlam]

Its normal, you love him for who he is

[OctaviaWoods]

Don’t worry, it’s perfectly normal. Guys come in all shapes and sizes. And you just happen to prefer those who are a little overweight.

[Aria92189]

Not at all. It means you like him for who he is and that’s a great thing!

[karahiri]

no, no big deal.