I don't know what to do I'm crying, I'm freaking out I don't know what to do please help me?

[Anonymous]

I'm a teen, in a relationship, we've had sex with a condom, and rubbed bare privates, not going in of course. We were both virgins when we met each other so none of us could have HPV but- I've been itching lots down there and after looking with a flash light, I saw a series of pimple looking type things, like a cluster, I was so concerned that I looked it up straight away, I found out I could have HPV or pimples- I could go to the doctor, but that would be admitting I had sex and I would never be able to see my boyfriend again losing the love of my life, or I could sit and see if they go away or do home treatment for pimples and see if something happens.. what do I do in shaking please help

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+1 y

There are no doctors around, my boyfriend did not lie to me were both too young to have had sex before that, I can't go to a doctor

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+1 y

I did not cheat, I am just concerned since I got his SPERM near it something could of somehow happened with both of us not having Hpv

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Well, the only way to get an STI is from sex. You can't get one without it. There are home sti tests you can buy & the cashier cannot say a word to you about it.

You give up your right to say "im too young to have sex" when youve had sex. I lost mine at 14, i know others who lost it at 12. If you aren't willing to accept what happens after you have sex, then you shouldn't have had it.

Condoms are NOT 100% effective against STIs or pregnancy because they can break. PreCum can get you pregnant & give you an STI.

[CrotchRot]

Do you shave? If you shaved prior to that, then it's likely just irritation.

If both of you were ACTUALLY virgins, the likelihood of you getting an STD is basically non-existent.

Also, HPV does not immediately show up like that. It usually sits dormant for months or YEARS before you develop warts, if you develop them at all.

[vald9inches]

From what i understand hpv is very common like more than 50% of people have it and some people don't even show sign or know they have it. So i wouldn't worry about it so much everyone eventually gets it and its a harmless std other than the occasional embarrassment but just give it some time see if it comes back and if it doesn't then it was just some pimples especially if you shaved down there

[MotorcycleMan]

HPV can come from other places besides sex. You may just have a rash, then again, it could be herpes, but I would definitely have it looked at by a doctor (the best place to get most medical advice). There are clinics that you can go to for free and/or anonymously. Sometimes you have to put down a name, but they won't check (use Trump). Find something in your area and have it looked at.

[Celtero]

Definitely sounds like herpes... Could be some sort of weird allergic reaction though I suppose. It is possible to transmit oral herpes to genitals, and oral herpes is very common and can be passed through simple things like kissing or even sharing a drinking cup, so maybe that's what happened with you.

[Anonymous]

Oh no, maybe it’s herpes zoster? It’s so contagious you could touch something someone with hsv 1 has touched after touching their lip with herpes for eg and get it:(. You didn’t have ‘sex’ so nothing to lie about and 50 percent of people eventually have hsv:(.

[Tututwerl09]

I think this little boyfriend of yours lied to you. Go to a doctor!!!

[Asker]

No he didn't I know he didn't

[Asker]

I can't go to a doctor

[Asker]

AND I DON'T WANNA BREAK UO WITH MY BOYFRIEND

[Tututwerl09]

You can't just up and get a disease if YOU didn't cheat. So which is it

[Asker]

No I didn't cheat I AM LITERALLY 14 so is he, no he didn't cheat at 14

[Tututwerl09]

You're the dumb one. I'm sorry. Why would u stay with someone who gave u herpes... you need therapy

[Asker]

I HAVE THERAPY, he did not have sex before me, I did not cheat, I got his sperm near my vagina now I have pimples in the opening

[boggboss]

If u think its a have I would honestly say to get it checked

[boggboss]

If u think its a sti*

[Asker]

I can't, I can't drive, I can't make an appointment myself without admitting that there's literally pimple looking things inside my vagina

[boggboss]

Lol clearly u can't be too young to have aex before because u had sex u can't self breed a sti it would have had to be given too you

[boggboss]

So admit to it you shouldn't have been having sex if u was not prepared to admit too it there is literally no other option either say nothing and risk your health or admit too it

[boggboss]

You are making shit up now did u never get sex ed his sperms could not have made somthing happened unless he had a sti

[Asker]

OKAY ILL TELL YOU EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED, SEX WITH A CONDOM, RUBBING WITH HIS PRE CUM NEAR MY VAGINA NOW I HAVE PIMPLES THERE, and no, this could be a coincidence that I have pimples there now, but I'm also rightfully concerned it could be something else

[boggboss]

Lol but nobody on gag can 100 percent tell u what it is sure it could be a coincidence but equally it sounds like a sti so what do u want

[Asker]

To die now, I've run out of options here haven't i

[boggboss]

No you have not you are just acting like a child when u no longer have that option when u decided to start having sex

[Wiredone]

Did you shave your pubic area? You might just have razor burn. Try putting aloe on it. If that doesn't help you need to get checked out. We are not doctors here. We can't diagnose you, only give you advice

[Jmmmfi4]

You're 8n a difficult position it you need to see a doctor

[Agape93]

Go to a free clinic and get checked out.

[Asker]

I can't I live in a small town with no free clinics around

[Agape93]

Then just go to a doctor. Fair chance it’s either nothing or your guy lied to you.

[lanadelrey25]

This is why kids shouldn't have sex.

[johnsmithjs]

get a home STD kit and send it to a lab