Why does everyone keep telling me to get a job when I'm trying to?

Anonymous
This is really annoying and it's actually affecting my dating life. Honestly I'm not even trying to date, but a guy I'm talking to and my ex... literally both of them tell daily to get a job or they say, "you need a job to keep you busy"... Um, thanks Sherlock!
Then my essential worker ex was throwing tantrums because I was on unemployment DUE TO COVID. My unemployment is ending and he got a attitude and said, "now you can watch tv on the weekends like the rest of us!" What? I never had a job where I was even off on weekends. Then he told me to stop hanging around people on unemployment!
I have my Own money, I have several hobbies and on top of that I'm always busy. Obviously I'm going to be getting a job and I've been wanting one for the past year but since shitty covid hit I haven't been able to find a job. Is it because I text people everyday? Like I don't get it. It's going to get to the point to where I get a job and then never talk to these two people again because they annoy me.
Why does everyone keep telling me to get a job when I'm trying to?
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