Is there a way to make a girl fall in love with you?

[RoyFinster]

I've been experiencing unrequited love for the longest. I've been fantasizing about this girl since I was 14 years old. Unfortunately I'll never get pass her friendzone. We've known each other since junior high (6th grade) and that's all she ever sees me as; as one of her good male friends.

I respect that but in my private moments, I can't help it but get jealous whenever she dates someone else, secretly wishing they would break up. She already has a boyfriend and they've been dating for 9 months now. I've wonder what do those guys have (the ones she dated and her current boyfriend) that I don't have. I could make her the most happiest woman ever. I can give her a family. I want kids too one day.

Is there really a way to make a girl fall in love with you? I've been searching about love spells. I wonder if that might help.

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If only she could see my worth and how I would make her happy.

[dustybiker]

Making someone loving you is not real love.
Unrequited love is brutal, but you do have to let them go.

[RoyFinster]

I know. It sucks. It would be great if she just gave me a chance. She'll never see me anyone beyond just a friend. I was once excited when I thought she blurted about loving me but it turned to sadness when she added ''like a sister loves her brother''. She loves as a sister... sucks.

[Anonymous]

No. You can iinfluence her decision by putting yourself in the best light. But at the end of the day if she's not feeling you. There's nothing that is going to change that.

[RoyFinster]

I guess it's time to forget about her as a girlfriend. I was willing to accept her not loving me in a romantic way if she would've dated me. If she gave me a chance that would've been my happiness, even if she didn't love me back. I'll never get out of her friendzone... sucks.

[Opinion Owner]

It's OK man. You're just giving her more weight than she deserves. We've all been there. The reality is she's only one of more than 3.5 billion other women on the planet. You've developed fee l ings for her so you're giving her more value than she deserves. You just can't see that because your brain is swimming in oxytocin right now.
My advice to you is write down all her bad points (they exist I assure you). Play them in your mind in and endless loop. Next talk to other women. When you see that there are other women just as capable of making you happy. You'll start to forget about what's her name. And for the future try not to put a woman on a pedestal till she's earned that spot. It'll save you heartache ( I know man easier said then done)

[In_Trance]

Be yourself and the right girl will fall in love with you

[RoyFinster]

Thank you. I guess I'll forget about this girl. I'll be moving on and give up on her. She only sees me as a friend, as a brother.

[emperor90]

Just be yourself

[RoyFinster]

I've been myself for years and she still sees me as a friend, as a brother... nothing beyond that. I was willing to compromise to be honest. If she would've told me ''RoyFinster I'll date you but I don't have romantic feelings for you but I'll give you a chance'' then I would've still accept that. But nope, she won't give me a chance.