I'm desperate please will you help me?

[Anonymous]

That's really hard but please don't laugh at me ok, i'm 24 years old and i'm still virgin, i really want to have sex but i'm afraid of that experience.
Please what should I do?

[SweetFyter]

Well, I can't really give any advice since I'm also a virgin. All I know is I don't know when I'll "lose" that (I don't like saying "lose" since you're really volunteering to "give it away" so to speak). Anyway, I admit there is SO much I want to try, but for me, the biggest hurdle is finding the right guy. And I worry sometimes that I will NEVER find the right guy. I know guys get more mature and less stupid when they get older (THANKFULLY) but they still seem to be TOTALLY obsessed by sex and only sex (except maybe video games, too). But finding a guy who would be a friend, then more than a friend and then... yeah, where are THOSE guys? They're all married, I think.

But, so I guess my thought is the FIRST thing is to find the person you like a lot... then see where it goes. Remember, we get horny, too. So, I hope you find her soon (she's probably looking for you, too). I have a LOT of questions but, I think that if you both feel the same, the questions won't matter - you'll figure out the answers together. That's what I think.

[Asker]

Thank you i really appreciate that

[PhoenixAl]

I understand you. Different people feel different about their first experience. Don't be afraid. It is something very human and if you free yourself completely trust me you will thank yourself for doing it because intimacy can not be replaced by anything else.

[Snakeyes7]

Go ahead and throw whatever you are willing into having sex but sex alone won't be the solution of at all. The act of sex will fall on deaf ears if the woman you have sex with had no vested interest in you.

I think you are truly looking for companionship from the opposite sex. A partner who is actually happy to see you and will look for every excuse to be in your company. Sex will feel so much more fulfilling when that connection is there.

[AviatorTom]

There's no reason to be afraid of sex... but you are. Maybe you can watch some couples porn, where married couples make love with each other, and see how nice sex can be.

[Asker]

You mean in real life!

[AviatorTom]

No, I mean online porn, specifically the category of "couples porn".

[Kyle-Jackson78]

Just have it. It will be very awkward your first time. you will also be nervous and hell. try with someone you love. Or go on a hookup app. .. why are you afraid of it. What are you afraid of? not performing well? being judged?

[Asker]

Not performing well

[Kyle-Jackson78]

even if you are a one pump chump eat her out or finger her until her back bends. Watch some videos to learn it. Or if your like me and like both. Do it with a guy and let him take the lead 😏

[Asker]

Oh no 😂 😂

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

What are you afraid of?
Every person starts off having sex completely inexperienced.
It’s normal. No one can really help you except yourself.

[Asker]

Thanks 😊😊 you just made my day

[PrettyPriya]

What exactly are you nervous about? It isn’t the big deal you make it to be.

[Asker]

I don't know exactly i'm just afraid of the whole experience.

[PrettyPriya]

Ok, calm yourself. Want some expert advice mixed with some reality? Just trying to be helpful.

[Asker]

Ok you as a expert what should i do?
I mean is there a way to beat this?

[PrettyPriya]

Expert considering your familiarity, yes. Expert in sex. No. Let me just tell you this…. it can be your first or hundredth time.

If it is with a new partner, it is awkward and clumsy. That is just the nature of getting to know a partner intimately. There should be no expectations.

Just enjoy the experience with that person. It gets better in time. Don’t sweat the small stuff.

[Browneye57]

You need a shrink.
Then go here for your man-makeover: www.theartofmanliness.com

Or hire a hooker.

[In_Trance]

Put in the time and work that other guys do. Nobody can do it for you

[Asker]

It's not that easy, i'm totally afraid of the whole experience.

[In_Trance]

It's as easy or difficult as you make it.

[Asker]

Any advices please?

[In_Trance]

Stop with the irrational fear for starters

[whosnumber1]

relax, sex takes practice. the best thing you can do is just focus on what your partner likes. all guys start out like a dog humping a football

[Nerdvana]

Sex isn't the problem. You inability to deal with the unknown is

[Anonymous]

Hahaha, what kind of guy is afraid to have sex? Women hate men that are scared of intimacy, women need sex from a real man that is brave and not afraid to take risks. I'd say man up boy.

[Anonymous]

Hire a sex worker and they will teach you anything you want. They will not laugh at you unless you pay them to

[Anonymous]

Man up. It is not complicated.

[Kyle-Jackson78]

wow thats helpful🤣

[Asker]

Please understand me, it's not easy, i'm just afraid ok, maybe i finish sooner or inside her.
I feel it's a responsibility

[boobliker]

go buy a girl it not hard

[Waldoe]

talk to a few prostitutes, pick one and pay her

[prosmind]

Don't you have any girlfriend?