I would like to hear from blue users only. A little story behind this question is, i’m a boring person, i have bland personality. I’m not smart but also not dumb as fuck. Quite the general knowledge if i can tell. I have a lot of friends, but only 3 close friends; not quite close but we get along well (1 is friends for 4 years, the other 2 is friends for more than 14 years). The issue here for me, i feel i’m getting even more bland on my personality as i grew older, hence why people don’t even bat an eye on me. Small talks are regular, but i want to make more friends so i can improve myself socially. I don't know if this happened to me basically because i’m not as attractive as other girls nowadays. But idc about my face, i accepted it (LOL) so that is why i wanna work on my personality. I wanna be bubbly, fun, and easy going plus less awkward.
I want something more unique in my traits that can make people love to be my friends.
WHAT IS A UNIQUE GIRL TO YOU?
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A Unique Girl (or person in general) to me, is someone who doesn't behave like all the other sheep in society (predictable and obedient), has intelligence, doesn't blame all their problems and issues in life on someone/something else (which MOST women do, by default), and actually cares more about making an impact in life and being remembered positively for something, rather than just existing like the rest of the useless cattle that makes up humanity.
While this describes MOST people, in my experience, women are even more boring, basic, and bland, than even men are. Almost everyone I've met in my life who I considered actually worth talking to, were men. That is not to say, there were no women. But I can remember maybe only three women in my ENTIRE LIFE, who weren't boring but also weren't horrible people. Usually, people are one or the other.
See if i talk about myself i am an below average looking guy, not even have 2-3 friends , not much outside going guy just go when i have any work to do. No socializing skills at all , poor at communications , never had any relationship , See that's how i am and if anyone have to accept me they would accept me as i am.
So as in your case you are far better than me and beleive me if anyone have to accept you they will accept you as how you are. 😊
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I find it hard to make friends and socialize with people these days. Somehow i think it’s also because of my looks or i’m not famous / don’t have thousands of followers and likes on social media
That's what i told you if you are pretty and have followers then this world will look at you but someone who would accpet as who you are would be great.
I know a girl from high school, she is far less attractive than i am, she has lots of friends and no difficulties in socializing and make new friends with anyone and anywhere. Then i look deeper to a conclusion that this girl is really good at conversing and the way she talk to people is very engaging. I want that power in me
Dont try to force being something you're not as people will be drawn to the fake part of you and you'll have to keep up the fake persona to keep those people around. You won't be able to truly be yourself which can get very exhausting over time if you have to wear a mask all the time.
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“Fake it till you make it” 🙄 I guess i need that to be applied in my life or i’ll never improve, i want a change in my life, i want people to see me as someone with a uniqueness in me. I don’t like being bland like this. I’m not forcing anything, im just trying to improve myself to be a better version of me
Are you asking how to increase your superficial social interactions, or are you asking how to make deeper connections with people? If you want the former, just pretend you're something you're not and practice acting. If you want the latter, discover and develop your interests, so you have something of value to share with those interested in the same things. Not everyone will share your interests, but are you looking for quantity or quality?
A girl is unique if she participates in activities that are unusual or she has a specific talent or affinity towards something. It could be she is a great singer, or drives in demolition derbies. She could have the ability to communicate with me on a much deeper level than others. Or maybe displays unusual kindness and honesty.
Someone that is trustworthy, has an acceptable past, thinks logically, initiates affection, and is into BOTH sporty/physical activities and board games. That would be unique and awesome in my opinion.
These days "unique" is a girl who hasn't been run through more times than a yellow light.
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Have you tried ass kissing? 🤣
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No. Tutorial pls?🤣
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Tutorialll
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Just observe some of the gut simps on here... it's like that. But if you want to be successful at it try not to be as obvious as them. 🤣
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That’s too pathetic, wtf is wrong with u lol 🤣
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What is wrong with me? You're asking how to make friends? If you have to ask you're clearly the f***ed up one. Also this was advice for you, not me. I don't have this problem. 🤣
